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salin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jun-10-05 10:35 PM
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30. thank you elshiva
it took along time to take the veils from eyes - to see how it had effected me, but I survived in the short term (due to the coping mechanisms) - and have healed in the long term (due to realizing all those coping mechanisms for what they were.)

My point, however, is that perhaps your issue may be self-imposed as some kind of self-protection mechanism against something else altogether. Only due to the advantage of age, do I see this in my own life.

See my note about my experience with young teens (14-16) today. This group is a whole lot more 'deep' in terms of who they choose to radiate to, than I think my generation had been at their age. I find it very hopeful.
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  -Someone keeps telling me that I am ugly! elshiva  Jun-10-05 10:07 PM   #0 
  - Here's a suggestion:  Teaser   Jun-10-05 10:07 PM   #1 
  - No dice. I am a pacifist.  elshiva   Jun-10-05 10:08 PM   #2 
     - That's OK  The Traveler   Jun-10-05 10:25 PM   #21 
     - I was too.  Teaser   Jun-10-05 11:18 PM   #51 
        - Wow. Sorry about that hon. Don't give in to the Dark Side!  elshiva   Jun-10-05 11:20 PM   #54 
  - Just say "I wouldn't talk if I were you and I don't value your  Crazy Guggenheim   Jun-10-05 10:09 PM   #3 
  - I'm a-thinkin that only an 'ugly' person would say that to someone!  Bullwinkle925   Jun-10-05 10:10 PM   #4 
  - You guessed right!  elshiva   Jun-10-05 10:11 PM   #6 
     - you're saying it to yourself, aren't you?  progmom   Jun-10-05 10:12 PM   #7 
        - Thanks! Sure, but it is the truth. People been saying that all my life...  elshiva   Jun-10-05 10:15 PM   #11 
           - listen to the people here  progmom   Jun-10-05 10:18 PM   #13 
           - I work with a group of urban youth  salin   Jun-10-05 10:19 PM   #16 
  - you're not ugly  progmom   Jun-10-05 10:11 PM   #5 
  - who in hell is telling you that?  jonnyblitz   Jun-10-05 10:12 PM   #8 
  - Let me at 'em!  Floogeldy   Jun-10-05 10:13 PM   #9 
  - I'm sorry, Sweety, but I'd slap shit from their head. You are beautiful.  BikeWriter   Jun-10-05 10:14 PM   #10 
  - Then hit me god damn it! Slap me! I am such a bitch!  elshiva   Jun-10-05 10:15 PM   #12 
     - Not quite as bitchy as the woman married to my 'ex'-brother.  Bullwinkle925   Jun-10-05 10:18 PM   #14 
     - Nuh uh, you're just feeling down. We all are beautiful in someone's eyes.  BikeWriter   Jun-10-05 10:35 PM   #31 
        - Thank you!  elshiva   Jun-10-05 10:46 PM   #40 
  - Eh, just tell him....  dhinojosa   Jun-10-05 10:18 PM   #15 
  - Oh crap that is funny!  Maestro   Jun-11-05 04:00 PM   #68 
  - What kind of a horrible person would say something like that?  blue neen   Jun-10-05 10:19 PM   #17 
  - Thanks. Actually it is myself who is telling myself this...  elshiva   Jun-10-05 10:21 PM   #19 
     - For a period in my twenties, I did this  salin   Jun-10-05 10:27 PM   #25 
     - Sorry, salin!  elshiva   Jun-10-05 10:30 PM   #29 
        - thank you elshiva  salin   Jun-10-05 10:35 PM   #30 
           - You are welcome. salin.  elshiva   Jun-10-05 10:42 PM   #34 
              - ah - you have many years  salin   Jun-10-05 10:46 PM   #39 
                 - Thanks!  elshiva   Jun-10-05 10:47 PM   #41 
     - Oh elshiva.  blue neen   Jun-10-05 10:28 PM   #27 
  - Don't let anyone put you down like that.  bushwentawol   Jun-10-05 10:20 PM   #18 
  - Actually, I can kick the crap out of myself and I have...  elshiva   Jun-10-05 10:22 PM   #20 
     - be careful with that  progmom   Jun-10-05 10:25 PM   #22 
     - Tell me about it.  bushwentawol   Jun-10-05 10:28 PM   #28 
  - Ugly is *. Ugly is his mother. Ugly is Adolf Hitler, Josef Stalin ...  FreedomFry   Jun-10-05 10:26 PM   #23 
  - Terrible stupid people  sparky_in_ma   Jun-10-05 10:27 PM   #24 
  - Actually I have hurt a lot of people, so yes I am ugly.  elshiva   Jun-10-05 10:28 PM   #26 
     - So what you're saying  sparky_in_ma   Jun-10-05 10:36 PM   #32 
        - Thanks for the Clark pic! No I am Nixon! Just look...  elshiva   Jun-10-05 10:43 PM   #35 
           - OMG  sparky_in_ma   Jun-10-05 11:01 PM   #43 
              - I ate Checkers. yum  elshiva   Jun-10-05 11:04 PM   #45 
                 - With gravy?  sparky_in_ma   Jun-10-05 11:05 PM   #46 
                    - No with cottage cheese and ketchup of course.  elshiva   Jun-10-05 11:18 PM   #50 
                       - ewwww  sparky_in_ma   Jun-10-05 11:19 PM   #53 
                          - Well, seriously Nixon loved to eat  elshiva   Jun-10-05 11:22 PM   #55 
                             - I did not know that.  sparky_in_ma   Jun-10-05 11:24 PM   #56 
                                - Well it was in "The Fireside Watergate"  elshiva   Jun-10-05 11:25 PM   #57 
  - Good, I'm glad you're ugly  HEyHEY   Jun-10-05 10:38 PM   #33 
  - HEyHEY you are a genius. Thank you!  elshiva   Jun-10-05 10:44 PM   #36 
     - Of course I'm a genius I'm ugly!  HEyHEY   Jun-10-05 11:13 PM   #48 
        - Hey HeyHey  Canadian Socialist   Jun-10-05 11:50 PM   #60 
           - Oh, shit yeah!  HEyHEY   Jun-11-05 12:19 AM   #63 
              - Well, HeyHey  Canadian Socialist   Jun-11-05 01:50 AM   #66 
  - What purpose can it serve to  GoddessOfGuinness   Jun-10-05 10:44 PM   #37 
  - OK, but I am Nixon!  elshiva   Jun-10-05 10:45 PM   #38 
     - Pretty  GoddessOfGuinness   Jun-10-05 11:01 PM   #42 
     - Tricky Dick that is!  elshiva   Jun-10-05 11:04 PM   #44 
     - I'm confused.  RevCheesehead   Jun-11-05 12:04 AM   #61 
        - Couldn't I be both Cheney and Nixon?  elshiva   Jun-11-05 12:12 AM   #62 
           - Of course not...  RevCheesehead   Jun-11-05 12:21 AM   #64 
              - But I am both Cheney and Nixon!  elshiva   Jun-11-05 12:42 AM   #65 
  - Don't listen to people who tell you that  BuffyTheFundieSlayer   Jun-10-05 11:06 PM   #47 
  - Hey, little bunny  Canadian Socialist   Jun-10-05 11:15 PM   #49 
  - Thanks! You are sweet. Could Natalie Portman be the  elshiva   Jun-10-05 11:19 PM   #52 
  - Ok, this is important...  VelmaD   Jun-10-05 11:31 PM   #58 
  - did you hear this before growing up?  Skittles   Jun-10-05 11:40 PM   #59 
  - I struggle with this too  Nikia   Jun-11-05 03:58 PM   #67 
 

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