Reply #73: Its been a HUGE problem in my professional career.

[newportdadde]

Three months ago during my yearly review for 2004, I basically found out I was getting the minimum raise/no promotion etc. So we started discussing it and here is a direct quote..

"X your a hardworker, you take tasks and get them done on time and get the done right the first time, but thats not enough you need to be more 'visible'."

Which is code for.. I'm not a golf buddy with a manager, I'm not a member of any departmemt club, Diversity Club, etc etc. I"m also quite in meetings because I only talk when its something important not just to hear my own voice.

So yes its a very real and very difficult issue for me.

Edit:

Decided to add some characteristics of those who are moving up the ladder.

For Men: Six foot height or more(I'm 5'8''), athletic, golfer etc.

For Women: Size 6 or less, tanned, blonde preferred. Saw a girl 6 years out of college get promotted to the level of an older unattractive lady at the same time as this lady, but the older lady took 25 years(and she is very good).

I've heard the hot girl had sex with the boss but who knows.