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Mandate My Ass Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Sep-15-04 02:50 PM
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42. I'm happy for you and your daughter
I'm a Domestic Relations Court veteran (survivor) of many years, so be glad if you never have to walk into one again. They are hives of despair.

My ex actually got his child support for our son reduced because he knocked someone else up and the judge agreed with him that that was justification to reduce the very small amount he was giving me. I never could afford a lawyer so.....

It's best to have these things on paper. Saves pain and grief later on.
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  -bunnyj's Big Adventure in Domestic Relations Court. bunnyj  Sep-15-04 11:27 AM   #0 
  - Well done  redqueen   Sep-15-04 11:29 AM   #1 
  - Good for you  wryter2000   Sep-15-04 11:30 AM   # 
  - T of P would do me well right now!  bunnyj   Sep-15-04 11:37 AM   #8 
  - What took 12.5 years?  LincolnMcGrath   Sep-15-04 11:30 AM   #2 
  - We were never married. We split up right after she was born.  bunnyj   Sep-15-04 11:43 AM   #12 
     - Your anger caused you to go after his wallet?  LincolnMcGrath   Sep-15-04 11:50 AM   #15 
        - My reasons are personal, I'm not going into them on a  bunnyj   Sep-15-04 11:53 AM   #17 
        - So you are going to put every penny  LincolnMcGrath   Sep-15-04 11:57 AM   #19 
           - Deleted message  Name removed   Sep-15-04 12:02 PM   #20 
           - Deleted message  Name removed   Sep-15-04 12:11 PM   #21 
           - When you help to make a child, you share your resources with that child.  Mary Pat   Sep-15-04 12:11 PM   #22 
              - Agreed. Never stated anything different.  LincolnMcGrath   Sep-15-04 12:20 PM   #24 
                 - In Arizona, the primary custodial parent may not move...  Mary Pat   Sep-15-04 12:37 PM   #27 
                 - You have proof of your stats right?  LincolnMcGrath   Sep-15-04 01:01 PM   #28 
                    - But he undertook that obligation  Book Lover   Sep-15-04 01:40 PM   #31 
                    - So it is OK to collect from someone who isn't the father  LincolnMcGrath   Sep-15-04 01:44 PM   #33 
                       - He agreed to take that  Book Lover   Sep-15-04 02:32 PM   #38 
                          - This woman was seeing some one else during the adoption,  LincolnMcGrath   Sep-15-04 03:07 PM   #46 
                             - And that's the child's fault?  Pithlet   Sep-15-04 03:09 PM   #47 
                             - The question was  LincolnMcGrath   Sep-15-04 03:13 PM   #50 
                                - NO!  Pithlet   Sep-15-04 03:14 PM   #51 
                                   - He is not the father!  LincolnMcGrath   Sep-15-04 05:18 PM   #56 
                                      - uh...actually yeah he is...  VelmaD   Sep-15-04 05:24 PM   #57 
                                      - Of couse he is legally!  LincolnMcGrath   Sep-15-04 06:39 PM   #62 
                                      - He is the legal father ... because he made the choice to adopt.  Kaysera   Sep-15-04 05:28 PM   #58 
                                      - Yes  LincolnMcGrath   Sep-15-04 06:40 PM   #63 
                                      - So, adoptive fathers aren't real fathers?  Pithlet   Sep-15-04 05:29 PM   #59 
                                         - Nonsensical spin  LincolnMcGrath   Sep-15-04 06:38 PM   #61 
                                         - You said it!  Pithlet   Sep-15-04 06:45 PM   #64 
                             - In regards to the adoption, no  Book Lover   Sep-15-04 03:29 PM   #53 
                    - He adopted the child. Of course, it's fair. And the fact that you...  Mary Pat   Sep-15-04 02:19 PM   #35 
                       - There's an agenda alright.  Pithlet   Sep-15-04 02:23 PM   #37 
                       - Pithlet? Whenever I agree with your posts...  Mary Pat   Sep-15-04 02:41 PM   #40 
                          - LOL  Pithlet   Sep-15-04 02:44 PM   #41 
                       - What's your agenda? Hmm?  LincolnMcGrath   Sep-15-04 03:09 PM   #48 
                 - So all women are just like her  Pithlet   Sep-15-04 02:19 PM   #36 
                    - Never said any of that.  LincolnMcGrath   Sep-15-04 03:11 PM   #49 
                       - You're implying it  Pithlet   Sep-15-04 03:16 PM   #52 
        - Her anger caused her to demand what she had every right to to begin with!  redqueen   Sep-15-04 12:12 PM   #23 
        - Totally uncalled for  Pithlet   Sep-15-04 02:18 PM   #34 
        - Thanks pithlet!  bunnyj   Sep-15-04 02:56 PM   #44 
        - I believe that she said ... no support (for their child) for 2 years.  Kaysera   Sep-15-04 05:17 PM   #55 
  - Schaudenfreude is perhaps my favorite emotion.  eyesroll   Sep-15-04 11:30 AM   #3 
  - Congratulations!  Gothic_Sponge   Sep-15-04 11:31 AM   #4 
  - De-gonading is getting allot of airtime around here.  LincolnMcGrath   Sep-15-04 11:33 AM   #6 
     - All the cool kids are doing it!  Gothic_Sponge   Sep-15-04 11:34 AM   #7 
     - Wonder what would happen if someone suggested de-breasting...  redqueen   Sep-15-04 11:47 AM   #14 
     - You got it.  LincolnMcGrath   Sep-15-04 11:53 AM   #18 
     - Didn't the Amazons (from Greek myth) do that?  JCCyC   Sep-15-04 01:37 PM   #30 
     - Well  Southpaw Bookworm   Sep-15-04 01:35 PM   #29 
        - Can you post a link to the thread  LincolnMcGrath   Sep-15-04 01:41 PM   #32 
           - Found it  Southpaw Bookworm   Sep-15-04 02:40 PM   #39 
              - Don't see anal in there anywhere  LincolnMcGrath   Sep-15-04 03:02 PM   #45 
                 - Not meaning to start another flame war  MountainLaurel   Sep-15-04 03:39 PM   #54 
  - Congratulations!  BurtWorm   Sep-15-04 11:33 AM   #5 
  - He may already be doing that!  bunnyj   Sep-15-04 11:38 AM   #9 
  - Congrats and good riddance  rocknation   Sep-15-04 11:39 AM   #10 
  - Wow! Way to go for your sister and nephew!  bunnyj   Sep-15-04 11:46 AM   #13 
     - He owns a business now--a payment plan was worked out  rocknation   Sep-15-04 12:24 PM   #25 
        - Wonderful!  bunnyj   Sep-15-04 12:25 PM   #26 
  - Anyone who can use...  GOPFighter   Sep-15-04 11:39 AM   #11 
  - Perception is everything, isn't it?  bunnyj   Sep-15-04 11:50 AM   #16 
  - I'm happy for you and your daughter  Monica_L   Sep-15-04 02:50 PM   #42 
     - Thanks Monica!  bunnyj   Sep-15-04 02:56 PM   #43 
        - glad things worked out for you Bunny  tigereye   Sep-15-04 06:32 PM   #60 
           - Thanks tigereye!  bunnyj   Sep-15-04 06:59 PM   #65 
 

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