Reply #126: males who encounter this ambivalence regularly are type specific

[Wonder]

let's push the envelop further:

I know for a fact that all women do not play this no yes game... in its most innocent form it is most prevalent in young woman who might well be attracted but still grappling with the all the guilt that is imbred into women regarding their own sexuality and their own desire. In this example the no which requires some persuading is not a game. I mean she is not playing a game. She may very well be youthfully curious, however is hedging because of sexual mores and in that very moment is weighing all the discomfort that goes with this type of ambivalence, and young boys grapple with this in their own way as well.

I feel a male who is older must be sensitive to this and rape will never enter into the picture as long as the girl is of age.

In the more devious scenario where the women is playing a fucked up game (which depending on her own sexual malady she may or may not even be conscious of), this women constitutes a type. Men who find themselves chasing this type women regularly and as regularly find themselves getting biten... this is a whole other thing...

I still have not honed in on, in all instances in terms of this no yes catagory, why those men that seem to persist in their confusion, also do not seem to grasp that if this type women causes confusion... rather than to superimpose her upon all women, why don't they just change their type? This is what I don't understand. Or is this small percentage of males that I allude to: are they just playing a game of their own in these threads?

Because quite frankly their concerns seem to me 1- very selfish 2- irrelevant to the discussion for the most part and 3- are certainly not indicative of ALL women.