Reply #21: Whoa!

[frustrated_lefty]

I played around when I was younger.

Once I got married, that was it. I've been propositioned since then, my wife has given me permission to express my "manly needs." My wife is my wife, and I don't do that. She refuses to sleep with me and I still don't do this. She has given me permission to sleep with any woman who would spread her legs. I have a wife. I'm celibate until she says otherwise.

What she looks like is totally irrelevant.

Yeah, some guys can feel violated. If someone uses you, it feels like violation.

If you think that orgasm is the be-all end-all, I can either teach you or provide you with books which teach you to have multiple orgasms as a guy, by yourself. It's a mindblowing experience, and shoots a wave of energy through your chakras.

When the experience occurs to you, it feels very personal. You end up not caring how she looks, you end up focusing on how you feel about her.

That's very personal stuff to me, so please treat it with consideration.