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madison2000 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Feb-06-05 07:47 PM
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One of my co-workers is trashing the other one behind his back
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The 3 of us have to work together 40 hours per week. I only started 3 weeks ago, but I worked there previously, and know the trashee well enough to know he doesn't deserve this at all. Haven't talked to our supervisor about it yet, and he doesn't seem to see through the trasher's complaints and realize there's no substance to it.
She's very competitive, and tearing other people down seems to be part of her strategy. What would you do if you were me, the 3rd party in this triangle?
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  -One of my co-workers is trashing the other one behind his back madison2000  Feb-06-05 07:47 PM   #0 
  - Tell the trasher you don't want to hear it any more.  murielm99   Feb-06-05 07:52 PM   #1 
  - Yep, give the supervisor the "heads-up"  mgdecombe   Feb-06-05 08:29 PM   #7 
  - Let the trasher know that you don't agree  Spinzonner   Feb-06-05 07:55 PM   #2 
  - The supervisor is pretty new at supervising and he is handling it badly  madison2000   Feb-06-05 08:11 PM   #4 
     - Have you told the trashee what the trasher is saying?  MidwestMomma   Feb-06-05 08:24 PM   #5 
     - She was off work on Friday so he and I were alone  madison2000   Feb-06-05 08:38 PM   #10 
        - Good for you  MidwestMomma   Feb-06-05 09:09 PM   #13 
        - "Too professional to retaliate" sounds like a recipe for ---  IdaBriggs   Feb-07-05 08:36 AM   #14 
     - You're right that you're next on the list if you stand up to her  mgdecombe   Feb-06-05 08:32 PM   #8 
  - Rest assured, you're being trashed too  MichiganVote   Feb-06-05 08:08 PM   #3 
  - Agreed. Time to play some politics.  IdaBriggs   Feb-06-05 08:28 PM   #6 
     - Agreed, and try not be alone w/this person  MichiganVote   Feb-06-05 08:34 PM   #9 
  - The trashed one  KT2000   Feb-06-05 09:03 PM   #11 
  - I would pretend I was a deaf-mute  amazona   Feb-06-05 09:08 PM   #12 
  - stay out of it...but keep track of it.  MrsGrumpy   Feb-07-05 08:37 AM   #15 
  - dont be the one to bring to supervisor  seabeyond   Feb-07-05 09:12 AM   #16 
  - Careful. You're next if the trasher hasn't already simultaniously started  w4rma   Feb-07-05 09:15 AM   #17 
  - I'm sure that the OP is already in this woman's sights.  kick-ass-bob   Feb-07-05 09:16 AM   #18 
  - I had such a shitty day  madison2000   Feb-07-05 06:38 PM   #19 

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