| -I finally have women figured out!!! |
JohnnyCougar |
Nov-19-05 04:53 AM |
#0 |
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its called nice guy syndrome |
GoPsUx |
Nov-19-05 05:03 AM |
#1 |
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But I'm fun, too! |
JohnnyCougar |
Nov-19-05 05:07 AM |
#2 |
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More like, if a guy is being nice they must be "up to something" |
BuffyTheFundieSlayer |
Nov-19-05 05:08 AM |
#3 |
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What the fuck!!! I'm not up to anything! |
JohnnyCougar |
Nov-19-05 05:12 AM |
#4 |
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Isn't that what every guy is up to? |
BuffyTheFundieSlayer |
Nov-19-05 05:14 AM |
#6 |
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Well, of course. |
JohnnyCougar |
Nov-19-05 05:20 AM |
#8 |
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It's nice to know there are guys out there who feel that way |
BuffyTheFundieSlayer |
Nov-19-05 05:23 AM |
#9 |
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Nice for you! |
JohnnyCougar |
Nov-19-05 05:26 AM |
#10 |
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Well, technically it doesn't matter to me |
BuffyTheFundieSlayer |
Nov-19-05 05:28 AM |
#11 |
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Some women do like jerks. (many don't). |
philosophie_en_rose |
Nov-19-05 10:00 AM |
#82 |
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I've seen that too. Taming the savage beast, as it were. |
tjdee |
Nov-19-05 10:04 AM |
#83 |
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There's that, but I think it's worse with her. |
philosophie_en_rose |
Nov-19-05 09:25 PM |
#173 |
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It's paradoxical, to be sure. |
Arkana |
Nov-19-05 12:30 PM |
#100 |
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Sylvia Plath quoting Friedrich Nietzsche |
wicasa |
Nov-19-05 01:28 PM |
#119 |
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Deep down, women hate themselves |
DiverDave |
Nov-19-05 05:13 AM |
#5 |
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thanks |
salin |
Nov-19-05 06:20 AM |
#14 |
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no, becasue then these guys would have to admit that they are choosing |
bettyellen |
Nov-19-05 09:02 AM |
#67 |
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or perhaps that their version of "being nice" |
salin |
Nov-19-05 09:18 AM |
#73 |
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or even more common, when they think shallow compliments and buying |
bettyellen |
Nov-19-05 09:51 AM |
#80 |
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You nailed it, too. |
Tallison |
Nov-20-05 05:58 AM |
#180 |
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You nailed it. |
Tallison |
Nov-20-05 05:57 AM |
#179 |
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I think... |
fudge stripe cookays |
Nov-19-05 05:07 PM |
#161 |
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Sounds like Diverdave digs women who hate themselves |
Tallison |
Nov-20-05 06:00 AM |
#181 |
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I agree completely. nt |
raccoon |
Nov-21-05 08:07 AM |
#206 |
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People who are fucked in the head usually attract |
Tallison |
Nov-20-05 06:11 AM |
#182 |
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So true. |
Jamastiene |
Nov-19-05 05:18 AM |
#7 |
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Guess you got burned. |
AirmensMom |
Nov-19-05 06:15 AM |
#12 |
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heh |
salin |
Nov-19-05 06:21 AM |
#15 |
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now that belief |
salin |
Nov-19-05 06:17 AM |
#13 |
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Allright...allright. |
JohnnyCougar |
Nov-19-05 12:44 PM |
#107 |
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Yes, but most depressed women have serious self esteem |
smirkymonkey |
Nov-19-05 02:14 PM |
#124 |
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I don't think it's an inferiority/superiority thing |
JohnnyCougar |
Nov-21-05 06:57 PM |
#221 |
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This man has women figured out and he has men figured out too: |
chknltl |
Nov-19-05 06:29 AM |
#16 |
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I would guess that he is popular with |
salin |
Nov-19-05 06:37 AM |
#17 |
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wooo-hooo |
chknltl |
Nov-19-05 06:46 AM |
#18 |
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"VERY popular with folks who want to get laid"??? |
Seabiscuit |
Nov-19-05 04:25 PM |
#158 |
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An opinion shared by many but not by myself. |
chknltl |
Nov-20-05 07:35 AM |
#192 |
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Oh, I'll be happy to tell you why I object to Tom Leykis and his |
JulieRB |
Nov-21-05 10:14 AM |
#212 |
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Well put. Leykis is nothing but a blowhard with an axe to grind against |
Seabiscuit |
Nov-21-05 01:10 PM |
#213 |
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Wow |
chknltl |
Nov-21-05 01:28 PM |
#214 |
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And your point would be? |
JulieRB |
Nov-21-05 02:43 PM |
#217 |
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not my point...your point: |
chknltl |
Nov-21-05 03:15 PM |
#219 |
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Hey, I'm a male who doesn't consider himself extremely immature |
hobo_baggins |
Nov-20-05 04:25 PM |
#201 |
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It's not a condemnation. I was there for years myself. |
Seabiscuit |
Nov-21-05 10:01 AM |
#210 |
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That's not true! |
Joan_Alpern |
Nov-19-05 06:48 AM |
#19 |
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Aww...thanks! |
JohnnyCougar |
Nov-19-05 12:46 PM |
#108 |
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Sometimes I feel the same way about men. |
Joan_Alpern |
Nov-21-05 01:33 PM |
#215 |
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If you're pissed off, the think they did something wrong |
JohnnyCougar |
Nov-21-05 06:42 PM |
#220 |
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I'm very easygoing so if I'm pissed off, they did do something wrong ... |
Joan_Alpern |
Nov-21-05 07:14 PM |
#222 |
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a lot of times guys come across as fake |
JI7 |
Nov-19-05 06:55 AM |
#20 |
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No I have them figured out |
Wetzelbill |
Nov-19-05 07:08 AM |
#21 |
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Spoken like a man with a real clue! |
havocmom |
Nov-19-05 08:29 AM |
#35 |
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I learned the hard way |
Wetzelbill |
Nov-19-05 09:14 AM |
#71 |
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Grasshopper, you continue to give me hope for the future. |
havocmom |
Nov-19-05 09:37 AM |
#74 |
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oh lord me in a lingerie store would be a disaster |
Wetzelbill |
Nov-19-05 09:45 AM |
#75 |
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She needs flexible work hours to allow her to take courses she wants. |
havocmom |
Nov-19-05 09:48 AM |
#77 |
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oh we're all pretty clueless |
Wetzelbill |
Nov-19-05 09:51 AM |
#79 |
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LOL Alrighty then, she is gonna be sitting pretty |
havocmom |
Nov-19-05 10:51 AM |
#91 |
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I think we attract our spiritual equivalent. |
smirkymonkey |
Nov-19-05 02:03 PM |
#123 |
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if you like yourself |
tigereye |
Nov-19-05 02:53 PM |
#127 |
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smirkymonkey & tigereye, very good posts! |
bushwentawol |
Nov-19-05 03:48 PM |
#153 |
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thanks BWA |
tigereye |
Nov-19-05 10:55 PM |
#174 |
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You got it, smirkymonkey. nt |
raccoon |
Nov-21-05 08:12 AM |
#207 |
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There's absolutely |
Simply Fugue |
Nov-19-05 07:32 AM |
#22 |
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its NEVER too early for... |
matcom |
Nov-19-05 07:36 AM |
#23 |
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My watch must be running fast. |
GOPisEvil |
Nov-19-05 08:21 AM |
#26 |
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i think daylight savings time threw us off |
matcom |
Nov-19-05 08:24 AM |
#29 |
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It's time we did away with DST. |
GOPisEvil |
Nov-19-05 08:26 AM |
#30 |
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no. |
matcom |
Nov-19-05 08:30 AM |
#36 |
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if we invite zomby |
salin |
Nov-19-05 08:33 AM |
#42 |
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Maybe we can combine the fried chicken and the boiled ribs flamewars. |
GOPisEvil |
Nov-19-05 08:36 AM |
#49 |
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only if the "Definition of chef" flamewar can be thrown in as well |
salin |
Nov-19-05 08:39 AM |
#52 |
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"Culinary Flame War Thursday" |
GOPisEvil |
Nov-19-05 08:41 AM |
#54 |
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microwave, stovetop or popper? |
salin |
Nov-19-05 08:42 AM |
#56 |
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Hey! It's not Thursday! |
GOPisEvil |
Nov-19-05 08:45 AM |
#58 |
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dang anticipation is getting the best of me. |
salin |
Nov-19-05 08:49 AM |
#60 |
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Thanks for the Carly earworm. |
GOPisEvil |
Nov-19-05 08:51 AM |
#61 |
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catsup or ketchup? |
salin |
Nov-19-05 08:57 AM |
#63 |
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!! |
GOPisEvil |
Nov-19-05 08:59 AM |
#64 |
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OK, as long as it's in the morning. |
GOPisEvil |
Nov-19-05 08:35 AM |
#46 |
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When's the next "breastfeeding in public" one scheduled for? |
Arkana |
Nov-19-05 12:32 PM |
#102 |
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sign me up for that one |
tigereye |
Nov-19-05 02:55 PM |
#128 |
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You guys want some milk & sugar with your, ahem, corn puffs? |
havocmom |
Nov-19-05 08:33 AM |
#43 |
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I finally have men figured out!!! |
Misunderestimator |
Nov-19-05 07:56 AM |
#24 |
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shhhhh |
Wetzelbill |
Nov-19-05 08:23 AM |
#28 |
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Hey... weren't you going to stay out of this thread? |
Misunderestimator |
Nov-19-05 08:35 AM |
#44 |
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I become emboldened when my friends show up |
Wetzelbill |
Nov-19-05 08:36 AM |
#48 |
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LOL |
Misunderestimator |
Nov-19-05 08:36 AM |
#50 |
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never miss an opportunity |
Wetzelbill |
Nov-19-05 08:39 AM |
#53 |
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Yep, you do have some potential in politics |
havocmom |
Nov-19-05 09:47 AM |
#76 |
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aren't they pretty much the same thing nowadays? |
Wetzelbill |
Nov-19-05 09:52 AM |
#81 |
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Can I get a rimshot for WB? My snare drum is in the shop |
havocmom |
Nov-19-05 10:52 AM |
#92 |
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You got it... |
Misunderestimator |
Nov-19-05 11:02 AM |
#93 |
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ha! |
Wetzelbill |
Nov-19-05 09:11 PM |
#172 |
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There You Go! The Real Truth Is Here! |
Joan_Alpern |
Nov-19-05 08:27 AM |
#31 |
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:) |
Misunderestimator |
Nov-19-05 09:50 AM |
#78 |
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I've always been a nice guy & have married two babes |
NewJeffCT |
Nov-19-05 08:09 AM |
#25 |
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are you serious? |
Wetzelbill |
Nov-19-05 08:22 AM |
#27 |
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yes, I'm serious |
NewJeffCT |
Nov-19-05 08:28 AM |
#33 |
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does she have twin or a sister that's available? |
Wetzelbill |
Nov-19-05 08:31 AM |
#38 |
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yes 2 master's degrees |
NewJeffCT |
Nov-19-05 08:33 AM |
#40 |
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no kidding |
Wetzelbill |
Nov-19-05 08:35 AM |
#45 |
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you might have to wait a bit |
NewJeffCT |
Nov-19-05 09:00 AM |
#66 |
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hey, I like housework |
Wetzelbill |
Nov-19-05 09:07 AM |
#69 |
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she does have a cousin from Shanghai then! |
NewJeffCT |
Nov-19-05 09:14 AM |
#70 |
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I'm down either way |
Wetzelbill |
Nov-19-05 09:17 AM |
#72 |
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... |
Arkana |
Nov-19-05 12:34 PM |
#105 |
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thanks, I know I'm very lucky |
NewJeffCT |
Nov-19-05 12:39 PM |
#106 |
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The Time to Be 'Nice' Is *After* You've Figured Out What You Want And ... |
Crisco |
Nov-19-05 08:27 AM |
#32 |
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Spoken like a chap with a history of attraction to the wrong women. |
havocmom |
Nov-19-05 08:28 AM |
#34 |
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yeah, what she said |
Wetzelbill |
Nov-19-05 08:32 AM |
#39 |
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Exactly, havocmom! And the same could be said for women |
raccoon |
Nov-19-05 10:14 AM |
#85 |
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That ol defination of insanity applies... |
havocmom |
Nov-19-05 12:33 PM |
#103 |
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See post 107 |
JohnnyCougar |
Nov-19-05 12:49 PM |
#109 |
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Maybe you have BIMBOS figured out.... |
tjdee |
Nov-19-05 08:31 AM |
#37 |
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guess nice could also be misconstrued.. |
salin |
Nov-19-05 08:35 AM |
#47 |
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salient point, salin |
datasuspect |
Nov-19-05 08:37 AM |
#51 |
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funny how on these threads |
salin |
Nov-19-05 08:41 AM |
#55 |
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it would be interesting |
datasuspect |
Nov-19-05 08:43 AM |
#57 |
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very insidious |
salin |
Nov-19-05 08:59 AM |
#65 |
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And the insidious ways in which such hatred betrays itself |
Tallison |
Nov-20-05 06:27 AM |
#183 |
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I'm with you guys. |
tjdee |
Nov-19-05 08:52 AM |
#62 |
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yes good point, TJ |
tigereye |
Nov-19-05 02:58 PM |
#130 |
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Good point, Salin. So let's hear it, JohnnyCougar et al, |
raccoon |
Nov-19-05 10:47 AM |
#90 |
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Define nice guy...ok |
JohnnyCougar |
Nov-19-05 01:09 PM |
#114 |
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That would be my idea of a dream man! |
smirkymonkey |
Nov-19-05 02:20 PM |
#125 |
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but that sounds very good - |
tigereye |
Nov-19-05 02:59 PM |
#131 |
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Too vague for me still. |
tjdee |
Nov-19-05 03:07 PM |
#135 |
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To clarify... |
JohnnyCougar |
Nov-19-05 03:40 PM |
#148 |
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You're right, that's exactly what I was doing. |
tjdee |
Nov-19-05 03:46 PM |
#151 |
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Emotional risk... |
JohnnyCougar |
Nov-19-05 04:00 PM |
#157 |
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That, for me, is the main thing I'm looking for, |
raccoon |
Nov-21-05 08:20 AM |
#209 |
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There's no way I'd ever pull that shit. |
JohnnyCougar |
Nov-19-05 01:03 PM |
#111 |
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Women don't call back for a wide variety of reasons |
Tallison |
Nov-20-05 06:34 AM |
#185 |
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that sentiment is so "miami vice" |
datasuspect |
Nov-19-05 08:33 AM |
#41 |
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Hell, even Feynman figured that out, and he was one of the smartest |
DS1 |
Nov-19-05 08:46 AM |
#59 |
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Per JohnnyCougar... this guy must get ALL the dates: |
salin |
Nov-19-05 09:03 AM |
#68 |
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I can't resist posting a bit of Bill Hicks |
Monkey see Monkey Do |
Nov-19-05 10:09 AM |
#84 |
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................ |
bushwentawol |
Nov-19-05 10:15 AM |
#86 |
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Here's one possible explanation of this "nice guy syndrome," |
raccoon |
Nov-19-05 10:26 AM |
#87 |
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nutshell post |
salin |
Nov-19-05 10:34 AM |
#89 |
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Yep, that's the ticket! n/t |
I Have A Dream |
Nov-19-05 01:34 PM |
#121 |
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You're right on. |
Tallison |
Nov-20-05 07:00 AM |
#189 |
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I think it's time to read this book: |
bullwinkle428 |
Nov-19-05 10:32 AM |
#88 |
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well nice isn't supposed to mean "doormat" either |
tigereye |
Nov-19-05 03:02 PM |
#132 |
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It takes lots of years for some of us to learn that, though! (n/t) |
bullwinkle428 |
Nov-19-05 07:14 PM |
#163 |
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Oh man... I read some excerpts, that's pretty pathetic! |
Syncronaut Seven |
Nov-19-05 03:21 PM |
#139 |
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The contempt such titles betray is pernicious and chilling n/t |
Tallison |
Nov-20-05 07:06 AM |
#190 |
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self-delete |
Tallison |
Nov-20-05 07:07 AM |
#191 |
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you have discovered a universal truth that will take you far n/t |
Blue_Tires |
Nov-19-05 11:22 AM |
#94 |
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Note: see Misunderestimator's note |
salin |
Nov-19-05 12:26 PM |
#97 |
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Um.... |
Misunderestimator |
Nov-19-05 12:27 PM |
#99 |
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point - the post I responded to seemed to exemply your earlier post |
salin |
Nov-20-05 05:49 AM |
#178 |
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Ah... sorry, I got a little confused. |
Misunderestimator |
Nov-20-05 08:16 AM |
#193 |
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Note: see Misunderestimator's note |
salin |
Nov-19-05 12:26 PM |
#98 |
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I finally have nice guys figured out |
jmm |
Nov-19-05 11:43 AM |
#95 |
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Yup, that's me allright! |
JohnnyCougar |
Nov-19-05 01:12 PM |
#115 |
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All women, all the time. |
Left Is Write |
Nov-19-05 11:48 AM |
#96 |
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Nah...I'm not hurt that bad... |
JohnnyCougar |
Nov-19-05 01:20 PM |
#118 |
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Telling her is good, but... |
Dangerously Amused |
Nov-19-05 03:23 PM |
#141 |
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Bah....... |
bleedingheart |
Nov-19-05 12:32 PM |
#101 |
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If you think you have them figured out, wait 5 minutes. |
ET Awful |
Nov-19-05 12:33 PM |
#104 |
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You want women to like you? |
supernova |
Nov-19-05 12:49 PM |
#110 |
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Ok... |
JohnnyCougar |
Nov-19-05 01:16 PM |
#116 |
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Ooh. Consistently |
Crisco |
Nov-19-05 03:45 PM |
#150 |
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hmm |
JVS |
Nov-19-05 01:08 PM |
#112 |
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You did this on purpose didn't you? |
ismnotwasm |
Nov-19-05 01:09 PM |
#113 |
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C'mon |
JohnnyCougar |
Nov-19-05 01:17 PM |
#117 |
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True. |
ismnotwasm |
Nov-19-05 01:28 PM |
#120 |
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Not all women (or men) really want a "relationshjp" |
Nikia |
Nov-19-05 01:46 PM |
#122 |
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that is a very interesting analysis Nikia |
tigereye |
Nov-19-05 03:07 PM |
#134 |
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No, There Is One Thing Worse Than a Guy Pretending to Be Your Friend ... |
Crisco |
Nov-20-05 12:27 PM |
#196 |
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AAAAAARRRRRGGGGGHHHHH! |
Lydia Leftcoast |
Nov-19-05 02:41 PM |
#126 |
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Read this whole thread. |
JohnnyCougar |
Nov-19-05 02:55 PM |
#129 |
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Real nice guys |
GirlinContempt |
Nov-19-05 04:39 PM |
#159 |
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I never said no girls like me. |
JohnnyCougar |
Nov-19-05 04:44 PM |
#160 |
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Ahhhhhh |
Crisco |
Nov-20-05 12:40 PM |
#197 |
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Nah, but this last girl I let her know right away. |
JohnnyCougar |
Nov-20-05 01:19 PM |
#198 |
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Maybe, she is really stressed out w/ the money |
Nikia |
Nov-20-05 03:58 PM |
#199 |
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I know she is stressed out because of money. |
JohnnyCougar |
Nov-20-05 05:04 PM |
#203 |
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I don't think that it would be stalking to call her one more time |
Nikia |
Nov-20-05 05:49 PM |
#204 |
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Hmmm |
Crisco |
Nov-20-05 04:15 PM |
#200 |
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yeah |
uniden |
Nov-19-05 03:05 PM |
#133 |
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For women, OH yes. |
tjdee |
Nov-19-05 03:15 PM |
#137 |
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and she is ... |
uniden |
Nov-19-05 03:21 PM |
#140 |
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Maybe your problem is that you think you deserve Angelina Jolie |
Lydia Leftcoast |
Nov-19-05 03:28 PM |
#142 |
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make her the Angelina Jolie |
uniden |
Nov-19-05 03:31 PM |
#145 |
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The idea of settling makes me want to throw up. |
tjdee |
Nov-19-05 03:59 PM |
#156 |
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I agree - I would rather be alone than settle. |
smirkymonkey |
Nov-19-05 05:11 PM |
#162 |
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Better to be alone than to wish you were |
Tallison |
Nov-20-05 06:52 AM |
#188 |
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For sure. |
tjdee |
Nov-19-05 03:30 PM |
#143 |
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age, money, etc. |
uniden |
Nov-19-05 03:38 PM |
#147 |
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Yes, and no. |
tjdee |
Nov-19-05 03:57 PM |
#155 |
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It? |
fudge stripe cookays |
Nov-20-05 09:06 AM |
#195 |
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Sounds like you speak for yourself |
Tallison |
Nov-20-05 06:49 AM |
#187 |
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ding ding ding |
tigereye |
Nov-19-05 03:08 PM |
#136 |
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Nice isn't always nice |
Ellen Forradalom |
Nov-19-05 03:19 PM |
#138 |
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You must be a Young, Young man |
new_beawr |
Nov-19-05 03:31 PM |
#144 |
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Ahh - misogeny. Gotta love it! |
ChavezSpeakstheTruth |
Nov-19-05 03:38 PM |
#146 |
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Women are just people who aren't hung up about |
Seabiscuit |
Nov-19-05 03:41 PM |
#149 |
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are they hung up |
uniden |
Nov-19-05 03:48 PM |
#152 |
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Not as much as guys like to think |
Lydia Leftcoast |
Nov-19-05 03:51 PM |
#154 |
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Never, ever believe you understand a woman. |
BikeWriter |
Nov-19-05 08:08 PM |
#164 |
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It scares me when you and I agree so completely on something. |
flvegan |
Nov-19-05 08:09 PM |
#165 |
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My last wife worshipped the ground I walked on for 15 years... |
BikeWriter |
Nov-19-05 08:17 PM |
#166 |
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Was yours |
flvegan |
Nov-19-05 08:21 PM |
#167 |
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Sorry to hear that. We can't live with them, can't live without them. |
BikeWriter |
Nov-19-05 08:26 PM |
#168 |
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Not only can't, but wouldn't want to. |
flvegan |
Nov-19-05 08:29 PM |
#169 |
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I'm glad you're both happy out of it. |
BikeWriter |
Nov-19-05 08:49 PM |
#170 |
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REFERENCE NOTE: for more truth, go here: |
Blue_Tires |
Nov-19-05 09:11 PM |
#171 |
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Yes, that is right on the mark |
Lydia Leftcoast |
Nov-20-05 12:00 AM |
#175 |
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it has certainly changed my philosophies on women |
Blue_Tires |
Nov-20-05 01:20 AM |
#176 |
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What a steaming pile of crap. |
JohnnyCougar |
Nov-20-05 04:55 AM |
#177 |
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being nice |
uniden |
Nov-20-05 09:01 AM |
#194 |
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i definitely feel what you're saying |
Blue_Tires |
Nov-20-05 10:55 PM |
#205 |
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Oh my God, what a spot-on commentary |
Tallison |
Nov-20-05 06:38 AM |
#186 |
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Can you blame them? |
HEyHEY |
Nov-20-05 06:33 AM |
#184 |
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I have women figured out more than anyone...listen up, this is important.. |
hobo_baggins |
Nov-20-05 04:32 PM |
#202 |
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I like a nice guy... |
MissMillie |
Nov-21-05 08:18 AM |
#208 |
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Some of us like nice guys |
LeftyMom |
Nov-21-05 10:12 AM |
#211 |
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Women are very simple. Here's how to figure them out. |
JackDragna |
Nov-21-05 02:13 PM |
#216 |
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Most want an equal.... |
pdx_prog |
Nov-21-05 02:49 PM |
#218 |