2016 Postmortem

Jitter65

(3,089 posts) Sat May 21, 2016, 08:46 AM May 2016

How many women out there whose spouses have cheated on them like being called enablers? [View all]

I venture to say that about 90% of married women spouses have cheated on them unless they belong to the LSD cult of polygamous marriages. And a fair number of women have cheated also.

None of the spouses I know like being referred to as enablers...even where this might be the case if they are in special arrangement marriages...then it's not "cheating."

And when Bill was in office, i knew plenty of women who would have loved the chance to sleep with Bill.

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How many women out there whose spouses have cheated on them like being called enablers? [View all] Jitter65 May 2016 OP

Oh yeah...that statement by Trump was by a man who himself cheated. apcalc May 2016 #1

None but it's the expected response when a woman (wife) has been victimized Happyhippychick May 2016 #2

90% of men cheat on their spouses? ret5hd May 2016 #3

How many times do you have to be cheated on before you no longer put up with it? hobbit709 May 2016 #4

I doubt they would be having a conversation with you. I was curious a couple years ago and did a seabeyond May 2016 #21

That is weird. Warren DeMontague May 2016 #87

I agree. I was surprised myself. A good friend had said she would not want to know and I couldnt seabeyond May 2016 #89

My armchair opinion is that they have a political and business partnership Warren DeMontague May 2016 #85

Nobody would call me an enabler, LWolf May 2016 #5

Who cares? In this case, her pride/denial subjects them to blackmail. IdaBriggs May 2016 #6

where the fuck do you get 90%? this thread lost all credibility as soon as you post a bogus Exilednight May 2016 #7

So, that means the op is wrong and cheated on spouses DO like being called enablers? kcr May 2016 #11

murderers don't like being called murderers, but thats Exilednight May 2016 #17

So, are you saying spouses who've been cheated on are cheaters? kcr May 2016 #19

Worse than the cheater.... If woman. his is odd krc. Really. I am kinda fascinated here. seabeyond May 2016 #23

It is fascinating kcr May 2016 #24

Actually if you listen to Dr. Phil he says you have to earn your way out of the marriage DLCWIdem May 2016 #90

I think they are saying cheaters are the same as murderers phleshdef May 2016 #27

No. They're saying Hillary is a cheater enabler. kcr May 2016 #29

Bills numerous affairs during their marriage tag Hillary as an enabler riderinthestorm May 2016 #35

They do no such thing. Anyone who thinks this way kcr May 2016 #37

But did she really take no action? floppyboo May 2016 #66

I stand by my definition of enabler. kcr May 2016 #70

I was referring to the video where Clinton basically tells Broaddrick to shut up floppyboo May 2016 #72

Except it was kcr May 2016 #73

Because? Nuclear Unicorn May 2016 #83

I do not believe in pointing the finger enabler. They werent Clinton choices. I believe adults own seabeyond May 2016 #39

Sea, people stay in relationships for a boatload of reasons. riderinthestorm May 2016 #43

I agree with you title. The thing Rider, I have not experience, I have with family addiction like u. seabeyond May 2016 #46

Hillary owns only her own behavior. I'm not blaming her for Bill's affairs riderinthestorm May 2016 #58

Back spasm. lol. I am flat on back. Typing one finger on kindle. seabeyond May 2016 #49

Owww!! Lol, I type one fingered on my phone riderinthestorm May 2016 #60

And also? kcr May 2016 #40

I don't blame Hillary for Bill's cheating. That's simply not true nt riderinthestorm May 2016 #45

It's certainly how you're coming across n/t kcr May 2016 #48

I don't think that. I'm sorry I haven't been clear nt riderinthestorm May 2016 #61

The first time, they are a victim notadmblnd May 2016 #42

How do you figure? kcr May 2016 #44

If one stays with a spouse who is repeatedly cheating on them- one is allowing it notadmblnd May 2016 #50

Baloney. Staying with a spouse who cheated does not allow further cheating. kcr May 2016 #55

I know it takes two damn people to make a marriage work notadmblnd May 2016 #56

How are they "allowing" it to happen? kcr May 2016 #59

As I said the first time one is a victim notadmblnd May 2016 #63

So no one should ever forgive the people in their lives or ever have trust or hope kcr May 2016 #64

There's at least 8 women we know about riderinthestorm May 2016 #68

Oh. I see. kcr May 2016 #71

Not if they engage in the same behavior over and over and over notadmblnd May 2016 #91

no. you took a pretty big leap with that one. Exilednight May 2016 #28

Oh? Maybe you can explain. n/t kcr May 2016 #31

Just because someone enables someone to use drugs, it doesn't make them a drug pusher. Let's be hone Exilednight May 2016 #54

Except no one calls enablers drug pushers, so. kcr May 2016 #57

she would have to be pretty stupid if she didn't know. are you arguing Exilednight May 2016 #74

What? kcr May 2016 #75

you seriously think she didn't know? have you ever seen a presidential vetting Exilednight May 2016 #77

How many covered it up for them? Waiting For Everyman May 2016 #8

How many terrorized the other women while backing the cheater? AgerolanAmerican May 2016 #9

Stop making excuses. frustrated_lefty May 2016 #10

Stop making excuses for Hillary Clinton not having done anything wrong? WTF? Lol. I don't get it. seabeyond May 2016 #13

exactly -- wth obamanut2012 May 2016 #20

Exactly. Never having experienced that, I especially do not like women having the responsibility of seabeyond May 2016 #12

Hillary caused every bad event in human history. JoePhilly May 2016 #14

Who are the women 90% of husbands are cheating with? Fumesucker May 2016 #15

90%? cliffordu May 2016 #16

It's not the consensual affairs that are at issue. It is the other plus the role Clinton herself Skwmom May 2016 #18

He was 49. She was 25. That's acceptable. phleshdef May 2016 #26

Acceptable? Well, then you have the whole judging thing going in. Choices of two adults for sure. seabeyond May 2016 #30

I think Bill had permission. phleshdef May 2016 #80

In 95 when it started she was 22. Skwmom May 2016 #33

Yes, in any other workplace that would be sexual harassment riderinthestorm May 2016 #47

This message was self-deleted by its author seabeyond May 2016 #51

Which made him 46? phleshdef May 2016 #79

It is when one person is your work superior. Fawke Em May 2016 #65

My college didn't have policies against student/teacher dating phleshdef May 2016 #78

the party being cheated on was the American people reddread May 2016 #81

Where do you get that sexist 90% bs from? phleshdef May 2016 #22

Wow, so much wrong with this post riderinthestorm May 2016 #25

I especially agree with your last statement. Nt seabeyond May 2016 #32

As far as 3 goes, all three women who I know have met BC were totally bettyellen May 2016 #76

Being an enabler and not liking being called one are not mutually exclusive. JimDandy May 2016 #34

If they are all cheating at 90% and having arrangements why do the 'Marriage is Sacred and must Bluenorthwest May 2016 #36

"i knew plenty of women who would have loved the chance to sleep with Bill." Most of them did! imagine2015 May 2016 #38

It wasn't the cheating that made me kick my husband out. It was the lying about it after I knew. jillan May 2016 #41

I always consider cheating the same as lying, anyway. Fawke Em May 2016 #62

Once is a mistake. 99Forever May 2016 #52

A. Don't pull stats out of your ass. The figure is about 50 percent. Fawke Em May 2016 #53

I had a newborn daughter and all 840high May 2016 #69

You don't need to "venture." Look it up. You can find percentages for both men and women WhaTHellsgoingonhere May 2016 #67

Spot on. My dad was a serial philanderer, and I never once thought my mother was an "enabler". eastwestdem May 2016 #82

"LSD Cult"? Warren DeMontague May 2016 #84

Calling Hillary an enabler is a neo-right wing argument Nonhlanhla May 2016 #86

I'm certainly glad I do not know your circle of friends - you err in thinking they are typical nt karynnj May 2016 #88