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Guava Jelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jan-06-06 05:50 PM
Response to Reply #14
15. I would like her to be honest and be in love again
or leave me and find out if that makes her happy.
shit i dunno.
i been in this rut since mid sept.
and its not getting any better
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  -How do you tell your mate you know they arent in love w/you?? GoPsUx  Jan-06-06 05:04 PM   #0 
  - By becoming an extremely selfish lover  JVS   Jan-06-06 05:06 PM   #1 
  - I want her to love me  GoPsUx   Jan-06-06 05:08 PM   #3 
     - Forget about that. Just try to get as much as you can before the ship...  JVS   Jan-06-06 05:11 PM   #5 
        - been on this ship for 17 years  GoPsUx   Jan-06-06 05:12 PM   #6 
  - Be honest  Whoa_Nelly   Jan-06-06 05:07 PM   #2 
  - Yup. n/t  redqueen   Jan-06-06 05:09 PM   #4 
  - honest hugh  GoPsUx   Jan-06-06 05:23 PM   #8 
     - Even after you're honest about how you know?  Whoa_Nelly   Jan-06-06 05:25 PM   #9 
        - at that point trurh takes a back stage to anger  GoPsUx   Jan-06-06 05:27 PM   #10 
           - Your anger or hers?  Whoa_Nelly   Jan-06-06 05:30 PM   #11 
  - Leave a note in her journal.  rug   Jan-06-06 05:15 PM   #7 
  - You've been together for 17 years?  skygazer   Jan-06-06 05:40 PM   #12 
  - you hit the nail on the head  GoPsUx   Jan-06-06 05:45 PM   #13 
     - Because she is thinking about one guy?  tjdee   Jan-06-06 06:48 PM   #24 
     - If she's ..  sendero   Jan-06-06 08:12 PM   #27 
     - oh for the love of--!  pitohui   Jan-06-06 09:38 PM   #43 
  - How would you want HER to respond if the situation was reversed?  satireV   Jan-06-06 05:48 PM   #14 
  - I would like her to be honest and be in love again  GoPsUx   Jan-06-06 05:50 PM   #15 
     - I understand.. how about this...  satireV   Jan-06-06 05:59 PM   #18 
  - Why is she seeking love elsewhere? Where is your romance?  bleedingheart   Jan-06-06 05:57 PM   #16 
  - I have done all that  GoPsUx   Jan-06-06 05:59 PM   #17 
  - perhaps it is time you confront her...  bleedingheart   Jan-06-06 06:01 PM   #19 
  - The other person can't compete with trust and experience..  satireV   Jan-06-06 06:01 PM   #20 
  - You know...  sendero   Jan-06-06 08:15 PM   #28 
     - I didn't mean to imply it was all his fault....  bleedingheart   Jan-06-06 09:39 PM   #44 
     - "implied a lot"..  sendero   Jan-07-06 06:07 AM   #55 
     - I agree with you -- and I'm a woman  LostinVA   Jan-06-06 09:53 PM   #47 
  - Respectfully...  Opposite Reaction   Jan-06-06 06:02 PM   #21 
  - I've been in "love" while married..  Texasgal   Jan-06-06 06:02 PM   #22 
  - She'll get over it and see how great you are? I don't know that you should  tjdee   Jan-06-06 06:46 PM   #23 
  - My theory:  elehhhhna   Jan-06-06 06:55 PM   #25 
     - Very well put and exactly right.  MichiganVote   Jan-06-06 10:16 PM   #52 
  - thank you fort all whom have given thier 2 cents  GoPsUx   Jan-06-06 08:07 PM   #26 
  - You're making a huge fucking mistake!  khashka   Jan-06-06 08:32 PM   #29 
  - Mother of God. I hope to hell you are about 19, and not planning  Thtwudbeme   Jan-06-06 08:40 PM   #30 
  - I was married  khashka   Jan-06-06 08:56 PM   #32 
  - You know what? I shouldn't have answered your post  Thtwudbeme   Jan-06-06 09:01 PM   #34 
  - We do disagree on values  khashka   Jan-06-06 09:15 PM   #38 
     - Us evil pagans  Mobius   Jan-06-06 09:28 PM   #40 
     - Go get 'em Khash  mongo   Jan-07-06 11:37 AM   #59 
  - khash's advice is actually correct  pitohui   Jan-06-06 09:44 PM   #45 
     - Thanks pitohui  khashka   Jan-06-06 10:43 PM   #54 
  - What?  Mobius   Jan-06-06 09:22 PM   #39 
     - Yes, but not if one partner believes in monogamy and thinks the other one  LostinVA   Jan-06-06 09:58 PM   #49 
  - Totally agree!  Amaya   Jan-06-06 08:43 PM   #31 
     - well,  Mobius   Jan-06-06 09:31 PM   #41 
  - If you can afford it, make her want YOU..  SoCalDem   Jan-06-06 08:58 PM   #33 
  - Shit. You play hardball!  Thtwudbeme   Jan-06-06 09:03 PM   #36 
     - Not hardball, just 36 years of being married  SoCalDem   Jan-06-06 09:09 PM   #37 
  - Just wait till she reads your DU posts.  whoisalhedges   Jan-06-06 09:02 PM   #35 
  - no good could possibly come of such a conversation  pitohui   Jan-06-06 09:35 PM   #42 
  - actually to her it feels like a highschool locker crush  GoPsUx   Jan-06-06 09:56 PM   #48 
  - Has anyone been in the same situation here and got over it??  GoPsUx   Jan-06-06 09:52 PM   #46 
  - Get over having snooped and learned that you're not a God? or...  MichiganVote   Jan-06-06 10:12 PM   #50 
  - has anyone else's spouse had fantasies abt someone else?  pitohui   Jan-06-06 10:12 PM   #51 
  - There's a difference between being in love and love and infatuation....  politicat   Jan-06-06 10:41 PM   #53 
  - Whoa! You are way off base  Onlooker   Jan-07-06 07:10 AM   #56 
  - "Put the gun down" is a good way.  Frank Cannon   Jan-07-06 08:43 AM   #57 
  - Be real and get in counseling.  Evergreen Emerald   Jan-07-06 09:09 AM   #58 
 

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