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Manifestor_of_Light

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6. My spouse wanted to convert the second time, at the Classical Reform synagogue.
Fri Oct 12, 2012, 12:02 AM
Oct 2012

The board was made up of rich doctors and their wives. They objected b/c we were unemployed. We both volunteered our services for 40 hours of unpaid labor in lieu of dues.

I have a Juris Doctor and my husband has a B.S. and M.S. in Physics.

The rabbi wanted us to convert, but I did not want to attend where I was not wanted by the board. I did not want charity.I wanted a job so I could pay my bills.

The board members were baffled because they "had never seen a couple where BOTH wanted to convert."

I don't get it.

I left xtianity b/c I made the mistake of taking their opinion of me seriously. I got the strength and self-esteem to leave. Their preachers bellowing about original sin, hellfire and brimstone drove me to the edge. I wanted to crawl in a hole and die after every sermon of this hateful, abusive, unearned shame-based soul-destroying belief system that gets a pass.
I had to leave.

Not to mention all the inconsistent and hateful stuff Jesus allegedly said, when he didn't exist historical. xtianity is a deeply superstitious, bloodthirsty syncretic pagan mystery cult based in ritual cannibalism.

Nobody spoke to me but a Jew for Jesus. Twice. [View all] Manifestor_of_Light Aug 2012 OP
It sucks. Betsy Ross Aug 2012 #1
We have ..... meti57b Aug 2012 #2
one conservative, one reform. Manifestor_of_Light Aug 2012 #3
Have you thought about letting THEM know? Behind the Aegis Aug 2012 #4
I wrote letters to both temples. Manifestor_of_Light Oct 2012 #8
That is unfortunate Meshuga Oct 2012 #5
My spouse wanted to convert the second time, at the Classical Reform synagogue. Manifestor_of_Light Oct 2012 #6
I am so sorry for your experience Meshuga Oct 2012 #9
We never converted, never joined, never paid dues. Manifestor_of_Light Oct 2012 #10
LOL Meshuga Oct 2012 #11
I want to emphasize that the rabbi was cool. He was not the problem. Manifestor_of_Light Oct 2012 #12
That is usually the case Meshuga Oct 2012 #14
I would have made a good Reform Jew but they blew it. Manifestor_of_Light Oct 2012 #13
And that is a huge problem with the movement Meshuga Oct 2012 #15
Thanks! High five to ya!! Manifestor_of_Light Oct 2012 #16
A Beit Din is a Jewish court Meshuga Oct 2012 #17
Oh okay!! Cool! Manifestor_of_Light Oct 2012 #18
No that is something else Meshuga Oct 2012 #20
I knew a mikvah is a ritual bath--no stinkin' converts!! Clean ones! Manifestor_of_Light Oct 2012 #22
Thanks so very much for the badly needed humor!! Manifestor_of_Light Oct 2012 #19
No, thank you for the needed humor! :-) Meshuga Oct 2012 #21
The classical reform rabbi did NOT reject me--the Board did. Manifestor_of_Light Oct 2012 #7
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