mzmolly
(1000+ posts)
Send PM |
Profile |
Ignore
|
Wed Apr-27-05 08:45 PM
Response to Reply #45 |
| 82. But if you were learning why did you need an explaination? |
|
I think good parents can and do spank at times, but I think said parents would be BETTER parents if they choose not to.
|
| -More Reasons Not to Spank |
redqueen |
Apr-27-05 04:42 PM |
#0 |
 -
The Strongest Reason Not To Spank |
CO Liberal |
Apr-27-05 04:44 PM |
#1 |
 -
we we see how they turned out |
Shallah |
Apr-27-05 04:49 PM |
#2 |
 -
The main reason not to spank: It doesn't work |
Jacobin |
Apr-27-05 06:36 PM |
#30 |
| -
The only thing spanking taught me was to LIE ... |
Garage Queen |
Apr-28-05 09:16 AM |
#111 |
| -
What are we spanking? |
Rockholm |
Apr-27-05 04:49 PM |
#3 |
| -
I got my hopes up for nothing. |
Rufus T. Firefly |
Apr-27-05 04:51 PM |
#4 |
| -
I still think |
Mugweed |
Apr-27-05 05:05 PM |
#5 |
| -
Oh Heck, Use Pepper Spray. That'll Teach The Buggars Not To |
emanymton |
Apr-27-05 05:09 PM |
#6 |
| -
Yeah I'd rather have a child afraid of being hit |
gollygee |
Apr-27-05 05:11 PM |
#7 |
| -
I have three respectful children, and oh my... |
phylny |
Apr-27-05 05:24 PM |
#10 |
| -
I've never spanked my kids and they neve rmouth off. |
redqueen |
Apr-27-05 05:27 PM |
#11 |
| -
What are you saying? |
gollygee |
Apr-27-05 05:29 PM |
#13 |
| -
I disagree. |
Bouncy Ball |
Apr-27-05 06:22 PM |
#18 |
| -
Well ya know what? |
Horse with no Name |
Apr-27-05 06:33 PM |
#27 |
| -
So many fantastic posts on this subject. |
redqueen |
Apr-27-05 06:35 PM |
#29 |
| -
Kudos to you. I wish everyone had had such a good parent |
Jacobin |
Apr-27-05 07:01 PM |
#36 |
| -
By the way, the only reason I behaved around my parents |
Bouncy Ball |
Apr-27-05 06:26 PM |
#22 |
| -
So what do you do when your partner "mouths off" to you today? |
mzmolly |
Apr-27-05 08:22 PM |
#67 |
| -
i guess give him a time out since we treat him like a child |
seabeyond |
Apr-28-05 12:09 AM |
#108 |
| -
Adults DO have consequences for their actions ... |
mzmolly |
Apr-28-05 09:38 AM |
#114 |
| -
Oh yes, by all means, let's go back to the 'good old days' |
Lindacooks |
Apr-27-05 09:19 PM |
#92 |
| -
I'm with you Mugweed. All I know is when I went to school in the 70's |
frankly_fedup2 |
Apr-27-05 10:09 PM |
#99 |
| -
No, kids are disrespectful to others because they haven't been TAUGHT... |
DARE to HOPE |
Apr-28-05 09:44 AM |
#115 |
| -
Yeah... I remember the sound of the belt snapping too... |
Misunderestimator |
Apr-28-05 09:47 AM |
#116 |
| -
I take away privileges and that works |
bleedingheart |
Apr-27-05 05:15 PM |
#8 |
| -
All good methods... |
redqueen |
Apr-27-05 05:29 PM |
#12 |
| -
Redqueen you are my hero! |
_TJ_ |
Apr-27-05 05:19 PM |
#9 |
| -
I'm really glad you brought this up. |
redqueen |
Apr-27-05 05:29 PM |
#14 |
| -
It probably never occurred to these folks... |
sendero |
Apr-27-05 05:42 PM |
#15 |
| -
Interesting. |
redqueen |
Apr-27-05 06:18 PM |
#16 |
| -
I knew someone.. |
sendero |
Apr-27-05 06:36 PM |
#31 |
| -
I'm not being a smartass. |
redqueen |
Apr-27-05 06:39 PM |
#32 |
| -
The problem with dogmatic thinking.. |
sendero |
Apr-27-05 07:16 PM |
#37 |
| -
What's your response to this post? |
_TJ_ |
Apr-27-05 06:40 PM |
#33 |
| -
I responded... |
sendero |
Apr-27-05 07:18 PM |
#39 |
| -
But which came first? |
quaker bill |
Apr-27-05 08:02 PM |
#57 |
| -
Why is it ok to hit a small child and not an adult? |
mzmolly |
Apr-27-05 08:27 PM |
#71 |
| -
Probably the same reason... |
sendero |
Apr-27-05 08:36 PM |
#76 |
| -
You didn't answer my question. The only difference is the child |
mzmolly |
Apr-27-05 08:49 PM |
#85 |
| -
there are worse things than spanking- |
LiberallyInclined |
Apr-27-05 06:21 PM |
#17 |
| -
They are very, very bad too! |
_TJ_ |
Apr-27-05 06:23 PM |
#19 |
| -
I don't think you can say one is worse than the other. |
Bouncy Ball |
Apr-27-05 06:24 PM |
#20 |
| -
it depends on how they are administered- and to what extent. |
LiberallyInclined |
Apr-27-05 06:51 PM |
#35 |
| -
Bologna. |
mzmolly |
Apr-27-05 08:31 PM |
#74 |
| -
which were you subjected to as a child? |
LiberallyInclined |
Apr-27-05 11:12 PM |
#106 |
| -
I had both as well, and I would much rather have an unkind word. |
mzmolly |
Apr-28-05 09:34 AM |
#112 |
| -
and i'd rather have a pat on the fanny, than continual degradation. |
LiberallyInclined |
Apr-28-05 10:37 AM |
#117 |
| -
A "pat on the fanny" is degrading ... |
mzmolly |
Apr-28-05 10:47 AM |
#119 |
| -
it's becoming very apparent that you just don't get it... |
LiberallyInclined |
Apr-28-05 01:18 PM |
#122 |
| -
My point is that no child should endure "abuse." |
mzmolly |
Apr-28-05 04:36 PM |
#123 |
| -
wow- what a novel position... |
LiberallyInclined |
Apr-28-05 05:36 PM |
#124 |
| -
I can see you still haven't got a point. |
mzmolly |
Apr-28-05 05:38 PM |
#125 |
| -
I made my point in my response to the original poster- |
LiberallyInclined |
Apr-28-05 05:51 PM |
#126 |
| -
My is that the best insult you can come up with? |
mzmolly |
Apr-28-05 07:33 PM |
#127 |
| -
Deleted message |
Name removed |
Apr-28-05 11:58 PM |
#128 |
| -
I always take heart in the fact that I've won the debate when people |
mzmolly |
Apr-29-05 09:47 AM |
#129 |
| -
happy spanking? moi? yet again you seem to be mistaken- |
LiberallyInclined |
Apr-29-05 11:37 AM |
#131 |
| -
Do you condone corporal punishment for adults as well? |
mzmolly |
Apr-29-05 12:15 PM |
#132 |
| -
as far as spanking for adults is concerned- |
LiberallyInclined |
Apr-29-05 01:05 PM |
#133 |
| -
Agreed |
XemaSab |
Apr-27-05 07:50 PM |
#52 |
| -
Most parents who would speak to a child in such a manner don't stop |
mzmolly |
Apr-27-05 08:33 PM |
#75 |
| -
Yeah, so it's best to use all three when disciplining. |
mzmolly |
Apr-27-05 08:29 PM |
#72 |
| -
I can say that |
H2O Man |
Apr-27-05 06:25 PM |
#21 |
| -
Pretty much says it all, doesn't it? |
redqueen |
Apr-27-05 06:27 PM |
#23 |
| -
Yep. |
Bouncy Ball |
Apr-27-05 06:29 PM |
#25 |
| -
Bless you bouncy |
_TJ_ |
Apr-27-05 06:34 PM |
#28 |
| -
Aw! |
Bouncy Ball |
Apr-27-05 08:04 PM |
#59 |
| -
Well said. |
H2O Man |
Apr-27-05 08:12 PM |
#63 |
| -
I learned about that when I fostered/attempted to adopt |
Bouncy Ball |
Apr-27-05 08:18 PM |
#66 |
| -
One of the goals of Head Start is to encourage attachment. |
mzmolly |
Apr-27-05 09:14 PM |
#91 |
| -
Wow. |
missb |
Apr-27-05 08:44 PM |
#81 |
| -
Blushing now. |
Bouncy Ball |
Apr-27-05 09:00 PM |
#87 |
| -
Thank you! Thank you, for saying that |
_TJ_ |
Apr-27-05 06:33 PM |
#26 |
| -
The people who |
H2O Man |
Apr-27-05 08:09 PM |
#62 |
| -
and to think if you had been a student of some of the teachers |
Horse with no Name |
Apr-28-05 12:06 AM |
#107 |
| -
That's a great anecdote.. |
sendero |
Apr-27-05 07:17 PM |
#38 |
| -
You didn't read his post properly! |
_TJ_ |
Apr-27-05 07:23 PM |
#41 |
| -
Look.... |
sendero |
Apr-27-05 07:36 PM |
#44 |
| -
Actually, smacking on the ass is hitting. perhaps 'light' hitting but... |
sonicx |
Apr-27-05 07:39 PM |
#46 |
| -
Well... |
sendero |
Apr-27-05 07:46 PM |
#50 |
| -
A position being popular doesn't mean it's right |
sonicx |
Apr-27-05 07:53 PM |
#54 |
| -
I agree with your subject line.. |
sendero |
Apr-27-05 08:03 PM |
#58 |
| -
You are using black and white language and calling others dogmatic. |
mzmolly |
Apr-27-05 08:59 PM |
#86 |
| -
Of course spanking is hitting |
_TJ_ |
Apr-27-05 07:41 PM |
#47 |
| -
Nice.. |
sendero |
Apr-27-05 07:51 PM |
#53 |
| -
No framing is required |
_TJ_ |
Apr-27-05 07:55 PM |
#56 |
| -
If I drink a lot of water.. |
sendero |
Apr-27-05 08:05 PM |
#60 |
| -
in both cases, it's the truth |
sonicx |
Apr-27-05 08:12 PM |
#64 |
| -
Well... |
sendero |
Apr-27-05 08:23 PM |
#68 |
| -
That's why I said you have to adject your langauge in casual conversation |
sonicx |
Apr-27-05 08:30 PM |
#73 |
| -
Is it ok for a husband to smack his wife on occassion, or |
mzmolly |
Apr-27-05 08:42 PM |
#78 |
| -
Good question, mzmolly! |
H2O Man |
Apr-27-05 09:01 PM |
#88 |
| -
Exactly. In fact, I run amok at work if my boss forgets the strap. |
mzmolly |
Apr-27-05 09:04 PM |
#89 |
| -
The vast majority... |
sendero |
Apr-27-05 10:19 PM |
#100 |
| -
So because the majority of Americans feel that hitting a small defenseless |
mzmolly |
Apr-27-05 10:31 PM |
#103 |
| -
There was no.... |
sendero |
Apr-27-05 10:36 PM |
#104 |
| -
The vast majority of people in some countries feel that it's ok to execute |
mzmolly |
Apr-28-05 09:08 AM |
#109 |
| -
All it shows |
H2O Man |
Apr-27-05 10:39 PM |
#105 |
| -
You are correct, sir! |
mzmolly |
Apr-28-05 09:10 AM |
#110 |
| -
Funny, i seem to remember his post saying... |
sonicx |
Apr-27-05 07:28 PM |
#43 |
| -
But your defending hitting small children. |
mzmolly |
Apr-27-05 08:41 PM |
#77 |
| -
How about.. |
sendero |
Apr-27-05 09:48 PM |
#94 |
| -
How about .. |
mzmolly |
Apr-27-05 09:53 PM |
#96 |
| -
I've made my point... |
sendero |
Apr-27-05 09:57 PM |
#97 |
| -
Well, mzmolly |
H2O Man |
Apr-27-05 10:09 PM |
#98 |
| -
LOL |
mzmolly |
Apr-27-05 10:23 PM |
#101 |
| -
delete |
mzmolly |
Apr-27-05 09:50 PM |
#95 |
| -
the truth is right there |
G_j |
Apr-27-05 07:24 PM |
#42 |
| -
Damn straight! |
mzmolly |
Apr-27-05 08:43 PM |
#79 |
| -
Is it ok if I spank my girlfriend? |
Jesus Saves |
Apr-27-05 06:29 PM |
#24 |
| -
Silliness |
redqueen |
Apr-27-05 06:50 PM |
#34 |
| -
Go ahead.. |
sendero |
Apr-27-05 07:21 PM |
#40 |
| -
Not if you are Marv..... |
Jacobin |
Apr-27-05 07:44 PM |
#49 |
| -
Only if she asks you too. |
mzmolly |
Apr-27-05 08:44 PM |
#80 |
| -
I don't really think spanking is all that bad |
Merope215 |
Apr-27-05 07:37 PM |
#45 |
| -
You were lucky though |
_TJ_ |
Apr-27-05 07:42 PM |
#48 |
| -
I was very lucky |
Merope215 |
Apr-27-05 07:47 PM |
#51 |
| -
there is a big difference... |
bleedingheart |
Apr-27-05 07:54 PM |
#55 |
| -
One thing: |
Bouncy Ball |
Apr-27-05 08:06 PM |
#61 |
| -
Actually, I don't know |
Merope215 |
Apr-27-05 08:26 PM |
#69 |
| -
But if you were learning why did you need an explaination? |
mzmolly |
Apr-27-05 08:45 PM |
#82 |
| -
Project No Spank |
jhain |
Apr-27-05 08:17 PM |
#65 |
| -
I can say that I have rarely spanked. |
xmas74 |
Apr-27-05 08:26 PM |
#70 |
| -
Why should a child have to choose a form of abuse at all? |
mzmolly |
Apr-27-05 08:47 PM |
#84 |
| -
We rarely spank |
cynatnite |
Apr-27-05 08:46 PM |
#83 |
| -
What is the definition of spanking? |
cynatnite |
Apr-27-05 09:04 PM |
#90 |
| -
To my understanding the law defines physical abuse of a child as |
mzmolly |
Apr-27-05 09:29 PM |
#93 |
| -
I think there is a definite difference in spanking and beating |
ChaoticSilly |
Apr-27-05 10:25 PM |
#102 |
| -
Two Points |
Nederland |
Apr-28-05 09:37 AM |
#113 |
| -
10,000, not 5,000 |
redqueen |
Apr-28-05 10:40 AM |
#118 |
| -
Response |
Nederland |
Apr-28-05 10:54 AM |
#120 |
| -
Ah thanks, I hadn't noticed that. |
redqueen |
Apr-28-05 11:05 AM |
#121 |
| -
IF YOU BEAT A SHEEP, IT DIES OR GOES CRAZY |
Notorious Bohemian |
Apr-29-05 09:58 AM |
#130 |
Printer-friendly format
Email this thread to a friend
Bookmark this thread