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In_The_Wind Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-21-05 01:33 PM
Response to Reply #108
215. Sometimes I feel the same way about men.
They seem to like me better after I'm pissed off at them. :shrug: What's up with that.
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  -I finally have women figured out!!! JohnnyCougar  Nov-19-05 04:53 AM   #0 
  - its called nice guy syndrome  GoPsUx   Nov-19-05 05:03 AM   #1 
  - But I'm fun, too!  JohnnyCougar   Nov-19-05 05:07 AM   #2 
  - More like, if a guy is being nice they must be "up to something"  BuffyTheFundieSlayer   Nov-19-05 05:08 AM   #3 
  - What the fuck!!! I'm not up to anything!  JohnnyCougar   Nov-19-05 05:12 AM   #4 
     - Isn't that what every guy is up to?  BuffyTheFundieSlayer   Nov-19-05 05:14 AM   #6 
        - Well, of course.  JohnnyCougar   Nov-19-05 05:20 AM   #8 
           - It's nice to know there are guys out there who feel that way  BuffyTheFundieSlayer   Nov-19-05 05:23 AM   #9 
              - Nice for you!  JohnnyCougar   Nov-19-05 05:26 AM   #10 
                 - Well, technically it doesn't matter to me  BuffyTheFundieSlayer   Nov-19-05 05:28 AM   #11 
  - Some women do like jerks. (many don't).  philosophie_en_rose   Nov-19-05 10:00 AM   #82 
  - I've seen that too. Taming the savage beast, as it were.  tjdee   Nov-19-05 10:04 AM   #83 
     - There's that, but I think it's worse with her.  philosophie_en_rose   Nov-19-05 09:25 PM   #173 
  - It's paradoxical, to be sure.  Arkana   Nov-19-05 12:30 PM   #100 
  - Sylvia Plath quoting Friedrich Nietzsche  wicasa   Nov-19-05 01:28 PM   #119 
  - Deep down, women hate themselves  DiverDave   Nov-19-05 05:13 AM   #5 
  - thanks  salin   Nov-19-05 06:20 AM   #14 
  - no, becasue then these guys would have to admit that they are choosing  bettyellen   Nov-19-05 09:02 AM   #67 
  - or perhaps that their version of "being nice"  salin   Nov-19-05 09:18 AM   #73 
  - or even more common, when they think shallow compliments and buying  bettyellen   Nov-19-05 09:51 AM   #80 
  - You nailed it, too.  Tallison   Nov-20-05 05:58 AM   #180 
  - You nailed it.  Tallison   Nov-20-05 05:57 AM   #179 
  - I think...  fudge stripe cookays   Nov-19-05 05:07 PM   #161 
  - Sounds like Diverdave digs women who hate themselves  Tallison   Nov-20-05 06:00 AM   #181 
  - I agree completely. nt  raccoon   Nov-21-05 08:07 AM   #206 
  - People who are fucked in the head usually attract  Tallison   Nov-20-05 06:11 AM   #182 
  - So true.  Jamastiene   Nov-19-05 05:18 AM   #7 
  - Guess you got burned.  AirmensMom   Nov-19-05 06:15 AM   #12 
  - heh  salin   Nov-19-05 06:21 AM   #15 
  - now that belief  salin   Nov-19-05 06:17 AM   #13 
  - Allright...allright.  JohnnyCougar   Nov-19-05 12:44 PM   #107 
     - Yes, but most depressed women have serious self esteem  smirkymonkey   Nov-19-05 02:14 PM   #124 
        - I don't think it's an inferiority/superiority thing  JohnnyCougar   Nov-21-05 06:57 PM   #221 
  - This man has women figured out and he has men figured out too:  chknltl   Nov-19-05 06:29 AM   #16 
  - I would guess that he is popular with  salin   Nov-19-05 06:37 AM   #17 
  - wooo-hooo  chknltl   Nov-19-05 06:46 AM   #18 
  - "VERY popular with folks who want to get laid"???  Seabiscuit   Nov-19-05 04:25 PM   #158 
     - An opinion shared by many but not by myself.  chknltl   Nov-20-05 07:35 AM   #192 
     - Oh, I'll be happy to tell you why I object to Tom Leykis and his  JulieRB   Nov-21-05 10:14 AM   #212 
        - Well put. Leykis is nothing but a blowhard with an axe to grind against  Seabiscuit   Nov-21-05 01:10 PM   #213 
        - Wow  chknltl   Nov-21-05 01:28 PM   #214 
           - And your point would be?  JulieRB   Nov-21-05 02:43 PM   #217 
              - not my point...your point:  chknltl   Nov-21-05 03:15 PM   #219 
     - Hey, I'm a male who doesn't consider himself extremely immature  hobo_baggins   Nov-20-05 04:25 PM   #201 
        - It's not a condemnation. I was there for years myself.  Seabiscuit   Nov-21-05 10:01 AM   #210 
  - That's not true!  Joan_Alpern   Nov-19-05 06:48 AM   #19 
  - Aww...thanks!  JohnnyCougar   Nov-19-05 12:46 PM   #108 
     - Sometimes I feel the same way about men.  Joan_Alpern   Nov-21-05 01:33 PM   #215 
        - If you're pissed off, the think they did something wrong  JohnnyCougar   Nov-21-05 06:42 PM   #220 
           - I'm very easygoing so if I'm pissed off, they did do something wrong ...  Joan_Alpern   Nov-21-05 07:14 PM   #222 
  - a lot of times guys come across as fake  JI7   Nov-19-05 06:55 AM   #20 
  - No I have them figured out  Wetzelbill   Nov-19-05 07:08 AM   #21 
  - Spoken like a man with a real clue!  havocmom   Nov-19-05 08:29 AM   #35 
     - I learned the hard way  Wetzelbill   Nov-19-05 09:14 AM   #71 
        - Grasshopper, you continue to give me hope for the future.  havocmom   Nov-19-05 09:37 AM   #74 
        - oh lord me in a lingerie store would be a disaster  Wetzelbill   Nov-19-05 09:45 AM   #75 
           - She needs flexible work hours to allow her to take courses she wants.  havocmom   Nov-19-05 09:48 AM   #77 
              - oh we're all pretty clueless  Wetzelbill   Nov-19-05 09:51 AM   #79 
                 - LOL Alrighty then, she is gonna be sitting pretty  havocmom   Nov-19-05 10:51 AM   #91 
        - I think we attract our spiritual equivalent.  smirkymonkey   Nov-19-05 02:03 PM   #123 
           - if you like yourself  tigereye   Nov-19-05 02:53 PM   #127 
           - smirkymonkey & tigereye, very good posts!  bushwentawol   Nov-19-05 03:48 PM   #153 
              - thanks BWA  tigereye   Nov-19-05 10:55 PM   #174 
           - You got it, smirkymonkey. nt  raccoon   Nov-21-05 08:12 AM   #207 
  - There's absolutely  Simply Fugue   Nov-19-05 07:32 AM   #22 
  - its NEVER too early for...  matcom   Nov-19-05 07:36 AM   #23 
  - My watch must be running fast.  GOPisEvil   Nov-19-05 08:21 AM   #26 
     - i think daylight savings time threw us off  matcom   Nov-19-05 08:24 AM   #29 
     - It's time we did away with DST.  GOPisEvil   Nov-19-05 08:26 AM   #30 
     - no.  matcom   Nov-19-05 08:30 AM   #36 
        - if we invite zomby  salin   Nov-19-05 08:33 AM   #42 
        - Maybe we can combine the fried chicken and the boiled ribs flamewars.  GOPisEvil   Nov-19-05 08:36 AM   #49 
           - only if the "Definition of chef" flamewar can be thrown in as well  salin   Nov-19-05 08:39 AM   #52 
              - "Culinary Flame War Thursday"  GOPisEvil   Nov-19-05 08:41 AM   #54 
                 - microwave, stovetop or popper?  salin   Nov-19-05 08:42 AM   #56 
                    - Hey! It's not Thursday!  GOPisEvil   Nov-19-05 08:45 AM   #58 
                       - dang anticipation is getting the best of me.  salin   Nov-19-05 08:49 AM   #60 
                          - Thanks for the Carly earworm.  GOPisEvil   Nov-19-05 08:51 AM   #61 
                             - catsup or ketchup?  salin   Nov-19-05 08:57 AM   #63 
                                - !!  GOPisEvil   Nov-19-05 08:59 AM   #64 
        - OK, as long as it's in the morning.  GOPisEvil   Nov-19-05 08:35 AM   #46 
     - When's the next "breastfeeding in public" one scheduled for?  Arkana   Nov-19-05 12:32 PM   #102 
        - sign me up for that one  tigereye   Nov-19-05 02:55 PM   #128 
     - You guys want some milk & sugar with your, ahem, corn puffs?  havocmom   Nov-19-05 08:33 AM   #43 
  - I finally have men figured out!!!  Misunderestimator   Nov-19-05 07:56 AM   #24 
  - shhhhh  Wetzelbill   Nov-19-05 08:23 AM   #28 
  - Hey... weren't you going to stay out of this thread?  Misunderestimator   Nov-19-05 08:35 AM   #44 
     - I become emboldened when my friends show up  Wetzelbill   Nov-19-05 08:36 AM   #48 
        - LOL  Misunderestimator   Nov-19-05 08:36 AM   #50 
           - never miss an opportunity  Wetzelbill   Nov-19-05 08:39 AM   #53 
              - Yep, you do have some potential in politics  havocmom   Nov-19-05 09:47 AM   #76 
                 - aren't they pretty much the same thing nowadays?  Wetzelbill   Nov-19-05 09:52 AM   #81 
                    - Can I get a rimshot for WB? My snare drum is in the shop  havocmom   Nov-19-05 10:52 AM   #92 
                       - You got it...  Misunderestimator   Nov-19-05 11:02 AM   #93 
                          - ha!  Wetzelbill   Nov-19-05 09:11 PM   #172 
  - There You Go! The Real Truth Is Here!  Joan_Alpern   Nov-19-05 08:27 AM   #31 
     - :)  Misunderestimator   Nov-19-05 09:50 AM   #78 
  - I've always been a nice guy & have married two babes  NewJeffCT   Nov-19-05 08:09 AM   #25 
  - are you serious?  Wetzelbill   Nov-19-05 08:22 AM   #27 
  - yes, I'm serious  NewJeffCT   Nov-19-05 08:28 AM   #33 
     - does she have twin or a sister that's available?  Wetzelbill   Nov-19-05 08:31 AM   #38 
        - yes 2 master's degrees  NewJeffCT   Nov-19-05 08:33 AM   #40 
           - no kidding  Wetzelbill   Nov-19-05 08:35 AM   #45 
              - you might have to wait a bit  NewJeffCT   Nov-19-05 09:00 AM   #66 
                 - hey, I like housework  Wetzelbill   Nov-19-05 09:07 AM   #69 
                    - she does have a cousin from Shanghai then!  NewJeffCT   Nov-19-05 09:14 AM   #70 
                       - I'm down either way  Wetzelbill   Nov-19-05 09:17 AM   #72 
  - ...  Arkana   Nov-19-05 12:34 PM   #105 
     - thanks, I know I'm very lucky  NewJeffCT   Nov-19-05 12:39 PM   #106 
  - The Time to Be 'Nice' Is *After* You've Figured Out What You Want And ...  Crisco   Nov-19-05 08:27 AM   #32 
  - Spoken like a chap with a history of attraction to the wrong women.  havocmom   Nov-19-05 08:28 AM   #34 
  - yeah, what she said  Wetzelbill   Nov-19-05 08:32 AM   #39 
  - Exactly, havocmom! And the same could be said for women  raccoon   Nov-19-05 10:14 AM   #85 
  - That ol defination of insanity applies...  havocmom   Nov-19-05 12:33 PM   #103 
  - See post 107  JohnnyCougar   Nov-19-05 12:49 PM   #109 
  - Maybe you have BIMBOS figured out....  tjdee   Nov-19-05 08:31 AM   #37 
  - guess nice could also be misconstrued..  salin   Nov-19-05 08:35 AM   #47 
     - salient point, salin  datasuspect   Nov-19-05 08:37 AM   #51 
     - funny how on these threads  salin   Nov-19-05 08:41 AM   #55 
        - it would be interesting  datasuspect   Nov-19-05 08:43 AM   #57 
        - very insidious  salin   Nov-19-05 08:59 AM   #65 
        - And the insidious ways in which such hatred betrays itself  Tallison   Nov-20-05 06:27 AM   #183 
        - I'm with you guys.  tjdee   Nov-19-05 08:52 AM   #62 
        - yes good point, TJ  tigereye   Nov-19-05 02:58 PM   #130 
        - Good point, Salin. So let's hear it, JohnnyCougar et al,  raccoon   Nov-19-05 10:47 AM   #90 
           - Define nice guy...ok  JohnnyCougar   Nov-19-05 01:09 PM   #114 
              - That would be my idea of a dream man!  smirkymonkey   Nov-19-05 02:20 PM   #125 
              - but that sounds very good -  tigereye   Nov-19-05 02:59 PM   #131 
              - Too vague for me still.  tjdee   Nov-19-05 03:07 PM   #135 
              - To clarify...  JohnnyCougar   Nov-19-05 03:40 PM   #148 
                 - You're right, that's exactly what I was doing.  tjdee   Nov-19-05 03:46 PM   #151 
                    - Emotional risk...  JohnnyCougar   Nov-19-05 04:00 PM   #157 
              - That, for me, is the main thing I'm looking for,  raccoon   Nov-21-05 08:20 AM   #209 
     - There's no way I'd ever pull that shit.  JohnnyCougar   Nov-19-05 01:03 PM   #111 
        - Women don't call back for a wide variety of reasons  Tallison   Nov-20-05 06:34 AM   #185 
  - that sentiment is so "miami vice"  datasuspect   Nov-19-05 08:33 AM   #41 
  - Hell, even Feynman figured that out, and he was one of the smartest  DS1   Nov-19-05 08:46 AM   #59 
  - Per JohnnyCougar... this guy must get ALL the dates:  salin   Nov-19-05 09:03 AM   #68 
  - I can't resist posting a bit of Bill Hicks  Monkey see Monkey Do   Nov-19-05 10:09 AM   #84 
  - ................  bushwentawol   Nov-19-05 10:15 AM   #86 
  - Here's one possible explanation of this "nice guy syndrome,"  raccoon   Nov-19-05 10:26 AM   #87 
  - nutshell post  salin   Nov-19-05 10:34 AM   #89 
  - Yep, that's the ticket! n/t  I Have A Dream   Nov-19-05 01:34 PM   #121 
  - You're right on.  Tallison   Nov-20-05 07:00 AM   #189 
  - I think it's time to read this book:  bullwinkle428   Nov-19-05 10:32 AM   #88 
  - well nice isn't supposed to mean "doormat" either  tigereye   Nov-19-05 03:02 PM   #132 
  - It takes lots of years for some of us to learn that, though! (n/t)  bullwinkle428   Nov-19-05 07:14 PM   #163 
  - Oh man... I read some excerpts, that's pretty pathetic!  Syncronaut Seven   Nov-19-05 03:21 PM   #139 
     - The contempt such titles betray is pernicious and chilling n/t  Tallison   Nov-20-05 07:06 AM   #190 
     - self-delete  Tallison   Nov-20-05 07:07 AM   #191 
  - you have discovered a universal truth that will take you far n/t  Blue_Tires   Nov-19-05 11:22 AM   #94 
  - Note: see Misunderestimator's note  salin   Nov-19-05 12:26 PM   #97 
  - Um....  Misunderestimator   Nov-19-05 12:27 PM   #99 
     - point - the post I responded to seemed to exemply your earlier post  salin   Nov-20-05 05:49 AM   #178 
        - Ah... sorry, I got a little confused.  Misunderestimator   Nov-20-05 08:16 AM   #193 
  - Note: see Misunderestimator's note  salin   Nov-19-05 12:26 PM   #98 
  - I finally have nice guys figured out  jmm   Nov-19-05 11:43 AM   #95 
  - Yup, that's me allright!  JohnnyCougar   Nov-19-05 01:12 PM   #115 
  - All women, all the time.  Left Is Write   Nov-19-05 11:48 AM   #96 
  - Nah...I'm not hurt that bad...  JohnnyCougar   Nov-19-05 01:20 PM   #118 
     - Telling her is good, but...  Dangerously Amused   Nov-19-05 03:23 PM   #141 
  - Bah.......  bleedingheart   Nov-19-05 12:32 PM   #101 
  - If you think you have them figured out, wait 5 minutes.  ET Awful   Nov-19-05 12:33 PM   #104 
  - You want women to like you?  supernova   Nov-19-05 12:49 PM   #110 
  - Ok...  JohnnyCougar   Nov-19-05 01:16 PM   #116 
  - Ooh. Consistently  Crisco   Nov-19-05 03:45 PM   #150 
  - hmm  JVS   Nov-19-05 01:08 PM   #112 
  - You did this on purpose didn't you?  ismnotwasm   Nov-19-05 01:09 PM   #113 
  - C'mon  JohnnyCougar   Nov-19-05 01:17 PM   #117 
     - True.  ismnotwasm   Nov-19-05 01:28 PM   #120 
  - Not all women (or men) really want a "relationshjp"  Nikia   Nov-19-05 01:46 PM   #122 
  - that is a very interesting analysis Nikia  tigereye   Nov-19-05 03:07 PM   #134 
  - No, There Is One Thing Worse Than a Guy Pretending to Be Your Friend ...  Crisco   Nov-20-05 12:27 PM   #196 
  - AAAAAARRRRRGGGGGHHHHH!  Lydia Leftcoast   Nov-19-05 02:41 PM   #126 
  - Read this whole thread.  JohnnyCougar   Nov-19-05 02:55 PM   #129 
  - Real nice guys  GirlinContempt   Nov-19-05 04:39 PM   #159 
     - I never said no girls like me.  JohnnyCougar   Nov-19-05 04:44 PM   #160 
        - Ahhhhhh  Crisco   Nov-20-05 12:40 PM   #197 
           - Nah, but this last girl I let her know right away.  JohnnyCougar   Nov-20-05 01:19 PM   #198 
              - Maybe, she is really stressed out w/ the money  Nikia   Nov-20-05 03:58 PM   #199 
              - I know she is stressed out because of money.  JohnnyCougar   Nov-20-05 05:04 PM   #203 
                 - I don't think that it would be stalking to call her one more time  Nikia   Nov-20-05 05:49 PM   #204 
              - Hmmm  Crisco   Nov-20-05 04:15 PM   #200 
  - yeah  uniden   Nov-19-05 03:05 PM   #133 
  - For women, OH yes.  tjdee   Nov-19-05 03:15 PM   #137 
  - and she is ...  uniden   Nov-19-05 03:21 PM   #140 
     - Maybe your problem is that you think you deserve Angelina Jolie  Lydia Leftcoast   Nov-19-05 03:28 PM   #142 
     - make her the Angelina Jolie  uniden   Nov-19-05 03:31 PM   #145 
        - The idea of settling makes me want to throw up.  tjdee   Nov-19-05 03:59 PM   #156 
           - I agree - I would rather be alone than settle.  smirkymonkey   Nov-19-05 05:11 PM   #162 
              - Better to be alone than to wish you were  Tallison   Nov-20-05 06:52 AM   #188 
     - For sure.  tjdee   Nov-19-05 03:30 PM   #143 
     - age, money, etc.  uniden   Nov-19-05 03:38 PM   #147 
        - Yes, and no.  tjdee   Nov-19-05 03:57 PM   #155 
     - It?  fudge stripe cookays   Nov-20-05 09:06 AM   #195 
  - Sounds like you speak for yourself  Tallison   Nov-20-05 06:49 AM   #187 
  - ding ding ding  tigereye   Nov-19-05 03:08 PM   #136 
  - Nice isn't always nice  Ellen Forradalom   Nov-19-05 03:19 PM   #138 
  - You must be a Young, Young man  new_beawr   Nov-19-05 03:31 PM   #144 
  - Ahh - misogeny. Gotta love it!  ChavezSpeakstheTruth   Nov-19-05 03:38 PM   #146 
  - Women are just people who aren't hung up about  Seabiscuit   Nov-19-05 03:41 PM   #149 
  - are they hung up  uniden   Nov-19-05 03:48 PM   #152 
     - Not as much as guys like to think  Lydia Leftcoast   Nov-19-05 03:51 PM   #154 
  - Never, ever believe you understand a woman.  BikeWriter   Nov-19-05 08:08 PM   #164 
  - It scares me when you and I agree so completely on something.  flvegan   Nov-19-05 08:09 PM   #165 
     - My last wife worshipped the ground I walked on for 15 years...  BikeWriter   Nov-19-05 08:17 PM   #166 
        - Was yours  flvegan   Nov-19-05 08:21 PM   #167 
           - Sorry to hear that. We can't live with them, can't live without them.  BikeWriter   Nov-19-05 08:26 PM   #168 
              - Not only can't, but wouldn't want to.  flvegan   Nov-19-05 08:29 PM   #169 
                 - I'm glad you're both happy out of it.  BikeWriter   Nov-19-05 08:49 PM   #170 
  - REFERENCE NOTE: for more truth, go here:  Blue_Tires   Nov-19-05 09:11 PM   #171 
  - Yes, that is right on the mark  Lydia Leftcoast   Nov-20-05 12:00 AM   #175 
  - it has certainly changed my philosophies on women  Blue_Tires   Nov-20-05 01:20 AM   #176 
  - What a steaming pile of crap.  JohnnyCougar   Nov-20-05 04:55 AM   #177 
  - being nice  uniden   Nov-20-05 09:01 AM   #194 
  - i definitely feel what you're saying  Blue_Tires   Nov-20-05 10:55 PM   #205 
  - Oh my God, what a spot-on commentary  Tallison   Nov-20-05 06:38 AM   #186 
  - Can you blame them?  HEyHEY   Nov-20-05 06:33 AM   #184 
  - I have women figured out more than anyone...listen up, this is important..  hobo_baggins   Nov-20-05 04:32 PM   #202 
  - I like a nice guy...  MissMillie   Nov-21-05 08:18 AM   #208 
  - Some of us like nice guys  LeftyMom   Nov-21-05 10:12 AM   #211 
  - Women are very simple. Here's how to figure them out.  JackDragna   Nov-21-05 02:13 PM   #216 
  - Most want an equal....  pdx_prog   Nov-21-05 02:49 PM   #218 
 

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