Reply #19: My response

[bratcatinok]

"Why get married at all if all men do is look and fantasize about other women?"

You're making an overbroad statement when you state all men do is look and fantasize about other women. First, that's not what men do 24/7/365. They may see some they're attracted to or they may even be tempted about other women. They're only human. The important thing is whether they actually take any action. It sounds as if your husband hasn't taken any action because he understands it would hurt you and he cares enough about your feelings to not to want to bring you pain. Sounds to me like he loves you quite alot.

I wouldn't be mad at him for it, I'd love him back for it. It sounds as if your bitterness might be clouding your judgement of his statement. I would much rather my ex would have not cheated on me because he cared about my feelings rather than him cheating on me while telling me he loved and cared about me.