Reply #9: don't mean to be rude

[gumby]

but when I read your headder, my first reaction was:

lay off the salt.

See, I thought your ring was uncofortuabe because of "womanly swelling," hahahaha

There is no "proper etiquette." You have to make it up as you go along.

Maybe if you figure out your connection with both of your "ring things," it will give you some clues.