I Subscribe to the Homosexual Agenda
December 9, 2004
By Joseph Hughes
I also subscribe to Newsweek and Spin, for what it's
worth. Seriously, though, I am so tired of hearing bigotry masquerade
as "values," hatred as "compassion." I'll be blunt: If you do not
accept homosexuality, do not think that gays should marry, you are
a bigot. You're not old fashioned. You're also not Christian. Again,
you are a bigot. And an idiot. And I'm tired of people not calling
things what they are.
So let's spend a little time discussing the "homosexual agenda."
These homosexuals – who (and I checked) are actual people and not
a nameless, faceless, well-dressed mob – are apparently out to get
special rights and privileges from the government. They want - gasp
- to be able to marry and enjoy the benefits associated with such
unions. They want - God forbid - to be able to visit their dying
partners in the hospital, to make arrangements should they die.
And they also want - heavens - to be treated with the same dignity
the rest of us are afforded.
Why would homosexuals want these things? Why would they, for some
strange reason, want to be on the same footing as the rest of society?
Why? Why are they so in our faces with the "We're here! We're queer!
Get used to it!" chants? Why do they push their radical, let's-all-have-equal-rights
agenda down our throats? Why would they stop with one single-sex
marriage partner – why not marry their dogs?
If you asked any one of these questions without tongue firmly
planted in cheek, there are several things you should know: This
article isn't for you. You are a bigot. You are an idiot.
You'll hear the Right claiming to not be homophobic. They'll tell
you they live and let live (as long as you don't live next to them).
They'll also tell you that, like them, most Americans agree that
the "institution" of marriage is something worth protecting. As
if homosexuals and like-minded individuals everywhere are – as seen
in that hateful campaign brochure distributed this fall – out to
ban their Bibles.
Let's look at this confusion in depth.
If someone's religious rites don't respect everyone's basic civil
rights, then something is wrong. They see it as "us" (for lack of
a better term) trying to change their religious standards. But it
appears to me that their religious views – views that not everyone
subscribes to (different religions, no religion, etc.) – are being
used to prevent someone from holding their basic rights.
Again, there's no army of homosexuals on the prowl to ruin someone's
religious rite. Let's say Ohio's Issue 1 (constitutional ban on
same-sex marriage) failed or is somehow ruled unconstitutional.
A church could still refuse to marry homosexuals, because it doesn't
have a legal obligation to do so. Do I agree? No. Could they? Sure.
But I don't think a religion has the right to tell the state how
it should govern a legally-binding agreement.
There are two definitions of "marriage" being discussed here:
Religious and civil (not as in civil unions, but the "marriage"
that comes from getting the paper at the courthouse). How churches
and theologians legislate the former is their business. How the
government legislates the latter is their business. Never the twain
If you don't like the idea that a church may in the future marry
homosexuals in the religious rite, that's up to you. But it's not
up to you to use your religion (one of myriad religions) to define
how the state sees marriage. Because, if you do, you're somehow
suggesting there's a state religion – something, if I'm remembering
correctly, we fought back in the day to avoid.
Plus, why do we never see the religious marriage-defense roadblocks
fly up when two atheists get married? Because homosexuals – like
blacks and women before them – are easy targets for them to marginalize.
Where does it stop? When will it end?
Here's something you won't hear in the bigots' anti-gay posturing:
They're scared. They are more afraid of "Will and Grace" than al
Qaeda attacking their local Piggly Wiggly. They see Janet Jackson's
nipple on television, see "Queer Eye for the Straight Guy," and
they are scared. It wasn't so long ago that the sight of a black
person in their diner provoked the same response. Fear of change
is a dangerous thing. Dangerous for those afraid to change and,
even more so, for those seen as the "changers."
This fear has led many to develop a terribly misled view of homosexuals.
If gays are allowed to marry, they say, marriage will be ruined.
Why, then, is the state that allows same-sex marriage (Massachusetts)
the one with the lowest divorce rate? If they're allowed to raise
kids, they say, those children will grow up mal-adjusted. Why, then,
was it reported recently that children of same-sex couples are just
as well off as those with mixed-sex parents? What are they so afraid
And they can keep their "values." I really have a hard
time believing Jesus would rather keep gays out of His church and
ban abortion than feed the hungry, clothe the poor and cure the
sick. Remember those values? You won't hear about those at your
local WASPy mega-church these days. "God is Love" doesn't quite
ring as true any more, does it?
America is at a dangerous crossroads: We, as a nation, could remain
old-ashioned, looking to a hate-filled past for our values. Or we
could look to the future, embrace diversity as an ideal and move
forward. If I were a praying man, I'd pray for the latter. It's
our only hope.
Joseph Hughes is a graphic designer and writer by day and a
liberal blogger by night. Read stories like this and many more at
his blog, Hughes