Reply #69: I'm guessing you never watched the Golden Girls

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They were the original Sex In the City if you made the cast 30 years older and moved them to Miami in the 80's. I'm only 25 so I can't speak for 70 year olds but I think some of them do "desire" each other. And if they have problems acting on it there's a multi-billion dollar industry devoted to helping them.

Of course I see friendship as an important and arguably the most important part of a relationship but the main reason I asked you if you would recommend marrying someone you don't desire or if she would want to marry you knowing how you feel is because many people tend to have lower standards for themselves. Can you honestly say you wouldn't want better for a loved one than to see them married to a person they are not physically attracted to? Do you not believe she deserves more? At the very least please tell this woman how you really feel so she can know the full picture before making any relationship decisions with you.