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In reply to the discussion: Ended a friendship today. [View all]

healthnut7

(249 posts)
36. Send him this!!
Thu Jan 17, 2013, 11:46 PM
Jan 2013

Maybe his heart will warm up to this.

This was tweeted by Ellen Degeners, it is so beautiful and this young girl is amazing.

I hope this is okay to put here.

Ended a friendship today. [View all] Drunken Irishman Jan 2013 OP
Nope. I've never understood why anyone would tolerate a hateful person, Sekhmets Daughter Jan 2013 #1
people who buy hoax theories kill the victims again. no good person can respect that roguevalley Jan 2013 #71
20 tiny coffins Protalker Jan 2013 #2
Perhaps you can look at it this way 2naSalit Jan 2013 #3
Great post! Rider3 Jan 2013 #83
Thanks. 2naSalit Jan 2013 #86
No and it is his loss. appleannie1 Jan 2013 #4
I don't think I would end a friendship over that. ZombieHorde Jan 2013 #5
That's cool... Drunken Irishman Jan 2013 #7
I would have laughed because of shock, not humor. nt ZombieHorde Jan 2013 #8
Maybe. I just don't have it in me anymore to care enough to debate with these people... Drunken Irishman Jan 2013 #11
You definately know better than me who you should associate with. ZombieHorde Jan 2013 #12
completely understand what you are going through hopemountain Jan 2013 #49
+++1,000 SouthernDonkey Jan 2013 #58
fdebate kardonb Jan 2013 #74
I haven't had a Facbook since 2008... Rockyj Jan 2013 #101
Your former friend disrespected those 26 victims and everyone who loves them, DI catbyte Jan 2013 #89
You may have posted this to the wrong reply, as opposed to the OP. ZombieHorde Jan 2013 #92
I think you did the right thing Lifelong Protester Jan 2013 #6
Blind To A Massacre kairos12 Jan 2013 #9
You did the right thing. And you made space in your life for a better friend. SunSeeker Jan 2013 #10
Not everyone in the world can be your friend derby378 Jan 2013 #13
Nope. MynameisBlarney Jan 2013 #14
I don't think you overreacted. Brigid Jan 2013 #15
To deny the deaths of these innocents is to shoot them all over again. Not 4 me. Not 4 U. MichiganVote Jan 2013 #16
People have a right to their own opinions. baldguy Jan 2013 #17
...their own opinions, but not their own facts. n/t agracie Jan 2013 #52
This message was self-deleted by its author williamc1967txlib Jan 2013 #54
I would have been much worse salinen Jan 2013 #18
Not at all - your reaction was appropriate! LibGranny Jan 2013 #19
You did the right thing, DI. It's sad to lose a friendly acquaintance that you thought better of... Hekate Jan 2013 #20
Hoax? obxhead Jan 2013 #21
You did the right thing. K&R. n/t jenmito Jan 2013 #22
You may have helped . . . another_liberal Jan 2013 #23
I couldn't either BainsBane Jan 2013 #24
I lost a friend of 25 years because Ilsa Jan 2013 #25
It's hard to have a "friendship" with someone like that. BlueDemKev Jan 2013 #26
You did what you felt was right. There does come a point when enough is enough. I think southernyankeebelle Jan 2013 #27
I don't think any functional adult can be that stupid. hay rick Jan 2013 #28
You did the right thing rightsideout Jan 2013 #29
Anyone who is buying this hoax story, likely has many other disqualifying traits for friendship. SleeplessinSoCal Jan 2013 #30
Sometimes you have to say... awoke_in_2003 Jan 2013 #31
At least you're not related to him abelenkpe Jan 2013 #32
My son unfriended his in-laws on facebook! coldbeer Jan 2013 #33
I think you did the right thing... Kalidurga Jan 2013 #34
They don't sell time at the corner store The Wizard Jan 2013 #35
Great response. truebluegreen Jan 2013 #42
Send him this!! healthnut7 Jan 2013 #36
I don't think you did. I'm down to about 6 people that I will talk with. russspeakeasy Jan 2013 #37
Conspiracy nuts RoccoRyg Jan 2013 #38
Some opinions just aren't worth respecting. Chorophyll Jan 2013 #39
My line with such people is, "We are friends to the end, and rateyes Jan 2013 #40
I hate it when people insist I have to respect their opinions. truebluegreen Jan 2013 #41
Exactly. "Respect your opinion? Do you respect MY opinion that... JHB Jan 2013 #61
I believe it was Harlan Ellison who said SwankyXomb Jan 2013 #94
Certainly not entitled to hold un-informed opinions without challenge. truebluegreen Jan 2013 #108
Nice thoughts but Vietnameravet Jan 2013 #105
I hear what you are saying and the "defend to the death" thing truebluegreen Jan 2013 #107
Y^es I know its a quote and Vietnameravet Jan 2013 #109
I certainly understand, flippant or not truebluegreen Jan 2013 #113
Ha! (as Tweety says it) ReRe Jan 2013 #43
Don't fret. I have unfriended several LittleGirl Jan 2013 #44
I had to call someone out for this shit too. Claybrains Jan 2013 #45
Drunken Irishman, I have two things to share with you: freshwest Jan 2013 #46
You Did the Right Thing cer7711 Jan 2013 #47
Right. BellaKos Jan 2013 #55
That's What Really Worries Me cer7711 Jan 2013 #62
My husband works with two guys who are becoming more angry about losing their guns kimbutgar Jan 2013 #68
You, Drunken Irishman, have no obligation to soak up this guy's shit that he's putting out NBachers Jan 2013 #48
Some people just can't be helped by you holding their hand... ellisonz Jan 2013 #50
Good for you!!! These conspiracy theorists are like the worst cult imaginable graham4anything Jan 2013 #51
Not easy to "respect" victims of brainwashing. I consider Cha Jan 2013 #53
Good for you. GeorgeGist Jan 2013 #56
When I was growing up, my Mom would say... KansDem Jan 2013 #57
Hell no! You didn't overreact lunatica Jan 2013 #59
People often mistake respecting somebody's right to have an opinion with respecting the opinion alcibiades_mystery Jan 2013 #60
I've lost a few friends over the last few monts davidpdx Jan 2013 #63
Refute the bullshit calmly CANDO Jan 2013 #64
Don't blame you one bit. Pool Hall Ace Jan 2013 #65
Denying reality is not an opinion jmondine Jan 2013 #66
That's not an opinion ... surrealAmerican Jan 2013 #67
I unfriended someone on FaceBook last night... azlatina Jan 2013 #69
No, you are not overreacting. yellerpup Jan 2013 #70
Not overreacting. mgardener Jan 2013 #72
NO Old Codger Jan 2013 #73
I fear I'm going to lose my 2 best friends, and it's going to be the gun issue I'm sure. Populist_Prole Jan 2013 #75
Respect that they're ENTITLED to an opinion. Iggo Jan 2013 #76
Sometimes ending it is a respectful act, to them & to yourself. The questions are about patrice Jan 2013 #77
I was switching radio stations while Jenoch Jan 2013 #78
I've spent much of the last 6 months defriending Right Wingers MessiahRp Jan 2013 #79
I Love you barbiegeek Jan 2013 #80
This! helderheid Jan 2013 #81
Thank you for this! ReallyIAmAnOptimist Jan 2013 #96
I would have ended that friendship, too Rider3 Jan 2013 #82
Don't Second-Guess Yourself. You Did The Right Thing. Paladin Jan 2013 #84
I don't understand why you would even question your actions. This person is a dangerous idiot. Pisces Jan 2013 #85
It's amazing to me what people consider "opinions" wryter2000 Jan 2013 #87
You did the right thing Janecita Jan 2013 #88
Would you continue a friendship with someone who denied the Holocaust? The Moon landing? These Rowdyboy Jan 2013 #90
Well maybe the moon landing... Drunken Irishman Jan 2013 #93
The moon landing? Probably. I have some MIHOP friends, too. Recursion Jan 2013 #111
This message was self-deleted by its author Rowdyboy Jan 2013 #112
I have done the same thing Pakid Jan 2013 #91
I would dump that person too amuse bouche Jan 2013 #95
People like that are unbelievably selfish. Or paranoid. Whovian Jan 2013 #97
Mr. Irishman Iwillnevergiveup Jan 2013 #98
Honesty quakerboy Jan 2013 #99
Facts and opinions are NOT the same thing nobodyspecial Jan 2013 #100
I think this crap speaks to who they ARE as a person. It goes beyond respecting opinions. gateley Jan 2013 #102
You had to be true to yourself. hrmjustin Jan 2013 #103
Don't know anyone quite that nuts --but others that are in the vicinity elfin Jan 2013 #104
My thoughts Vietnameravet Jan 2013 #106
Respect what opinion? He wishes to pretend that something factual did not happen - that isn't an DeschutesRiver Jan 2013 #110
Great Advice & Analysis of the Problem cer7711 Jan 2013 #115
Not only no libodem Jan 2013 #114
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