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mzmolly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Apr-27-05 09:14 PM
Response to Reply #66
91. One of the goals of Head Start is to encourage attachment.
My sister is a teacher and said many of the kids have never formed a healthy attachment before entering the program.

It's interesting because many may never know why they persevered - when a teacher long ago may have made all the difference.

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  -More Reasons Not to Spank redqueen  Apr-27-05 04:42 PM   #0 
  - The Strongest Reason Not To Spank  CO Liberal   Apr-27-05 04:44 PM   #1 
  - we we see how they turned out  Shallah   Apr-27-05 04:49 PM   #2 
  - The main reason not to spank: It doesn't work  Jacobin   Apr-27-05 06:36 PM   #30 
     - The only thing spanking taught me was to LIE ...  Garage Queen   Apr-28-05 09:16 AM   #111 
  - What are we spanking?  Rockholm   Apr-27-05 04:49 PM   #3 
  - I got my hopes up for nothing.  Rufus T. Firefly   Apr-27-05 04:51 PM   #4 
  - I still think  Mugweed   Apr-27-05 05:05 PM   #5 
  - Oh Heck, Use Pepper Spray. That'll Teach The Buggars Not To  emanymton   Apr-27-05 05:09 PM   #6 
  - Yeah I'd rather have a child afraid of being hit  gollygee   Apr-27-05 05:11 PM   #7 
  - I have three respectful children, and oh my...  phylny   Apr-27-05 05:24 PM   #10 
  - I've never spanked my kids and they neve rmouth off.  redqueen   Apr-27-05 05:27 PM   #11 
  - What are you saying?  gollygee   Apr-27-05 05:29 PM   #13 
  - I disagree.  Bouncy Ball   Apr-27-05 06:22 PM   #18 
  - Well ya know what?  Horse with no Name   Apr-27-05 06:33 PM   #27 
     - So many fantastic posts on this subject.  redqueen   Apr-27-05 06:35 PM   #29 
     - Kudos to you. I wish everyone had had such a good parent  Jacobin   Apr-27-05 07:01 PM   #36 
  - By the way, the only reason I behaved around my parents  Bouncy Ball   Apr-27-05 06:26 PM   #22 
  - So what do you do when your partner "mouths off" to you today?  mzmolly   Apr-27-05 08:22 PM   #67 
  - i guess give him a time out since we treat him like a child  seabeyond   Apr-28-05 12:09 AM   #108 
     - Adults DO have consequences for their actions ...  mzmolly   Apr-28-05 09:38 AM   #114 
  - Oh yes, by all means, let's go back to the 'good old days'  Lindacooks   Apr-27-05 09:19 PM   #92 
  - I'm with you Mugweed. All I know is when I went to school in the 70's  frankly_fedup2   Apr-27-05 10:09 PM   #99 
  - No, kids are disrespectful to others because they haven't been TAUGHT...  DARE to HOPE   Apr-28-05 09:44 AM   #115 
  - Yeah... I remember the sound of the belt snapping too...  Misunderestimator   Apr-28-05 09:47 AM   #116 
  - I take away privileges and that works  bleedingheart   Apr-27-05 05:15 PM   #8 
  - All good methods...  redqueen   Apr-27-05 05:29 PM   #12 
  - Redqueen you are my hero!  _TJ_   Apr-27-05 05:19 PM   #9 
  - I'm really glad you brought this up.  redqueen   Apr-27-05 05:29 PM   #14 
  - It probably never occurred to these folks...  sendero   Apr-27-05 05:42 PM   #15 
  - Interesting.  redqueen   Apr-27-05 06:18 PM   #16 
  - I knew someone..  sendero   Apr-27-05 06:36 PM   #31 
     - I'm not being a smartass.  redqueen   Apr-27-05 06:39 PM   #32 
     - The problem with dogmatic thinking..  sendero   Apr-27-05 07:16 PM   #37 
     - What's your response to this post?  _TJ_   Apr-27-05 06:40 PM   #33 
        - I responded...  sendero   Apr-27-05 07:18 PM   #39 
  - But which came first?  quaker bill   Apr-27-05 08:02 PM   #57 
  - Why is it ok to hit a small child and not an adult?  mzmolly   Apr-27-05 08:27 PM   #71 
     - Probably the same reason...  sendero   Apr-27-05 08:36 PM   #76 
        - You didn't answer my question. The only difference is the child  mzmolly   Apr-27-05 08:49 PM   #85 
  - there are worse things than spanking-  LiberallyInclined   Apr-27-05 06:21 PM   #17 
  - They are very, very bad too!  _TJ_   Apr-27-05 06:23 PM   #19 
  - I don't think you can say one is worse than the other.  Bouncy Ball   Apr-27-05 06:24 PM   #20 
  - it depends on how they are administered- and to what extent.  LiberallyInclined   Apr-27-05 06:51 PM   #35 
     - Bologna.  mzmolly   Apr-27-05 08:31 PM   #74 
        - which were you subjected to as a child?  LiberallyInclined   Apr-27-05 11:12 PM   #106 
           - I had both as well, and I would much rather have an unkind word.  mzmolly   Apr-28-05 09:34 AM   #112 
              - and i'd rather have a pat on the fanny, than continual degradation.  LiberallyInclined   Apr-28-05 10:37 AM   #117 
                 - A "pat on the fanny" is degrading ...  mzmolly   Apr-28-05 10:47 AM   #119 
                    - it's becoming very apparent that you just don't get it...  LiberallyInclined   Apr-28-05 01:18 PM   #122 
                       - My point is that no child should endure "abuse."  mzmolly   Apr-28-05 04:36 PM   #123 
                          - wow- what a novel position...  LiberallyInclined   Apr-28-05 05:36 PM   #124 
                             - I can see you still haven't got a point.  mzmolly   Apr-28-05 05:38 PM   #125 
                                - I made my point in my response to the original poster-  LiberallyInclined   Apr-28-05 05:51 PM   #126 
                                   - My is that the best insult you can come up with?  mzmolly   Apr-28-05 07:33 PM   #127 
                                      - Deleted message  Name removed   Apr-28-05 11:58 PM   #128 
                                         - I always take heart in the fact that I've won the debate when people  mzmolly   Apr-29-05 09:47 AM   #129 
                                            - happy spanking? moi? yet again you seem to be mistaken-  LiberallyInclined   Apr-29-05 11:37 AM   #131 
                                               - Do you condone corporal punishment for adults as well?  mzmolly   Apr-29-05 12:15 PM   #132 
                                                  - as far as spanking for adults is concerned-  LiberallyInclined   Apr-29-05 01:05 PM   #133 
  - Agreed  XemaSab   Apr-27-05 07:50 PM   #52 
  - Most parents who would speak to a child in such a manner don't stop  mzmolly   Apr-27-05 08:33 PM   #75 
  - Yeah, so it's best to use all three when disciplining.  mzmolly   Apr-27-05 08:29 PM   #72 
  - I can say that  H2O Man   Apr-27-05 06:25 PM   #21 
  - Pretty much says it all, doesn't it?  redqueen   Apr-27-05 06:27 PM   #23 
  - Yep.  Bouncy Ball   Apr-27-05 06:29 PM   #25 
  - Bless you bouncy  _TJ_   Apr-27-05 06:34 PM   #28 
  - Aw!  Bouncy Ball   Apr-27-05 08:04 PM   #59 
     - Well said.  H2O Man   Apr-27-05 08:12 PM   #63 
        - I learned about that when I fostered/attempted to adopt  Bouncy Ball   Apr-27-05 08:18 PM   #66 
           - One of the goals of Head Start is to encourage attachment.  mzmolly   Apr-27-05 09:14 PM   #91 
  - Wow.  missb   Apr-27-05 08:44 PM   #81 
     - Blushing now.  Bouncy Ball   Apr-27-05 09:00 PM   #87 
  - Thank you! Thank you, for saying that  _TJ_   Apr-27-05 06:33 PM   #26 
  - The people who  H2O Man   Apr-27-05 08:09 PM   #62 
     - and to think if you had been a student of some of the teachers  Horse with no Name   Apr-28-05 12:06 AM   #107 
  - That's a great anecdote..  sendero   Apr-27-05 07:17 PM   #38 
  - You didn't read his post properly!  _TJ_   Apr-27-05 07:23 PM   #41 
  - Look....  sendero   Apr-27-05 07:36 PM   #44 
     - Actually, smacking on the ass is hitting. perhaps 'light' hitting but...  sonicx   Apr-27-05 07:39 PM   #46 
     - Well...  sendero   Apr-27-05 07:46 PM   #50 
        - A position being popular doesn't mean it's right  sonicx   Apr-27-05 07:53 PM   #54 
           - I agree with your subject line..  sendero   Apr-27-05 08:03 PM   #58 
              - You are using black and white language and calling others dogmatic.  mzmolly   Apr-27-05 08:59 PM   #86 
     - Of course spanking is hitting  _TJ_   Apr-27-05 07:41 PM   #47 
     - Nice..  sendero   Apr-27-05 07:51 PM   #53 
        - No framing is required  _TJ_   Apr-27-05 07:55 PM   #56 
           - If I drink a lot of water..  sendero   Apr-27-05 08:05 PM   #60 
              - in both cases, it's the truth  sonicx   Apr-27-05 08:12 PM   #64 
                 - Well...  sendero   Apr-27-05 08:23 PM   #68 
                    - That's why I said you have to adject your langauge in casual conversation  sonicx   Apr-27-05 08:30 PM   #73 
     - Is it ok for a husband to smack his wife on occassion, or  mzmolly   Apr-27-05 08:42 PM   #78 
        - Good question, mzmolly!  H2O Man   Apr-27-05 09:01 PM   #88 
        - Exactly. In fact, I run amok at work if my boss forgets the strap.  mzmolly   Apr-27-05 09:04 PM   #89 
        - The vast majority...  sendero   Apr-27-05 10:19 PM   #100 
           - So because the majority of Americans feel that hitting a small defenseless  mzmolly   Apr-27-05 10:31 PM   #103 
              - There was no....  sendero   Apr-27-05 10:36 PM   #104 
              - The vast majority of people in some countries feel that it's ok to execute  mzmolly   Apr-28-05 09:08 AM   #109 
              - All it shows  H2O Man   Apr-27-05 10:39 PM   #105 
                 - You are correct, sir!  mzmolly   Apr-28-05 09:10 AM   #110 
  - Funny, i seem to remember his post saying...  sonicx   Apr-27-05 07:28 PM   #43 
  - But your defending hitting small children.  mzmolly   Apr-27-05 08:41 PM   #77 
     - How about..  sendero   Apr-27-05 09:48 PM   #94 
     - How about ..  mzmolly   Apr-27-05 09:53 PM   #96 
        - I've made my point...  sendero   Apr-27-05 09:57 PM   #97 
        - Well, mzmolly  H2O Man   Apr-27-05 10:09 PM   #98 
           - LOL  mzmolly   Apr-27-05 10:23 PM   #101 
     - delete  mzmolly   Apr-27-05 09:50 PM   #95 
  - the truth is right there  G_j   Apr-27-05 07:24 PM   #42 
     - Damn straight!  mzmolly   Apr-27-05 08:43 PM   #79 
  - Is it ok if I spank my girlfriend?  Jesus Saves   Apr-27-05 06:29 PM   #24 
  - Silliness  redqueen   Apr-27-05 06:50 PM   #34 
  - Go ahead..  sendero   Apr-27-05 07:21 PM   #40 
  - Not if you are Marv.....  Jacobin   Apr-27-05 07:44 PM   #49 
  - Only if she asks you too.  mzmolly   Apr-27-05 08:44 PM   #80 
  - I don't really think spanking is all that bad  Merope215   Apr-27-05 07:37 PM   #45 
  - You were lucky though  _TJ_   Apr-27-05 07:42 PM   #48 
  - I was very lucky  Merope215   Apr-27-05 07:47 PM   #51 
  - there is a big difference...  bleedingheart   Apr-27-05 07:54 PM   #55 
  - One thing:  Bouncy Ball   Apr-27-05 08:06 PM   #61 
  - Actually, I don't know  Merope215   Apr-27-05 08:26 PM   #69 
  - But if you were learning why did you need an explaination?  mzmolly   Apr-27-05 08:45 PM   #82 
  - Project No Spank  jhain   Apr-27-05 08:17 PM   #65 
  - I can say that I have rarely spanked.  xmas74   Apr-27-05 08:26 PM   #70 
  - Why should a child have to choose a form of abuse at all?  mzmolly   Apr-27-05 08:47 PM   #84 
  - We rarely spank  cynatnite   Apr-27-05 08:46 PM   #83 
  - What is the definition of spanking?  cynatnite   Apr-27-05 09:04 PM   #90 
  - To my understanding the law defines physical abuse of a child as  mzmolly   Apr-27-05 09:29 PM   #93 
  - I think there is a definite difference in spanking and beating  ChaoticSilly   Apr-27-05 10:25 PM   #102 
  - Two Points  Nederland   Apr-28-05 09:37 AM   #113 
  - 10,000, not 5,000  redqueen   Apr-28-05 10:40 AM   #118 
     - Response  Nederland   Apr-28-05 10:54 AM   #120 
        - Ah thanks, I hadn't noticed that.  redqueen   Apr-28-05 11:05 AM   #121 
  - IF YOU BEAT A SHEEP, IT DIES OR GOES CRAZY  Notorious Bohemian   Apr-29-05 09:58 AM   #130 
 

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