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Mon May-16-05 09:00 PM
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Let me try to explain my perspective on this to you.
Number one - how long do we all have to look forward to this endless collective whining about all of your (not directed entirely at you, belladonna) perceived "whining" about cliques? One week? Two? A month?
How many threads are going to be started baiting someone into answering, so everyone can then start mocking the person who calls it like they see it as "lonely", "not able to fit in", "paranoid", "in need of a GRIP", "socially inept" , etc? CLUE: just because people are sick of this behavior doesn't mean they feel secretly left out and pouty. Turning it back around on them to try and make it into their emotional problem doesn't make it so, either. Even though you guys are the ones getting the most grease - there are plenty of others that see it like I do, and aren't speaking up. Another CLUE: endless threads about "cliques" are mocking other members, their opinions, and are nothing but flame bait. You all know this - which is why you find it so FUN. You continue to push the envelope, and you find yourselves quite clever. Then when one of you gets banned for continual flaunting of the rules, you whine. Those rules aren't meant for YOU....right?
More amusing is the posters that then start projecting their behavior onto others - berating them for being "mean", posting flamebait, not using the ingore button - etc. It's transparent, and it's STUPID.
I don't give a DAMN who is friends with who here, nor do I care who talks to who. Guess what? I don't know anyone who DOES. Get over yourselves!
From what I can tell - the "elite" comments were not made because anyone on this forum actually BELIEVES there's an elite it. It seemed to me that it was commentary regarding certain groups that are legends - in their OWN minds. The "elite" needs to stop flattering themselves. I didn't see it meant as a compliment.
Personally - I have no dog in this fight other than honesty, fairness, and justice. I'm sick of seeing people shit on here - and I don't really give a fuck WHAT any of you tries to project onto me for having the balls to say so. I kept quiet for a LONG time - and finally stopped holding my tongue when NotMyPrez got shit all over for baring her soul in a post asking for some respect as a DUer when it came to her faith. You guys took that and ran with it - and it was almost a month before you finally let that go. It was CRUEL, it was RUDE, and it was beneath contempt.
Belladonna - this is not entirely directed at you, even though your post finally prompted me to type something.
And FOR THE RECORD - to those of you that are pissing me the FUCK off with this bullshit - I would be equally disgusted by the same treatment being directed towards you, and I'd say something then too. I don't hold grudges, and I want no hard feelings. I just want to see this bs come to an end.
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| -Regarding all this clique nonsense |
belladonna |
May-16-05 08:15 PM |
#0 |
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I didn't join DU to get into any kind of clique |
MrScorpio |
May-16-05 08:26 PM |
#1 |
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I don't have a clique |
belladonna |
May-16-05 08:40 PM |
#25 |
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Aw Shucks... |
MrScorpio |
May-16-05 08:42 PM |
#33 |
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Amen... |
youthere |
May-17-05 10:41 AM |
#115 |
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A. Men. |
Bouncy Ball |
May-16-05 08:29 PM |
#2 |
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haha me neither |
sundog |
May-16-05 08:31 PM |
#5 |
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Neither do I |
belladonna |
May-16-05 08:33 PM |
#9 |
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Robb used to post a lot of polls, on every one of which the tenth choice |
undisclosedlocation |
May-16-05 08:40 PM |
#24 |
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weren't the DULL threads started when we were all new? |
sundog |
May-16-05 08:30 PM |
#3 |
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I'd been here for awhile |
belladonna |
May-16-05 08:32 PM |
#6 |
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so you were clearly taking advantage of my innocent mind |
sundog |
May-16-05 08:36 PM |
#15 |
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Among other things, hot stuff |
belladonna |
May-16-05 08:39 PM |
#21 |
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I am not a smartass. |
whoisalhedges |
May-16-05 08:31 PM |
#4 |
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semantics |
KitchenWitch |
May-16-05 08:32 PM |
#7 |
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You're actually a pain in the ass, but let's not get hung up |
JimmyJazz |
May-16-05 08:33 PM |
#8 |
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I was just gonna say "ass" |
dolo amber |
May-16-05 08:34 PM |
#10 |
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Wasn't there a thread about hedges being an ass once? |
JimmyJazz |
May-16-05 08:36 PM |
#14 |
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There was also a thread involving massive amounts of beans |
belladonna |
May-16-05 09:00 PM |
#52 |
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Smartass, wiseass.... meh, all semantics |
belladonna |
May-16-05 08:35 PM |
#11 |
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A gentleman never reveals his secrets. |
whoisalhedges |
May-16-05 08:36 PM |
#13 |
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Penis, dear |
dolo amber |
May-16-05 08:36 PM |
#17 |
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so what are you saying? |
Zuni |
May-16-05 08:39 PM |
#23 |
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But I CLEARLY revealed.... |
whoisalhedges |
May-16-05 08:40 PM |
#26 |
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Whiteacre D_WI |
JimmyJazz |
May-16-05 08:37 PM |
#18 |
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what kind of name is that? |
sundog |
May-16-05 08:38 PM |
#20 |
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Dude - how should I know? I wasn't even here then! |
JimmyJazz |
May-16-05 08:41 PM |
#29 |
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Whiteacre is the name of a town in WI ... the D stands for Dem ... |
hippiechick |
May-17-05 10:28 AM |
#113 |
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Um.... |
whoisalhedges |
May-16-05 08:41 PM |
#27 |
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Why what? |
JimmyJazz |
May-16-05 08:42 PM |
#32 |
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Well.... |
whoisalhedges |
May-16-05 08:44 PM |
#34 |
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You might want to change the name on the gallery pic then - |
JimmyJazz |
May-16-05 08:55 PM |
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THANK YOU!!! |
belladonna |
May-16-05 08:42 PM |
#30 |
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Better than being a dumbass. |
Roland99 |
May-16-05 08:36 PM |
#16 |
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I thought it was niceass? |
RetroLounge |
May-16-05 09:08 PM |
#59 |
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wow. thanks Belladonna. |
progmom |
May-16-05 08:35 PM |
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Jello wrasslin' has a way of bringing people together |
belladonna |
May-16-05 08:38 PM |
#19 |
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it sure does. it sure does |
Zuni |
May-16-05 08:42 PM |
#31 |
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Great. I wasn't mentioned. I must not be in the clique. |
Bok_Tukalo |
May-16-05 08:39 PM |
#22 |
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Neither was I, but I think that makes us |
SOteric |
May-16-05 08:45 PM |
#35 |
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Weren't you part of the DULL threads at one time? |
belladonna |
May-16-05 08:51 PM |
#41 |
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Was I? |
SOteric |
May-16-05 08:52 PM |
#42 |
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Seems like you were |
belladonna |
May-16-05 08:55 PM |
#48 |
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Fantastic. I say we let whoisalhedges, DS1, MrScorpio, and sundog in |
Bok_Tukalo |
May-16-05 08:53 PM |
#43 |
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HEY! |
progmom |
May-16-05 09:20 PM |
#66 |
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You just need to nail down the art of attention whoring |
belladonna |
May-16-05 08:45 PM |
#36 |
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I'm too easily pleased |
Bok_Tukalo |
May-16-05 08:54 PM |
#45 |
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I worship you. |
Sugar Smack |
May-17-05 07:32 AM |
#83 |
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Meh, neither was I, but I don't care. |
Bouncy Ball |
May-16-05 08:50 PM |
#40 |
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I always click on yours too |
belladonna |
May-16-05 08:54 PM |
#44 |
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Yeah, I've started a thread many times doing that |
Bouncy Ball |
May-16-05 08:54 PM |
#46 |
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I get the sense that the "clique" is a creation of assorted trolls |
Arkana |
May-16-05 08:41 PM |
#28 |
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Have come to conclude |
salin |
May-16-05 08:45 PM |
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Couldn't have said it any better. |
bushwentawol |
May-16-05 08:56 PM |
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You make some good points |
belladonna |
May-16-05 08:59 PM |
#50 |
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me, too |
salin |
May-16-05 09:03 PM |
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you said it much more nicely than I did, below. |
Madrone |
May-16-05 09:03 PM |
#55 |
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I agree with your posts on this matter |
last_texas_dem |
May-16-05 09:39 PM |
#70 |
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Hope this post is read by many, including the mods. |
mgdecombe |
May-17-05 12:23 AM |
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You are teh smrt. |
redqueen |
May-17-05 09:23 AM |
#96 |
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good assessment Salin |
tigereye |
May-17-05 10:59 AM |
#118 |
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I agree. |
SOteric |
May-16-05 08:46 PM |
#38 |
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Even when he's being a sexist pig |
belladonna |
May-16-05 08:48 PM |
#39 |
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I am not a part of your clique. |
texas1928 |
May-16-05 08:59 PM |
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Geesh, if I HAD a clique you'd be in it |
belladonna |
May-16-05 09:02 PM |
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BUT but |
texas1928 |
May-16-05 09:04 PM |
#57 |
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Oh for pete's sake. |
Madrone |
May-16-05 09:00 PM |
#53 |
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you know what's silly? |
progmom |
May-16-05 09:08 PM |
#60 |
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That would be great if it were true. |
Madrone |
May-16-05 09:18 PM |
#63 |
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I have to agree with Madrone |
RagingInMiami |
May-16-05 11:42 PM |
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First of all, find one instance where I've been guilty of that behavior |
belladonna |
May-16-05 09:11 PM |
#61 |
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to belladonna and madrone |
salin |
May-16-05 09:19 PM |
#64 |
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thanks salin ;) |
Madrone |
May-16-05 09:33 PM |
#69 |
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I was only posting about the elite clique crap that's been going on |
belladonna |
May-16-05 10:32 PM |
#71 |
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belladonna - |
Madrone |
May-16-05 09:24 PM |
#68 |
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I did notice and I'm not taking it all that personally |
belladonna |
May-16-05 10:33 PM |
#72 |
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I'm glad you didn't take it personally - |
Madrone |
May-16-05 11:11 PM |
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There are many angry folks on DU |
buddyhollysghost |
May-16-05 11:29 PM |
#75 |
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Well DUH. |
Madrone |
May-16-05 11:46 PM |
#78 |
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Bitch! |
buddyhollysghost |
May-16-05 11:50 PM |
#79 |
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!!!! |
Madrone |
May-16-05 11:55 PM |
#80 |
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Oh, you ain't no bitch atall |
buddyhollysghost |
May-17-05 09:42 AM |
#104 |
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There is nothing more to add to this post. |
mgdecombe |
May-17-05 12:17 AM |
#81 |
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Pissed the FUCK off? Use the hide thread button...instead of alienation |
MrsGrumpy |
May-17-05 07:36 AM |
#86 |
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My post |
Madrone |
May-17-05 09:01 AM |
#93 |
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Those who can take care of themselves don't write posts like this |
MrsGrumpy |
May-17-05 09:45 AM |
#107 |
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Well, seeing as this is an opinion board and not |
Madrone |
May-17-05 10:19 AM |
#110 |
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Us guys? Who is us guys? One, I'm a girl. Two people post to me |
MrsGrumpy |
May-17-05 10:25 AM |
#111 |
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I've watched you post since you joined - |
Madrone |
May-17-05 10:37 AM |
#114 |
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The door is always open if you want to visit! |
MrsGrumpy |
May-17-05 10:43 AM |
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I know! I posted in your thead about moving. |
Madrone |
May-17-05 10:52 AM |
#117 |
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But then I hear about housing prices and Whoosh! that would be |
MrsGrumpy |
May-17-05 10:59 AM |
#119 |
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What about DULL |
texas1928 |
May-16-05 09:05 PM |
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You got extra margarita's for that |
belladonna |
May-16-05 09:13 PM |
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I'm seeing cliquishness and exclusivity on this whole thread! |
Kathy in Cambridge |
May-16-05 09:19 PM |
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pretty simple actually |
sundog |
May-16-05 09:21 PM |
#67 |
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I call foul. |
MrsGrumpy |
May-17-05 10:25 AM |
#112 |
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i have one thing to say, and one thing onLy... |
Revolutionary_Acts04 |
May-16-05 11:11 PM |
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I agree with the wonderful points made here |
Lone_Star_Dem |
May-16-05 11:40 PM |
#76 |
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I resent the statement: |
kick-ass-bob |
May-17-05 07:34 AM |
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You could always challenge him for the title |
belladonna |
May-17-05 08:44 AM |
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I don't give a crap about cliques |
mutley_r_us |
May-17-05 07:35 AM |
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I wanna know what progmom is like the other 0.1% of the time. |
Misunderestimator |
May-17-05 07:38 AM |
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She is sleeping.. |
MrsGrumpy |
May-17-05 07:42 AM |
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Aha! That explains it! |
Misunderestimator |
May-17-05 07:58 AM |
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I don't sleep nearly enough. |
progmom |
May-17-05 09:33 AM |
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Ahh, you remind me of one of the very few flame wars I participated in |
belladonna |
May-17-05 08:22 AM |
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There've been a lot of those... |
Misunderestimator |
May-17-05 08:52 AM |
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Same here |
belladonna |
May-17-05 09:02 AM |
#94 |
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wait - i wasn't part of a spanking flame war, was i? |
progmom |
May-17-05 09:34 AM |
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Nope, I don't think so anyway |
belladonna |
May-17-05 09:40 AM |
#102 |
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we agree |
progmom |
May-17-05 09:43 AM |
#105 |
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I like cereal. |
redqueen |
May-17-05 09:23 AM |
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Grain-murderer!!!!! |
Zenlitened |
May-17-05 09:34 AM |
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The cries of the wheatstalks! |
redqueen |
May-17-05 09:38 AM |
#101 |
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*PMs other DUers, urging them to pile-on evil, cereal-eating redqueen* |
Zenlitened |
May-17-05 09:40 AM |
#103 |
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Yeesh. |
Lilith Velkor |
May-17-05 11:39 AM |
#121 |
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Like this? |
Zenlitened |
May-17-05 02:47 PM |
#126 |
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No, like this |
Lilith Velkor |
May-18-05 04:55 PM |
#127 |
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And another thing....! |
DS1 |
May-17-05 09:36 AM |
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And why should you expect anyone to even make you feel welcome |
RagingInMiami |
May-17-05 09:43 AM |
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Different subject entirely |
DS1 |
May-17-05 09:55 AM |
#108 |
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ROFL |
buddyhollysghost |
May-17-05 01:12 PM |
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Oh suuurrre it isn't |
belladonna |
May-17-05 10:08 AM |
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funny |
tigereye |
May-17-05 11:08 AM |
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What a great post. |
Bouncy Ball |
May-17-05 11:51 AM |
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thanks BB |
tigereye |
May-17-05 11:53 AM |
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you wanna talk "thin-skinned"? |
NorthernSpy |
May-17-05 01:34 PM |
#125 |