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Madrone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-16-05 09:00 PM
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53. Oh for pete's sake.
Let me try to explain my perspective on this to you.


Number one - how long do we all have to look forward to this endless collective whining about all of your (not directed entirely at you, belladonna) perceived "whining" about cliques? One week? Two? A month?

How many threads are going to be started baiting someone into answering, so everyone can then start mocking the person who calls it like they see it as "lonely", "not able to fit in", "paranoid", "in need of a GRIP", "socially inept" , etc? CLUE: just because people are sick of this behavior doesn't mean they feel secretly left out and pouty. Turning it back around on them to try and make it into their emotional problem doesn't make it so, either. Even though you guys are the ones getting the most grease - there are plenty of others that see it like I do, and aren't speaking up. Another CLUE: endless threads about "cliques" are mocking other members, their opinions, and are nothing but flame bait. You all know this - which is why you find it so FUN. You continue to push the envelope, and you find yourselves quite clever. Then when one of you gets banned for continual flaunting of the rules, you whine. Those rules aren't meant for YOU....right?

More amusing is the posters that then start projecting their behavior onto others - berating them for being "mean", posting flamebait, not using the ingore button - etc. It's transparent, and it's STUPID.


I don't give a DAMN who is friends with who here, nor do I care who talks to who. Guess what? I don't know anyone who DOES. Get over yourselves!

From what I can tell - the "elite" comments were not made because anyone on this forum actually BELIEVES there's an elite it. It seemed to me that it was commentary regarding certain groups that are legends - in their OWN minds. The "elite" needs to stop flattering themselves. I didn't see it meant as a compliment.

Personally - I have no dog in this fight other than honesty, fairness, and justice. I'm sick of seeing people shit on here - and I don't really give a fuck WHAT any of you tries to project onto me for having the balls to say so. I kept quiet for a LONG time - and finally stopped holding my tongue when NotMyPrez got shit all over for baring her soul in a post asking for some respect as a DUer when it came to her faith. You guys took that and ran with it - and it was almost a month before you finally let that go. It was CRUEL, it was RUDE, and it was beneath contempt.


Belladonna - this is not entirely directed at you, even though your post finally prompted me to type something.


And FOR THE RECORD - to those of you that are pissing me the FUCK off with this bullshit - I would be equally disgusted by the same treatment being directed towards you, and I'd say something then too. I don't hold grudges, and I want no hard feelings. I just want to see this bs come to an end.

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  -Regarding all this clique nonsense belladonna  May-16-05 08:15 PM   #0 
  - I didn't join DU to get into any kind of clique  MrScorpio   May-16-05 08:26 PM   #1 
  - I don't have a clique  belladonna   May-16-05 08:40 PM   #25 
  - Aw Shucks...  MrScorpio   May-16-05 08:42 PM   #33 
  - Amen...  youthere   May-17-05 10:41 AM   #115 
  - A. Men.  Bouncy Ball   May-16-05 08:29 PM   #2 
  - haha me neither  sundog   May-16-05 08:31 PM   #5 
  - Neither do I  belladonna   May-16-05 08:33 PM   #9 
  - Robb used to post a lot of polls, on every one of which the tenth choice  undisclosedlocation   May-16-05 08:40 PM   #24 
  - weren't the DULL threads started when we were all new?  sundog   May-16-05 08:30 PM   #3 
  - I'd been here for awhile  belladonna   May-16-05 08:32 PM   #6 
     - so you were clearly taking advantage of my innocent mind  sundog   May-16-05 08:36 PM   #15 
        - Among other things, hot stuff  belladonna   May-16-05 08:39 PM   #21 
  - I am not a smartass.  whoisalhedges   May-16-05 08:31 PM   #4 
  - semantics  KitchenWitch   May-16-05 08:32 PM   #7 
  - You're actually a pain in the ass, but let's not get hung up  JimmyJazz   May-16-05 08:33 PM   #8 
  - I was just gonna say "ass"  dolo amber   May-16-05 08:34 PM   #10 
     - Wasn't there a thread about hedges being an ass once?  JimmyJazz   May-16-05 08:36 PM   #14 
        - There was also a thread involving massive amounts of beans  belladonna   May-16-05 09:00 PM   #52 
  - Smartass, wiseass.... meh, all semantics  belladonna   May-16-05 08:35 PM   #11 
  - A gentleman never reveals his secrets.  whoisalhedges   May-16-05 08:36 PM   #13 
  - Penis, dear  dolo amber   May-16-05 08:36 PM   #17 
     - so what are you saying?  Zuni   May-16-05 08:39 PM   #23 
     - But I CLEARLY revealed....  whoisalhedges   May-16-05 08:40 PM   #26 
  - Whiteacre D_WI  JimmyJazz   May-16-05 08:37 PM   #18 
     - what kind of name is that?  sundog   May-16-05 08:38 PM   #20 
     - Dude - how should I know? I wasn't even here then!  JimmyJazz   May-16-05 08:41 PM   #29 
     - Whiteacre is the name of a town in WI ... the D stands for Dem ...  hippiechick   May-17-05 10:28 AM   #113 
     - Um....  whoisalhedges   May-16-05 08:41 PM   #27 
     - Why what?  JimmyJazz   May-16-05 08:42 PM   #32 
        - Well....  whoisalhedges   May-16-05 08:44 PM   #34 
           - You might want to change the name on the gallery pic then -  JimmyJazz   May-16-05 08:55 PM   #47 
     - THANK YOU!!!  belladonna   May-16-05 08:42 PM   #30 
  - Better than being a dumbass.  Roland99   May-16-05 08:36 PM   #16 
  - I thought it was niceass?  RetroLounge   May-16-05 09:08 PM   #59 
  - wow. thanks Belladonna.  progmom   May-16-05 08:35 PM   #12 
  - Jello wrasslin' has a way of bringing people together  belladonna   May-16-05 08:38 PM   #19 
     - it sure does. it sure does  Zuni   May-16-05 08:42 PM   #31 
  - Great. I wasn't mentioned. I must not be in the clique.  Bok_Tukalo   May-16-05 08:39 PM   #22 
  - Neither was I, but I think that makes us  SOteric   May-16-05 08:45 PM   #35 
  - Weren't you part of the DULL threads at one time?  belladonna   May-16-05 08:51 PM   #41 
  - Was I?  SOteric   May-16-05 08:52 PM   #42 
     - Seems like you were  belladonna   May-16-05 08:55 PM   #48 
  - Fantastic. I say we let whoisalhedges, DS1, MrScorpio, and sundog in  Bok_Tukalo   May-16-05 08:53 PM   #43 
     - HEY!  progmom   May-16-05 09:20 PM   #66 
  - You just need to nail down the art of attention whoring  belladonna   May-16-05 08:45 PM   #36 
  - I'm too easily pleased  Bok_Tukalo   May-16-05 08:54 PM   #45 
     - I worship you.  Sugar Smack   May-17-05 07:32 AM   #83 
  - Meh, neither was I, but I don't care.  Bouncy Ball   May-16-05 08:50 PM   #40 
     - I always click on yours too  belladonna   May-16-05 08:54 PM   #44 
        - Yeah, I've started a thread many times doing that  Bouncy Ball   May-16-05 08:54 PM   #46 
  - I get the sense that the "clique" is a creation of assorted trolls  Arkana   May-16-05 08:41 PM   #28 
  - Have come to conclude  salin   May-16-05 08:45 PM   #37 
  - Couldn't have said it any better.  bushwentawol   May-16-05 08:56 PM   #49 
  - You make some good points  belladonna   May-16-05 08:59 PM   #50 
  - me, too  salin   May-16-05 09:03 PM   #56 
  - you said it much more nicely than I did, below.  Madrone   May-16-05 09:03 PM   #55 
  - I agree with your posts on this matter  last_texas_dem   May-16-05 09:39 PM   #70 
  - Hope this post is read by many, including the mods.  mgdecombe   May-17-05 12:23 AM   #82 
  - You are teh smrt.  redqueen   May-17-05 09:23 AM   #96 
  - good assessment Salin  tigereye   May-17-05 10:59 AM   #118 
  - I agree.  SOteric   May-16-05 08:46 PM   #38 
  - Even when he's being a sexist pig  belladonna   May-16-05 08:48 PM   #39 
  - I am not a part of your clique.  texas1928   May-16-05 08:59 PM   #51 
  - Geesh, if I HAD a clique you'd be in it  belladonna   May-16-05 09:02 PM   #54 
     - BUT but  texas1928   May-16-05 09:04 PM   #57 
  - Oh for pete's sake.  Madrone   May-16-05 09:00 PM   #53 
  - you know what's silly?  progmom   May-16-05 09:08 PM   #60 
  - That would be great if it were true.  Madrone   May-16-05 09:18 PM   #63 
  - I have to agree with Madrone  RagingInMiami   May-16-05 11:42 PM   #77 
  - First of all, find one instance where I've been guilty of that behavior  belladonna   May-16-05 09:11 PM   #61 
  - to belladonna and madrone  salin   May-16-05 09:19 PM   #64 
  - thanks salin ;)  Madrone   May-16-05 09:33 PM   #69 
  - I was only posting about the elite clique crap that's been going on  belladonna   May-16-05 10:32 PM   #71 
  - belladonna -  Madrone   May-16-05 09:24 PM   #68 
     - I did notice and I'm not taking it all that personally  belladonna   May-16-05 10:33 PM   #72 
        - I'm glad you didn't take it personally -  Madrone   May-16-05 11:11 PM   #73 
        - There are many angry folks on DU  buddyhollysghost   May-16-05 11:29 PM   #75 
           - Well DUH.  Madrone   May-16-05 11:46 PM   #78 
              - Bitch!  buddyhollysghost   May-16-05 11:50 PM   #79 
                 - !!!!  Madrone   May-16-05 11:55 PM   #80 
                    - Oh, you ain't no bitch atall  buddyhollysghost   May-17-05 09:42 AM   #104 
  - There is nothing more to add to this post.  mgdecombe   May-17-05 12:17 AM   #81 
  - Pissed the FUCK off? Use the hide thread button...instead of alienation  MrsGrumpy   May-17-05 07:36 AM   #86 
     - My post  Madrone   May-17-05 09:01 AM   #93 
        - Those who can take care of themselves don't write posts like this  MrsGrumpy   May-17-05 09:45 AM   #107 
           - Well, seeing as this is an opinion board and not  Madrone   May-17-05 10:19 AM   #110 
              - Us guys? Who is us guys? One, I'm a girl. Two people post to me  MrsGrumpy   May-17-05 10:25 AM   #111 
                 - I've watched you post since you joined -  Madrone   May-17-05 10:37 AM   #114 
                    - The door is always open if you want to visit!  MrsGrumpy   May-17-05 10:43 AM   #116 
                       - I know! I posted in your thead about moving.  Madrone   May-17-05 10:52 AM   #117 
                          - But then I hear about housing prices and Whoosh! that would be  MrsGrumpy   May-17-05 10:59 AM   #119 
  - What about DULL  texas1928   May-16-05 09:05 PM   #58 
  - You got extra margarita's for that  belladonna   May-16-05 09:13 PM   #62 
  - I'm seeing cliquishness and exclusivity on this whole thread!  Kathy in Cambridge   May-16-05 09:19 PM   #65 
  - pretty simple actually  sundog   May-16-05 09:21 PM   #67 
  - I call foul.  MrsGrumpy   May-17-05 10:25 AM   #112 
  - i have one thing to say, and one thing onLy...  Revolutionary_Acts04   May-16-05 11:11 PM   #74 
  - I agree with the wonderful points made here  Lone_Star_Dem   May-16-05 11:40 PM   #76 
  - I resent the statement:  kick-ass-bob   May-17-05 07:34 AM   #84 
  - You could always challenge him for the title  belladonna   May-17-05 08:44 AM   #91 
  - I don't give a crap about cliques  mutley_r_us   May-17-05 07:35 AM   #85 
  - I wanna know what progmom is like the other 0.1% of the time.  Misunderestimator   May-17-05 07:38 AM   #87 
  - She is sleeping..  MrsGrumpy   May-17-05 07:42 AM   #88 
  - Aha! That explains it!  Misunderestimator   May-17-05 07:58 AM   #89 
     - I don't sleep nearly enough.  progmom   May-17-05 09:33 AM   #97 
  - Ahh, you remind me of one of the very few flame wars I participated in  belladonna   May-17-05 08:22 AM   #90 
     - There've been a lot of those...  Misunderestimator   May-17-05 08:52 AM   #92 
     - Same here  belladonna   May-17-05 09:02 AM   #94 
     - wait - i wasn't part of a spanking flame war, was i?  progmom   May-17-05 09:34 AM   #99 
        - Nope, I don't think so anyway  belladonna   May-17-05 09:40 AM   #102 
           - we agree  progmom   May-17-05 09:43 AM   #105 
  - I like cereal.  redqueen   May-17-05 09:23 AM   #95 
  - Grain-murderer!!!!!  Zenlitened   May-17-05 09:34 AM   #98 
     - The cries of the wheatstalks!  redqueen   May-17-05 09:38 AM   #101 
        - *PMs other DUers, urging them to pile-on evil, cereal-eating redqueen*  Zenlitened   May-17-05 09:40 AM   #103 
           - Yeesh.  Lilith Velkor   May-17-05 11:39 AM   #121 
              - Like this?  Zenlitened   May-17-05 02:47 PM   #126 
                 - No, like this  Lilith Velkor   May-18-05 04:55 PM   #127 
  - And another thing....!  DS1   May-17-05 09:36 AM   #100 
  - And why should you expect anyone to even make you feel welcome  RagingInMiami   May-17-05 09:43 AM   #106 
  - Different subject entirely  DS1   May-17-05 09:55 AM   #108 
  - ROFL  buddyhollysghost   May-17-05 01:12 PM   #124 
  - Oh suuurrre it isn't  belladonna   May-17-05 10:08 AM   #109 
     - funny  tigereye   May-17-05 11:08 AM   #120 
        - What a great post.  Bouncy Ball   May-17-05 11:51 AM   #122 
           - thanks BB  tigereye   May-17-05 11:53 AM   #123 
  - you wanna talk "thin-skinned"?  NorthernSpy   May-17-05 01:34 PM   #125 
 

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