Reply #75: Had I thought it through.......

[tavalon]

Actually, I'm quite happy with my life. I just want them both to get girlfriends. Isn't that what middle aged men are supposed to do? See the great thing with that, is they are happy, I get to meet neat new people (my guys are pretty discerning) and as I get further into this awful thing called perimenopause (it ain't one but it ain't the other either), I find my interest in people humping my leg is doing a very fast swan dive. And because we're poly, finding a new girlfriend doesn't automatically mean the wife gets dumped.

But, yeah, it's a harder life than I was led to believe by the brochures. Damn brochures!