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Thu Jun-25-09 11:03 AM
Response to Reply #31 |
| 81. Yes, it is so OBVIOUSLY the father's fault that this woman... |
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fled the country with her son. There's no possible way that she could have been having an affair with the dude in Rio and finally decided it was time to leave the American hubby for a new one back home.
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| -Report: Boy in Custody Battle Wants Brazil, Not NJ |
kskiska |
Jun-17-09 11:07 PM |
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Irrelevant. He is going thru the same thing that Elian Gonzales did. |
IndianaGreen |
Jun-17-09 11:10 PM |
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Is that really a law? |
billyoc |
Jun-17-09 11:12 PM |
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Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction |
IndianaGreen |
Jun-17-09 11:22 PM |
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When Mom died, he should have gone to Dad either way. n/t |
madeline_con |
Jun-18-09 12:38 AM |
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Third party custody is possible in the US |
treestar |
Jun-19-09 11:32 AM |
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But the test is the Best interest of the Child, AND the assumption that is with a parent |
happyslug |
Jun-19-09 11:49 AM |
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Oops, never mind. |
bitchkitty |
Jun-18-09 12:44 AM |
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Ding! |
mainegreen |
Jun-19-09 11:36 AM |
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The kid has basically been abducted. |
donco6 |
Jun-17-09 11:11 PM |
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Yep. n/t |
Cali_Democrat |
Jun-17-09 11:13 PM |
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Why can't he have a say in it? n/t |
madeline_con |
Jun-17-09 11:15 PM |
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"Hi dad! I know I'm not even related to these people, - |
donco6 |
Jun-17-09 11:26 PM |
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"In 2004, Sean's >>>>mother |
madeline_con |
Jun-17-09 11:47 PM |
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Yes, in childbirth with her second husband. |
donco6 |
Jun-17-09 11:49 PM |
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ooops |
madeline_con |
Jun-17-09 11:56 PM |
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's-ok! |
donco6 |
Jun-18-09 12:00 AM |
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He might feel as though leaving Brazil is also leaving his mom. n/t |
EFerrari |
Jun-18-09 01:14 PM |
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The stepfamily is not evil just because they are Brazilian. |
treestar |
Jun-19-09 11:33 AM |
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The law matters most. The child was abducted and has no blood relatives there |
Pavulon |
Jun-19-09 12:34 PM |
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Uh.... |
WriteDown |
Jun-18-09 09:13 AM |
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And of course, who could blame him |
JeffR |
Jun-17-09 11:13 PM |
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Perhaps a promise to move away from Jersey? |
Hawkowl |
Jun-19-09 01:43 PM |
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How sad for the dad. |
Cha |
Jun-17-09 11:13 PM |
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The kid is brainwashed! |
bkkyosemite |
Jun-18-09 12:03 AM |
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The kid is NOT brainwashed.... |
PassingFair |
Jun-19-09 12:40 PM |
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Eh... |
WriteDown |
Jun-19-09 01:19 PM |
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Eh....he was with his mother. |
PassingFair |
Jun-19-09 04:36 PM |
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So you can't be kidnapped by a parent? |
WriteDown |
Jun-20-09 12:34 PM |
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I'm sure he loved her before she "kidnapped" him. |
PassingFair |
Jun-20-09 05:52 PM |
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Anyone willing to take a child from his father under the guise of a vacation |
Abacus |
Jun-20-09 02:47 PM |
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once he is in NJ he wont want to go back to Brazil |
JI7 |
Jun-17-09 11:14 PM |
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Why not? |
PassingFair |
Jun-17-09 11:18 PM |
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i would like to visit Brazil |
JI7 |
Jun-17-09 11:23 PM |
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I agree that he should be sent here. |
PassingFair |
Jun-18-09 12:20 AM |
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What he wants is definitely to be taken into consideration |
treestar |
Jun-19-09 11:34 AM |
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Yep he really is. He is a pawn in a game played by stepdad |
Pavulon |
Jun-19-09 12:35 PM |
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Sorta like Elion Gonzales from a few year back |
Thothmes |
Jun-19-09 06:52 PM |
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Background |
kskiska |
Jun-17-09 11:17 PM |
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Yeah, "stripped of it" because it started under false pretenses. |
Cha |
Jun-18-09 11:12 AM |
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He's only 9 years old and has been there for FIVE YEARS. |
TahitiNut |
Jun-17-09 11:21 PM |
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This is a tricky one |
azurnoir |
Jun-17-09 11:29 PM |
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But even under Brazil's law, I doubt the child could have been adopted by the stepfather |
lindisfarne |
Jun-17-09 11:33 PM |
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Depends on legal steps taken while the mother was alive |
azurnoir |
Jun-17-09 11:57 PM |
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The biological father should hear that from his estranged/abducted son. |
countmyvote4real |
Jun-17-09 11:37 PM |
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He can afford a 5 year legal battle, but not a ticket to Brazil? |
madeline_con |
Jun-17-09 11:49 PM |
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He has, when they let him see him. |
donco6 |
Jun-17-09 11:51 PM |
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Thanbks, I didn't realize there was more info. n/t |
madeline_con |
Jun-17-09 11:54 PM |
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For some reason, this case has intrigued me. |
donco6 |
Jun-17-09 11:59 PM |
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There's no info in the link that anyone has prevented the father from seeing the boy. |
riderinthestorm |
Jun-18-09 01:01 AM |
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I don't make any comparisons to Elian - that's the media. |
donco6 |
Jun-18-09 07:40 AM |
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I think Elian's story was MORE simplistic than portrayed in the media |
LostinVA |
Jun-18-09 11:14 AM |
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The boy is nine and has been totally influenced by the stealers of him. |
bkkyosemite |
Jun-18-09 12:04 AM |
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Or his kidnappers should hear from the estranged father... |
WriteDown |
Jun-18-09 09:22 AM |
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Hell, who wouldn't? |
rug |
Jun-17-09 11:47 PM |
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What's up with Dad for Mom to flee with the kid like that? |
LeftyMom |
Jun-18-09 12:25 AM |
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That's an excellent point. He may be an abuser. n/t |
madeline_con |
Jun-18-09 12:35 AM |
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There is nothing to indicate that the Father was or is an |
mackerel |
Jun-18-09 12:48 AM |
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Good GAWD, what a smear based on absolute ignorance of the facts! |
IndianaGreen |
Jun-18-09 12:49 AM |
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That doesn't answer the question of why the mother left with the boy. |
LeftyMom |
Jun-18-09 01:10 AM |
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and maybe the mother just missed her country and culture |
cali |
Jun-18-09 06:06 AM |
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Wasn't there a case with an Egyptian mother... |
WriteDown |
Jun-18-09 09:25 AM |
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There are hundreds of out-of-country child abductions similar to this one |
IndianaGreen |
Jun-18-09 12:57 PM |
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Maybe she was lonely for home and she already had someone on the side.... |
Darth_Kitten |
Jun-25-09 07:44 AM |
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All this happened after the fact. Still no word on why she took him and left. n/t |
madeline_con |
Jun-18-09 10:30 AM |
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Perhaps after she met a wealthy and powerful... |
WriteDown |
Jun-19-09 12:27 PM |
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Father is Jewish, while the late mother was Christian, as is the step family |
IndianaGreen |
Jun-18-09 12:53 AM |
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I doubt that. They were married, after all. |
LeftyMom |
Jun-18-09 01:08 AM |
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"I suppose it's possible to read a religious context..." |
kdmorris |
Jun-18-09 05:49 AM |
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A religious dispute between the parents doesn't fit the available facts. |
LeftyMom |
Jun-18-09 06:17 AM |
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That is not the law |
kdmorris |
Jun-18-09 08:07 AM |
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International marriages are particularly difficult |
Art_from_Ark |
Jun-19-09 01:42 AM |
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or maybe mom was tired of Jersey and jumped when she had the chance |
Blue_Tires |
Jun-19-09 01:11 PM |
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Yes, it is so OBVIOUSLY the father's fault that this woman... |
brendan120678 |
Jun-25-09 11:03 AM |
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Stockholm Syndrome |
no_hypocrisy |
Jun-18-09 05:59 AM |
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sadly he doesn't know his biological father and that is probably a bigger reason |
dugaresa |
Jun-18-09 07:20 AM |
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Makes sense to me... |
GoddessOfGuinness |
Jun-18-09 08:47 AM |
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Well, yeah. He probably barely knows his bio dad |
JerseygirlCT |
Jun-18-09 09:09 AM |
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Does this remind anyone else of Stephen King's Storm of the.... |
WriteDown |
Jun-18-09 09:26 AM |
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Here's the website started by David Goldman and/or supporters |
Sigh Sister |
Jun-18-09 11:27 AM |
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Stepdad is a lawyer. Child has no blood relation to his abductors |
Pavulon |
Jun-19-09 12:31 PM |
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You ever been in one of these!!! They fight over your head... |
Tikki |
Jun-19-09 01:40 PM |
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