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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Feb-26-05 02:46 AM
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14. No it's not.
People can be cruel. Some enjoy watching others fail just to make themselves feel good.
Prod the people further. Ask them what makes you so immature and ask for examples. If they are not able to give examples, (in an acedemic or work environment) you might want to voice a complaint. Some people will use any excuse to put someone down. OTOH, if they do give examples, listen and decide if the point is valid. If it is, then make an attempt to correct it.
Find a group of people, with similiar interests, to hang out with. If they are true friends, they will support you in whatever you do. I know that from experience. I have dropped a few friends in my day because of their negative attitudes. I am much better off.
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  -THe lack of joy of the lack of sex. (Not a sex thread). coloradodem2005  Feb-26-05 01:24 AM   #0 
  - First of all, this isn't an issue you should be following advice on  yvr girl   Feb-26-05 01:39 AM   #1 
  - I am not going to say "I bet"...  xmas74   Feb-26-05 01:40 AM   #2 
  - This isn't just about love.  coloradodem2005   Feb-26-05 01:55 AM   #5 
     - Sex doesn't make you mature  yvr girl   Feb-26-05 02:02 AM   #7 
     - I challenged myself for years.  coloradodem2005   Feb-26-05 02:10 AM   #9 
        - People fail.  xmas74   Feb-26-05 02:29 AM   #11 
        - Part of my failure was because other people would not let me succeed.  coloradodem2005   Feb-26-05 02:34 AM   #13 
           - No it's not.  xmas74   Feb-26-05 02:46 AM   #14 
              - I went through this with them.  coloradodem2005   Feb-26-05 02:52 AM   #16 
                 - Sometimes the point is to file that complaint,  xmas74   Feb-26-05 02:57 AM   #17 
        - I know you're angry and frastrated right now  yvr girl   Feb-26-05 02:34 AM   #12 
           - Have you ever gone after a dream....  coloradodem2005   Feb-26-05 02:48 AM   #15 
              - I'm pretty sure I have a few years on you, and yes I've lived a life  yvr girl   Feb-26-05 03:15 AM   # 
              - Bosses from hell is not the same thing  hfojvt   Feb-26-05 04:57 AM   #26 
              - I think I have  hfojvt   Feb-26-05 03:33 AM   #21 
                 - The movie was Cast Away  yvr girl   Feb-26-05 03:44 AM   #23 
                    - Thanks, and I just thought  hfojvt   Feb-26-05 04:28 AM   #25 
     - there is nothing wrong with not having sex.  xmas74   Feb-26-05 02:27 AM   #10 
        - Well, there is nothing wrong with not having sex  hfojvt   Feb-26-05 03:44 AM   #22 
  - You'll hear no platitudes or canned wisdom from me.  Fridays Child   Feb-26-05 01:42 AM   #3 
  - 2 ways to get around this  AngryAmish   Feb-26-05 01:52 AM   #4 
  - I hate it when that happens  Radical Activist   Feb-26-05 01:58 AM   #6 
  - yvr girl is right  khashka   Feb-26-05 02:07 AM   #8 
  - you don't have to be in a serious relationship with someone to have sex  JI7   Feb-26-05 03:10 AM   #18 
  - There's nothing wrong with not having sex.  Bouncy Ball   Feb-26-05 03:15 AM   # 
  - There's nothing wrong with not having sex.  Bouncy Ball   Feb-26-05 03:15 AM   #19 
  - The Agenda!  Behind the Aegis   Feb-26-05 03:27 AM   #20 
  - You said "Frustration is 100% of my life."  3lefts   Feb-26-05 04:03 AM   #24 
  - I did not allow these people to take advantage of me.  coloradodem2005   Feb-26-05 10:20 AM   #31 
  - I will echo a couple of posters and say, "It's time for a bit of  Nay   Feb-26-05 07:38 AM   #27 
  - I don't know if this will help or not but  Maine-ah   Feb-26-05 08:43 AM   #28 
  - Stop concentrating on what other people want for your life  Nikia   Feb-26-05 08:58 AM   #29 
  - A lot of people are afraid of single people because they are afraid  madison2000   Feb-26-05 09:11 AM   #30 
  - My serious opinion would be to seek counselling.  Wat_Tyler   Feb-26-05 02:33 PM   #32 
  - I used to hang out on  Glenda   Feb-26-05 02:46 PM   #33 
  - One word: counseling. Good luck man, I feel for you nt  steve2470   Feb-26-05 09:48 PM   #34 

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