Reply #13: Really nice post - you are very good at making your points.

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I can only talk about one subject at a time, I won't allow people to change the subject because it is a distraction technique, but you had no choice - very good on your feet there.

The choice about letting the anti-gay contingent in the family know is 100% you sons, though you should explain in no uncertain terms how difficult it could be and that it may be VERY discouraging in the end.