lostexpectation
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Sun Nov-13-05 08:02 AM
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| 5. let them finish the job |
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as best as you can get them to, say nothing, those are pretty nasty convictions but how is a sex offender who is unemployed going to help anyone.
I don;t what you said to the guy if you brought it up.
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| -A child molester has been installing our floors - help |
Ayesha |
Nov-13-05 07:49 AM |
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That's a tough one. |
Not Me |
Nov-13-05 07:55 AM |
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Simply disengage. Let them finish the work. You don't need that |
henslee |
Nov-13-05 07:58 AM |
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If it were me, I would ask them to complete the |
rosesaylavee |
Nov-13-05 07:59 AM |
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I agree |
FreedomAngel82 |
Nov-13-05 11:25 AM |
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4 things ..... |
Botany |
Nov-13-05 08:00 AM |
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The problem is... |
Ayesha |
Nov-13-05 08:10 AM |
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4 dogs |
Botany |
Nov-13-05 08:22 AM |
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Beautiful Lab |
Ayesha |
Nov-13-05 08:28 AM |
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Aw |
FreedomAngel82 |
Nov-13-05 11:28 AM |
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I agree |
FreedomAngel82 |
Nov-13-05 11:27 AM |
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let them finish the job |
lostexpectation |
Nov-13-05 08:02 AM |
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Have them fix the tiles in the bathroom |
ayeshahaqqiqa |
Nov-13-05 08:04 AM |
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Your relationship with them started as a business one. |
DemItAllAnyway |
Nov-13-05 08:05 AM |
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Judge not, lest ye be judged... |
MojoXN |
Nov-13-05 08:05 AM |
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What would Jesus do? |
Poppyseedman |
Nov-13-05 08:06 AM |
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Jesus would tell you to follow the law? |
kineta |
Nov-13-05 12:30 PM |
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Not to mention pushing a radical reinvention of Jewish laws |
0rganism |
Nov-15-05 03:45 PM |
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Geeeezzzzzzzzz, that i a tough one! |
mexicoxpat |
Nov-13-05 08:10 AM |
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Fwiw, you are under no obligation to explain or defend any |
sfexpat2000 |
Nov-13-05 08:12 AM |
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You don't say how old he is and how long ago the crime happened |
Spinzonner |
Nov-13-05 08:13 AM |
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Name removed |
Nov-13-05 08:17 AM |
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You really shouldn't do that |
qanda |
Nov-13-05 08:27 AM |
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Too bad for the low-eyes! |
liberalnurse |
Nov-13-05 08:14 AM |
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Low-eyes? |
OldLeftieLawyer |
Nov-13-05 11:20 AM |
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What ever, their eyes are fixed |
liberalnurse |
Nov-13-05 12:15 PM |
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I've heard both |
dr.strangelove |
Nov-15-05 09:09 AM |
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This is another post that implies sex offenders can never be released |
HereSince1628 |
Nov-13-05 08:22 AM |
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I could go along with life with no possibility of parole |
Walt Starr |
Nov-13-05 09:04 AM |
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IMO We have to do something. What we have no amounts to |
HereSince1628 |
Nov-13-05 10:40 AM |
#49 |
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There are people knowledgeable on DU |
Turbineguy |
Nov-13-05 08:22 AM |
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Complete the business relationship. End of story. |
lonestarnot |
Nov-13-05 08:23 AM |
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There could be extenuating circumstances |
Poor Richard Lex |
Nov-13-05 08:25 AM |
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ANY penetration is RAPE |
Walt Starr |
Nov-13-05 09:06 AM |
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Bingo...... |
liberalnurse |
Nov-13-05 12:17 PM |
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I find it odd |
Seeker30 |
Nov-15-05 12:24 AM |
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even when it's consenual...? |
MarsThe Cat |
Nov-15-05 12:27 AM |
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have them finish the work... |
progdonkey |
Nov-13-05 08:26 AM |
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Do you have children? |
sandnsea |
Nov-13-05 08:33 AM |
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No |
Ayesha |
Nov-13-05 08:36 AM |
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I thought that this might help... |
MojoXN |
Nov-13-05 08:39 AM |
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Thank you |
Ayesha |
Nov-13-05 08:52 AM |
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I'm in a similar (kind of) situation... |
zanne |
Nov-13-05 08:45 AM |
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Tell her you're Jewish ;) |
Ayesha |
Nov-13-05 08:50 AM |
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Thanks, Ayesha. |
zanne |
Nov-13-05 09:03 AM |
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Anti-Semitism has historically been endemic in Russia and |
Spinzonner |
Nov-13-05 08:55 AM |
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Thank you for that info, Spinzonner |
zanne |
Nov-13-05 09:05 AM |
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Tsarist spooks wrote the "Protocols of the Elders of Zion" |
akarnitz |
Nov-13-05 09:09 AM |
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You betcha |
OldLeftieLawyer |
Nov-13-05 11:27 AM |
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I knew this woman from Japan last year |
rockymountaindem |
Nov-13-05 04:20 PM |
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If you want to make a clean break... |
pox americana |
Nov-13-05 08:57 AM |
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You wouldn't want him |
jbnow |
Nov-13-05 08:58 AM |
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While I can understand your consternation |
hyphenate |
Nov-13-05 09:01 AM |
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My advise? |
Meldread |
Nov-13-05 09:02 AM |
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What's the problem? |
OldLeftieLawyer |
Nov-13-05 09:04 AM |
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I have to agree. |
radwriter0555 |
Nov-13-05 09:07 AM |
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Oh, come on |
OldLeftieLawyer |
Nov-13-05 10:41 AM |
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Nope. You said it all with absolute perfection... Why try to improve |
radwriter0555 |
Nov-14-05 11:39 PM |
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Ah......... |
OldLeftieLawyer |
Nov-15-05 09:01 AM |
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I agree. |
Poll_Blind |
Nov-13-05 09:11 AM |
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I think you misunderstood |
Ayesha |
Nov-13-05 09:25 AM |
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Terrifying stuff? |
neebob |
Nov-13-05 01:25 PM |
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Your Degree of Tolerance |
RobinA |
Nov-15-05 01:46 PM |
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I would want to know this info if I had kids and was considering him. |
Scout1071 |
Nov-13-05 09:57 AM |
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The majority of child molesters |
OldLeftieLawyer |
Nov-13-05 10:42 AM |
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The big deal is that they are child molesters with access to children. |
Scout1071 |
Nov-13-05 10:51 AM |
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Yeah, well, |
OldLeftieLawyer |
Nov-13-05 10:55 AM |
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OldLeftieLawyer - |
Scout1071 |
Nov-13-05 11:07 AM |
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I understand your outrage completely, I really do |
OldLeftieLawyer |
Nov-13-05 11:18 AM |
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"for no good reason" |
bloom |
Nov-15-05 04:33 PM |
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Yes, I agree. |
lizzy |
Nov-13-05 11:08 AM |
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The big deal about what? Are you implying child molestation is |
lizzy |
Nov-13-05 11:15 AM |
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See this is why I find DU a great place to have a discussion. Just... |
Poll_Blind |
Nov-13-05 12:35 PM |
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Agreed. |
Marr |
Nov-13-05 11:01 AM |
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Agreed. |
TahitiNut |
Nov-13-05 11:47 AM |
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For the Most Part, I Agree |
Crisco |
Nov-13-05 12:25 PM |
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I just looked you up this morning |
OldLeftieLawyer |
Nov-13-05 12:36 PM |
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LOL |
Crisco |
Nov-13-05 12:39 PM |
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"I'd think it would hurt that person tremendously" |
bloom |
Nov-15-05 04:38 PM |
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Child molestors |
Danger Duck |
Nov-13-05 09:16 AM |
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Tell them you got a great job offer in another town and you |
tinfoilinfor2005 |
Nov-13-05 09:25 AM |
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Leave your Condo, and burn it to the ground |
BiggJawn |
Nov-13-05 09:27 AM |
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Nice |
OldLeftieLawyer |
Nov-13-05 10:45 AM |
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I plead Historical Precedence. |
BiggJawn |
Nov-13-05 11:24 AM |
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I agree |
OldLeftieLawyer |
Nov-13-05 11:25 AM |
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What debt to society are you talking about? |
lizzy |
Nov-13-05 11:28 AM |
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Well, then, you know what you have to do tomorrow. |
BiggJawn |
Nov-13-05 11:47 AM |
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Some long for the good old days, |
OldLeftieLawyer |
Nov-13-05 11:52 AM |
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If the judge decided that probation would be the debt, then that's it! |
JVS |
Nov-13-05 11:57 AM |
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The OP has a moral obligation to stiff the guy on the bill. |
JVS |
Nov-13-05 12:00 PM |
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Why are you afraid? |
neebob |
Nov-13-05 10:17 AM |
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Keep children away from him |
sheeptramp |
Nov-13-05 10:50 AM |
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If you don't have kids, you are probably o'key. Just let them finish. |
lizzy |
Nov-13-05 10:58 AM |
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Follow the advice of Old Lefty Lawyer and ........... |
cmd |
Nov-13-05 11:02 AM |
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Seems like a bad situation |
FreedomAngel82 |
Nov-13-05 11:20 AM |
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Jesus would have forgiven him |
notadmblnd |
Nov-13-05 11:22 AM |
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Original poster is not Jesus, I presume. |
lizzy |
Nov-13-05 11:24 AM |
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if he wasn't convicted, how did he get in the registry? |
notadmblnd |
Nov-13-05 11:42 AM |
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That's the point |
OldLeftieLawyer |
Nov-13-05 11:50 AM |
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I wouldn't want any criminal to work in my house. |
lizzy |
Nov-13-05 11:58 AM |
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That's something to think about BEFORE they've started work |
JVS |
Nov-13-05 12:01 PM |
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Well remember this |
mrcheerful |
Nov-13-05 12:08 PM |
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I don't know about that |
OldLeftieLawyer |
Nov-13-05 12:34 PM |
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Since you have no kids, don't sweat it. Let him finish, pay him, and... |
JVS |
Nov-13-05 11:52 AM |
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Here's what concerns me. I don't want to panic you, but, |
johnaries |
Nov-13-05 12:14 PM |
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Oh, for God's sake |
OldLeftieLawyer |
Nov-13-05 12:37 PM |
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OLL, I always respect your opinion and love your posts, |
johnaries |
Nov-13-05 01:03 PM |
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Thank you for your kind words, |
OldLeftieLawyer |
Nov-13-05 01:30 PM |
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Skepticism is our friend, too - |
neebob |
Nov-13-05 02:01 PM |
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I assure you |
Ayesha |
Nov-13-05 08:00 PM |
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Nov-13-05 12:59 PM |
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Remember |
mrcheerful |
Nov-13-05 01:11 PM |
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Nov-13-05 01:23 PM |
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as a parent and a female I APPLAUD the registries. |
progressivebydesign |
Nov-13-05 01:15 PM |
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Nov-13-05 01:25 PM |
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I'm a parent, a female, |
OldLeftieLawyer |
Nov-13-05 01:32 PM |
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don't have them "fix" any mistakes--get someone else. a couple of tiles |
yurbud |
Nov-13-05 12:59 PM |
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Get PEPPER SPRAY and/or TASER depending on what you are comfortable with |
yurbud |
Nov-13-05 01:00 PM |
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Depends on what kind of tiles you're using. Most experts advise grout. n/t |
Leopolds Ghost |
Nov-13-05 04:13 PM |
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tell them when they finish the alarm installers are coming |
yurbud |
Nov-13-05 01:01 PM |
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Ask an able bodied friend or two to be around until the job is completed. |
FrankX |
Nov-13-05 01:29 PM |
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Consult your Home Repair Guide for Grouting Tips... few here can advise. |
Leopolds Ghost |
Nov-13-05 04:07 PM |
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Update |
Ayesha |
Nov-14-05 01:17 PM |
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Good plan!!! |
FrankX |
Nov-14-05 10:59 PM |
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if I may give you some advice........ |
grasswire |
Nov-15-05 12:22 AM |
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It's definitely not... |
Ayesha |
Nov-15-05 02:03 AM |
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start packing |
grasswire |
Nov-15-05 11:06 AM |
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gack, I blew the italics |
grasswire |
Nov-15-05 03:38 PM |
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Good move, Ayesha. |
ultraist |
Nov-15-05 08:05 AM |
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who would be comfortable helping give someone a second chance...? |
MarsThe Cat |
Nov-15-05 12:35 AM |
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Yeah thats how I feel too |
mrcheerful |
Nov-15-05 01:54 AM |
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Depends |
Ayesha |
Nov-15-05 02:39 AM |
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two things- |
MarsThe Cat |
Nov-15-05 07:20 AM |
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Oh, BS marsthecat |
ultraist |
Nov-15-05 08:08 AM |
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how exactly is the poster's safety at risk? |
MarsThe Cat |
Nov-15-05 09:44 AM |
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Just wanted to let people know |
Indy_Dem_Defender |
Nov-15-05 04:14 AM |
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two questions- |
MarsThe Cat |
Nov-15-05 07:34 AM |
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reply to two questions |
Indy_Dem_Defender |
Nov-15-05 10:13 PM |
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Since you've already taken action that pleases you, this is moot, but |
Mairead |
Nov-15-05 06:21 AM |
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Mmm-hmm. |
seawolf |
Nov-15-05 05:47 PM |
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You don't have children, so you probably don't have to worry |
noonwitch |
Nov-15-05 08:00 AM |
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"the guy got parole" |
Mairead |
Nov-15-05 10:02 AM |
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And OJ got off completely |
ultraist |
Nov-15-05 10:53 AM |
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And maybe OJ didn't do it. |
Mairead |
Nov-15-05 03:51 PM |
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Judges can see the same cases |
bloom |
Nov-15-05 05:02 PM |
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I would make a point of not being home |
CornField |
Nov-15-05 08:10 AM |
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Accuse him of molesting a child...Frame him....remove him... |
LeftHander |
Nov-15-05 08:13 AM |
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Sex offenders have among the lowest recidivism rates. |
patcox2 |
Nov-15-05 09:02 AM |
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I have always heard that the rate was shockingly high...... |
halobeam |
Nov-15-05 10:08 AM |
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Yes, child rapists rape, on average around 40 children |
ultraist |
Nov-15-05 10:56 AM |
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Nope, thats false. |
patcox2 |
Nov-15-05 12:53 PM |
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You should read that a little more closely. |
patcox2 |
Nov-15-05 12:46 PM |
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And |
mrcheerful |
Nov-15-05 01:32 PM |
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Reading it wrong |
michaelwb |
Nov-15-05 01:16 PM |
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Let them finish the work. |
mutley_r_us |
Nov-15-05 03:55 PM |
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Inform the local biker gang or the like. |
MrSlayer |
Nov-15-05 04:57 PM |
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Check first, next time. |
madeline_con |
Nov-15-05 05:53 PM |
#155 |
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