Reply #34: I've been to a strip club with my husband, a long time

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ago. I'll never forget it, a woman in a nurse's uniform stripped to "A Spoonful of Sugar Helps the Medicine Go Down." Ruined Mary Poppins for me forever;-)

When I was in my 20's male strippers had just become a fad. Unfortunately the one I saw was not attractive, missing teeth and balding, so I didn't "get" the sexual turn on part.

I'm a very flexible wife, I don't tell my husband what to do, I don't have a problem with him going out on a Friday night with his friends. He only has one life and I think he should be able to enjoy his free time. But, I really don't like the idea of strip clubs and I don't think this is something that he HAS to do.

I think that not knowing about it is bothering more than if he actually went (which I still don't know).