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78. Yeah, and to make matters worse she was my first girlfriend
I found out she was sleeping with someone when I went off to a Boys' State conference back in high school. A friend talked to me on AIM while I was there and told me then. It really, really sucked, and I was hurt, but my family helped me get through it.
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  -Have You Ever Been In A Relationship Where your Partner Has Cheated on you lionesspriyanka  Jan-13-05 03:55 PM   #0 
  - No...but I've cheated on 2.  Squatch   Jan-13-05 03:56 PM   #1 
  - If you haven't been cheated on, you haven't been in many relationships  Maddy McCall   Jan-13-05 04:11 PM   #22 
     - Ha, ha, ha, ha...  Squatch   Jan-13-05 04:13 PM   #25 
        - Well, my friend, then you have been cheated on.  Maddy McCall   Jan-13-05 05:48 PM   #61 
  - end result: divorce  villager   Jan-13-05 03:57 PM   #2 
  - yes  arcane1   Jan-13-05 03:57 PM   #3 
  - That depends on which girl.  aden_nak   Jan-13-05 03:57 PM   #4 
  - Yes and no... monogamy for me is prerequisite number one  Misunderestimator   Jan-13-05 03:58 PM   #5 
  - Does that mean no more okra with Mrs Grumpy?  nothingshocksmeanymore   Jan-13-05 04:09 PM   #20 
     - Okra is the line, baby... cross that and it's over!  Misunderestimator   Jan-13-05 04:12 PM   #23 
     - did you know you are on the babesofsorryeverybody site?  lionesspriyanka   Jan-13-05 04:13 PM   #26 
     - Someone here mentioned something  Misunderestimator   Jan-13-05 04:15 PM   #31 
     - no worries  nothingshocksmeanymore   Jan-13-05 04:14 PM   #29 
        - Good answer  Misunderestimator   Jan-13-05 04:16 PM   #32 
        - Tell me about it. I don't have enough energy to do ANYTHING  Maddy McCall   Jan-13-05 05:49 PM   #62 
     - okra?  jonnyblitz   Jan-13-05 05:10 PM   #48 
        - what exactly is okra cheating?  lionesspriyanka   Jan-14-05 10:38 AM   #112 
  - Um, I'd rather not know  Champ   Jan-13-05 03:58 PM   #6 
  - Wait,  asthmaticeog   Jan-13-05 03:59 PM   #7 
  - yes i have been cheated on...or no i havetn  lionesspriyanka   Jan-13-05 04:00 PM   #8 
  - I misread it too... since the last question is 'did you get over it'...  Misunderestimator   Jan-13-05 04:01 PM   #11 
  - I think the subject line is the poll question  Champ   Jan-13-05 04:00 PM   #10 
  - Once was in a long distance relationship  sundog   Jan-13-05 04:00 PM   #9 
  - 9 months?  arcane1   Jan-13-05 04:36 PM   #36 
     - communication  sundog   Jan-13-05 04:38 PM   #37 
        - indeed  arcane1   Jan-13-05 04:39 PM   #40 
           - yup  sundog   Jan-13-05 04:43 PM   #42 
              - I know those days well  arcane1   Jan-13-05 04:44 PM   #43 
  - I threw all his stuff out on the back porch  Dookus   Jan-13-05 04:03 PM   #12 
  - Yeee-hah!  iconoclastic cat   Jan-13-05 06:59 PM   #89 
  - Yes. I deserved it. Plain and simple.  Taverner   Jan-13-05 04:03 PM   #13 
  - You should probably take up a career in country music.  NNadir   Jan-13-05 04:13 PM   #27 
     - LOL...seriously I was a total asshole  Taverner   Jan-13-05 04:29 PM   #35 
        - GASP!!! you were a college republican!!!  LDS Jock   Jan-13-05 04:49 PM   #45 
        - Who among us hasn't had a youthful moment of stupidity :)  Taverner   Jan-13-05 06:00 PM   #70 
           - we all have done things  LDS Jock   Jan-13-05 06:13 PM   #77 
        - Cool. She was good for you then. I hope she was good for your frat  NNadir   Jan-13-05 07:24 PM   #91 
           - Well he was worse  Taverner   Jan-13-05 07:49 PM   #99 
  - Yes . . . it sucks.  Lex   Jan-13-05 04:03 PM   #14 
  - Count me lucky too for the same reasons...  Misunderestimator   Jan-13-05 04:07 PM   #16 
  - These are the wrong choices, 'Yes' and 'No'  Heath.Hunnicutt   Jan-13-05 04:06 PM   #15 
  - Hahaha! Very true.  Lex   Jan-13-05 04:09 PM   #19 
  - When I was a kid of 19, I found out that my girlfriend had begun sleeping  NNadir   Jan-13-05 04:08 PM   #17 
  - Yes, and no, I did not get over it  MotorCityMan   Jan-13-05 04:08 PM   #18 
  - I was the cheater, and he seems to have gotten past it since we are still  GreenPartyVoter   Jan-13-05 04:11 PM   #21 
  - No, but after a 6-mo. relationship ended, the ex-GF started dating  Bertha Venation   Jan-13-05 04:12 PM   #24 
  - Not that I know of.  Worst Username Ever   Jan-13-05 04:14 PM   #28 
  - Army Officer Husband & his (younger) Female Troopie  ihaveaquestion   Jan-13-05 04:15 PM   #30 
  - I'm not sure, but I'm suspicious, so I went with yes.  asthmaticeog   Jan-13-05 04:24 PM   #33 
  - Yes, one did, with my best? friend  achtung_circus   Jan-13-05 04:29 PM   #34 
  - I once dated three different men at the same time.  Nadienne   Jan-13-05 04:38 PM   #38 
  - Wow...impressive  Taverner   Jan-13-05 04:39 PM   #39 
  - I don't know.  Nadienne   Jan-13-05 04:45 PM   #44 
  - I once dated 9 different women at the same time  Seabiscuit   Jan-13-05 05:13 PM   #51 
     - Lol I can't help but be impressed!  Nadienne   Jan-13-05 05:20 PM   #54 
        - It only lasted a few months. I narrowed it down to 8. :)  Seabiscuit   Jan-13-05 05:22 PM   #55 
           - 3 for 2 months was more than enough for me!  Nadienne   Jan-13-05 05:41 PM   #59 
  - I've only ever been in one relationship,  Plaid Adder   Jan-13-05 04:40 PM   #41 
  - Yep...and that relationship ended on the spot.  GOPisEvil   Jan-13-05 04:50 PM   #46 
  - eep.  lionesspriyanka   Jan-13-05 04:55 PM   #47 
  - Oh well...I can laugh about it now, but I was pissed then.  GOPisEvil   Jan-13-05 05:12 PM   #50 
  - Next time at Doobie's I want to hear this one!  GalleryGod   Jan-13-05 05:47 PM   #60 
  - Egad. I have to say, back in my "glory days," as wild as I was...  Maddy McCall   Jan-13-05 05:52 PM   #66 
     - OK - here's the story.  GOPisEvil   Jan-13-05 05:57 PM   #69 
        - Well, it had a happy outcome. In every relationship I have ever...  Maddy McCall   Jan-13-05 06:06 PM   #73 
           - Yep! All's well that ends well.  GOPisEvil   Jan-13-05 06:08 PM   #75 
  - Once. I called it off immediately. I got over it in about a month.  Seabiscuit   Jan-13-05 05:11 PM   #49 
  - No  last_texas_dem   Jan-13-05 05:14 PM   #52 
  - Not to my knowledge  supernova   Jan-13-05 05:16 PM   #53 
  - I don't think so, but I can't be 100% sure  NewJeffCT   Jan-13-05 05:24 PM   #56 
  - I have a weird situation  Beaverhausen   Jan-13-05 05:28 PM   #57 
  - Well, I walked in my girlfriend's apartment  RetroLounge   Jan-13-05 05:40 PM   #58 
  - eek  lionesspriyanka   Jan-13-05 05:49 PM   #63 
  - Jesus! You did, um, blow HER off, right?  Maddy McCall   Jan-13-05 05:54 PM   #68 
  - Did we date the same woman?  GOPisEvil   Jan-13-05 06:02 PM   #72 
     - LOL!  Maddy McCall   Jan-13-05 06:08 PM   #74 
        - Teehee!  GOPisEvil   Jan-13-05 06:09 PM   #76 
  - Yeah my former fiancee, at board games - and she kind of had the  qnr   Jan-13-05 05:49 PM   #64 
  - Ugh don't get me started  Radical Activist   Jan-13-05 05:50 PM   #65 
  - yep  nini   Jan-13-05 05:53 PM   #67 
  - The worst thing I ever did was cheat on my loyal wife.  B Calm   Jan-13-05 06:01 PM   #71 
  - Yeah, and to make matters worse she was my first girlfriend  Arkana   Jan-13-05 06:23 PM   #78 
  - It was a long-distance relationship  Lydia Leftcoast   Jan-13-05 06:25 PM   #79 
  - Yes and it was ended after that  Biased Liberal Media   Jan-13-05 06:27 PM   #80 
  - I can't imagine cheating on lionesspriyanka  Worst Username Ever   Jan-13-05 06:30 PM   #81 
  - people have  lionesspriyanka   Jan-13-05 06:48 PM   #83 
  - Yes.  Bok_Tukalo   Jan-13-05 06:46 PM   #82 
  - Yes, it sucked.  MrSlayer   Jan-13-05 06:49 PM   #84 
  - yes  Freebird12004   Jan-13-05 06:51 PM   #85 
  - I'll never know.  SarahBelle   Jan-13-05 06:55 PM   #86 
  - Yes! I split the scene, and occasionally indulged in REVENGE.  iconoclastic cat   Jan-13-05 06:55 PM   #87 
  - Not for very long.  greatauntoftriplets   Jan-13-05 06:55 PM   #88 
  - I once loved a woman who implied she was divorced...  hunter   Jan-13-05 07:14 PM   #90 
  - Oh shit  HEAVYHEART   Jan-13-05 07:27 PM   #92 
  - That seems like circular logic  Bok_Tukalo   Jan-13-05 07:52 PM   #100 
     - No  HEAVYHEART   Jan-13-05 07:55 PM   #101 
  - I wonder  ContraBass Black   Jan-13-05 07:28 PM   #93 
  - Nope  johnnie   Jan-13-05 07:30 PM   #94 
  - Nearly every one I've been in  hippiechick   Jan-13-05 07:33 PM   #95 
  - I've been on both sides of that issue.  TroubleMan   Jan-13-05 07:38 PM   #96 
  - Yes  Piperay   Jan-13-05 07:39 PM   #97 
  - yep, and I dumped him  curse10   Jan-13-05 07:45 PM   #98 
  - drank an entire handle of vodka  youngred   Jan-13-05 08:12 PM   #102 
  - the 'last' time  Freebird12004   Jan-14-05 08:12 AM   #107 
  - Yes, yes, yes.  mac56   Jan-13-05 08:16 PM   #103 
  - I booted his ass to the curb.  davsand   Jan-13-05 08:19 PM   #104 
  - Sort of  alarimer   Jan-13-05 08:29 PM   #105 
  - sadly yes  Zech Marquis   Jan-13-05 08:34 PM   #106 
  - I left him, we're divorced and I'm remarried...  Debbi801   Jan-14-05 08:19 AM   #108 
  - D * I * V * O * R * C * E  Joe Power   Jan-14-05 08:21 AM   #109 
  - Does cheating at Monopoly count?  jdonaldball   Jan-14-05 08:24 AM   #110 
  - Yes.  JordanTO   Jan-14-05 08:24 AM   #111 
 

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