Infidelity is horrible. Been in a similar situation and it really sucked. Beside this is being played out in the media. I had to come to terms with it in a private settings not in the public. Believe me she furious but also humiliated. What is it with men? I know it's not all men but it is quite a few of them, especially the ones who are in powerful positions. Maybe they just think they can get away with it.