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Kailassa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-25-05 10:14 AM
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79. No Way
If you're not particularly attracted to her now, do you think being told to stick it in cos it's time to make a baby is going to help? If she's going to make a deadline for marriage because she wants to have babies soon, you're going to be under an obligation to do it at the right time of the month. And to be starting a family when you don't even enjoy the baby-making part ...

And how long before She notices that you get excited looking at other women and porn, it's just Her that doesn't excite you? Have you any idea what torture it can be for a woman, married to a man who doesn't desire her? Women need to love and know they're loved to thrive and glow, and a women will not long believe she's loved if it's only other women that light your fire.
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  -Is it a good idea to Get Married... Jack_Dawson  Sep-22-05 08:45 PM   #0 
  - Don't look for answers here.  Beware the Beast Man   Sep-22-05 08:47 PM   #1 
  - no  pitohui   Sep-22-05 08:56 PM   #2 
  - Aint that the truth.  bearfan454   Sep-23-05 10:14 AM   #38 
  - Once a month is barely?  Rabrrrrrr   Sep-22-05 09:14 PM   #3 
  - Sorry, but I'm in my 40's  RetroLounge   Sep-22-05 09:22 PM   #4 
  - Most couples  Shell Beau   Sep-23-05 08:27 AM   #33 
     - Since we've got a daughter, two or three times a week is a wet dream.  cssmall   Sep-23-05 06:13 PM   #48 
  - Once a month aint shit.  bearfan454   Sep-23-05 10:16 AM   #39 
     - I tend to agree****  Egalitariat   Sep-23-05 08:35 PM   #50 
     - I tend to agree****  Egalitariat   Sep-23-05 08:35 PM   #51 
  - No...  sendero   Sep-22-05 09:26 PM   #5 
  - LOL  Jack_Dawson   Sep-22-05 09:32 PM   #6 
     - YES.  Finnfan   Sep-23-05 12:16 AM   #22 
     - I was going to answer this one too!  SarahBelle   Sep-23-05 12:24 AM   #23 
        - Did we mention we're both in our thirties?  Finnfan   Sep-23-05 12:32 AM   #24 
     - Absolutely...  sendero   Sep-23-05 06:27 AM   #27 
     - HELL yes!!  lildreamer316   Sep-23-05 06:44 AM   #29 
     - Soulmates are better.  Bassic   Sep-23-05 06:50 AM   #31 
     - Hell Yes!  RetroLounge   Sep-23-05 05:59 PM   #46 
     - i could use one of those as well  Blue_Tires   Sep-24-05 07:24 PM   #64 
  - Woah, Don't do it!  raptor_rider   Sep-22-05 09:48 PM   #7 
  - Great Post  Jack_Dawson   Sep-22-05 09:56 PM   #8 
  - Anytime JD  raptor_rider   Sep-22-05 10:09 PM   #11 
  - I agree.  bushwentawol   Sep-22-05 11:52 PM   #16 
     - Thank's  raptor_rider   Sep-23-05 08:38 AM   #34 
  - Possibly  Floogeldy   Sep-22-05 09:59 PM   #9 
  - Porn's good...  Jack_Dawson   Sep-22-05 10:00 PM   #10 
  - I'm not the one to ask  leftofthedial   Sep-22-05 11:39 PM   #12 
  - Did marriage turn your flag upside-down?  Jack_Dawson   Sep-22-05 11:48 PM   #13 
  - Amen to that.  JackDragna   Sep-23-05 12:12 AM   #20 
     - So you were married once?  Jack_Dawson   Sep-23-05 08:55 PM   #53 
  - Sexuality is very, very complicated.  Laelth   Sep-22-05 11:48 PM   #14 
  - Are both of you happy? Different people have different sex drives....  Rowdyboy   Sep-22-05 11:50 PM   #15 
  - Probably not.  SarahBelle   Sep-22-05 11:55 PM   #17 
  - I would say no.  TransitJohn   Sep-23-05 12:01 AM   #18 
  - Dump her. Now. Do NOT wait.  JackDragna   Sep-23-05 12:10 AM   #19 
  - Bad idea.  Finnfan   Sep-23-05 12:15 AM   #21 
  - Well it's probably not a good idea then. You'd be very likely to find  radwriter0555   Sep-23-05 01:02 AM   #25 
  - 12/05: marriage deadline  Jack_Dawson   Sep-23-05 10:24 PM   #55 
     - Speaking as a middle age woman whom  serryjw   Sep-24-05 10:33 PM   #73 
        - Wow, serryjw! I feel like I'm looking in a mirror when I read your post!  notmyprez   Sep-24-05 11:15 PM   #74 
           - Sorry to hear you can relate  serryjw   Sep-24-05 11:37 PM   #75 
  - i agree with the first reply  babyk   Sep-23-05 02:12 AM   #26 
  - I've been there -- Do NOT do it!  LostinVA   Sep-23-05 06:31 AM   #28 
  - If you have to ask here  NewJeffCT   Sep-23-05 06:47 AM   #30 
  - Ok, I've got to ask this  jmm   Sep-23-05 06:58 AM   #32 
  - But what about when you're OLD?  Jack_Dawson   Sep-23-05 10:27 PM   #56 
     - I'm guessing you never watched the Golden Girls  jmm   Sep-24-05 09:37 PM   #69 
  - If you want sex more often,...  MissMillie   Sep-23-05 08:41 AM   #35 
  - If you have to ask,  China_cat   Sep-23-05 09:57 AM   #36 
  - Don't do it if there is no desire  bearfan454   Sep-23-05 10:13 AM   #37 
  - Stay friends  leftofthedial   Sep-23-05 10:58 AM   #40 
  - So...cheat or break up and have sex w/ others?  Jack_Dawson   Sep-23-05 10:28 PM   #57 
     - have a heart-to-heart  leftofthedial   Sep-24-05 03:57 PM   #60 
  - If you have any reservations at all...then don't marry  bleedingheart   Sep-23-05 11:02 AM   #41 
  - do you have desires for others?  nini   Sep-23-05 11:09 AM   #42 
  - Couple of questions  Nikia   Sep-23-05 02:04 PM   #43 
  - Awesome Post  Jack_Dawson   Sep-23-05 10:33 PM   #58 
     - This is a no-brainer.  diplomats   Sep-24-05 07:22 PM   #63 
  - romance is scarcely any basis for a marriage  NorthernSpy   Sep-23-05 02:34 PM   #44 
  - Sure, go ahead, just don't let your girlfriend know about it...  edbermac   Sep-23-05 02:38 PM   #45 
  - Visit the Bunny Ranch  Joey Liberal   Sep-23-05 06:07 PM   #47 
  - Is that in Vegas or Reno?  Jack_Dawson   Sep-23-05 10:34 PM   #59 
  - Is once a month enough for you?***  Egalitariat   Sep-23-05 08:34 PM   # 
  - Is once a month enough for you?***  Egalitariat   Sep-23-05 08:34 PM   #49 
  - umm i think that is ridiculous  lionesspriyanka   Sep-23-05 08:47 PM   #52 
  - Yes!  SarahBelle   Sep-24-05 09:12 PM   #68 
  - Bummer.  DawgHouse   Sep-23-05 09:27 PM   #54 
  - Doesn't sound like a good idea to me  skygazer   Sep-24-05 04:13 PM   #61 
  - No. It is a terrible idea.  Old Broad   Sep-24-05 06:36 PM   #62 
  - Here is how you decide  AccessGranted   Sep-24-05 07:50 PM   #65 
  - its'a good idea to get...  Chemical Bill   Sep-24-05 08:56 PM   #66 
  - She gave you a DEADLINE? Danger Will Robinson, danger!!  tjdee   Sep-24-05 09:06 PM   #67 
  - The woman wants to have children.  lizzy   Sep-24-05 09:50 PM   #72 
     - They have to get married to have children?  tjdee   Sep-25-05 09:13 AM   #77 
  - Did Erika Hill of CNN get married?  Awsi Dooger   Sep-24-05 09:45 PM   #70 
  - Well, if she never smiles, she must have gotten married then.  lizzy   Sep-24-05 09:48 PM   #71 
  - Once a month?  darkenedhalo   Sep-24-05 11:42 PM   #76 
  - No  ForrestGump   Sep-25-05 09:49 AM   #78 
  - No Way  Kailassa   Sep-25-05 10:14 AM   #79 
 

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