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8. I'll still post my response even though you self-deleted
Sun Jun 2, 2013, 09:24 PM
Jun 2013

How would you quantify such a thing even if you were interested in doing so?

"Do many racists have a MUCH GREATER problem with couples with a black man and a white woman, than with the reverse?"

I personally don't think this is a thing that can be correctly measured. And more importantly, I don't think it's anything that SHOULD be measured.

If someone is a racist which in essence means that they believe in the inherent superiority of one race and the inherent inferiority of others, why would anyone suppose that either of these combinations (bm/ww, bw/wm) would be met positively? It would be much more likely to conclude that racists of all stripes would not look fondly on either one of these combinations. Hence my comment that racists having a problem with bm/ww while beaming happily at bw/ww is utter BS. Yes, black men have been perceived as threats, they are STILL perceived as threats as even the most casual reading of the FBI hate crimes stats and case studies on racial discrepancies in prison sentences still go. But black women have never been embraced by this country either as even the most casual glance at this nation's media will provide, including the absolute and utter dearth of black women portrayed in the media as objects of love and admiration -- a point the OP of that other thread simply refused to acknowledge no matter how many times it was put before him.

But that was not the point of that OP. The OP's point was that somehow it was 'less upsetting' to racists to portray an interracial relationship featuring a black woman/white man because the white man would be perceived as the "conqueror" "penetrating" and "shtupping" the black woman. How is that not offensive? Even removing the OPs tasteless posts within the thread, how is what he's saying not anything more than equating interracial relationships to the simple act of fornication? Sure, initially he made it seem as though he was simply "relaying" what racists out there in the Great Beyond think about these types of relationships but it became fairly obviously rather quickly that he had his own issues with interracial relationships himself.

And no, I'm not really trying to convince you of anything so I'm glad that you took that point. All I can do as a black woman in an interracial marriage is explain why that OP and that entire line of thinking is offensive. You do with that what you will.

hmmm, I live it, but I don't agree that anyone not living it shouldn't comment; and Schema Thing Jun 2013 #1
How do you know JustAnotherGen Jun 2013 #2
Yes, I agree DLnyc Jun 2013 #3
I think the thread failed because the OP has some very questionable ideas of what constitutes Number23 Jun 2013 #4
This message was self-deleted by its author DLnyc Jun 2013 #7
I'll still post my response even though you self-deleted Number23 Jun 2013 #8
I absolutely sympathize with your feeling DLnyc Jun 2013 #9
If racists have more problems with bm/ww relationships Number23 Jun 2013 #11
Love it and love you, dearheart Number23 Jun 2013 #5
Thanks you! JustAnotherGen Jun 2013 #15
Well I just went through your whole wedding album Number23 Jun 2013 #6
This nails it JustAnotherGen Jun 2013 #17
Your MIL sounds like a wise woman indeed. Number23 Jun 2013 #18
Pretty little something something! JustAnotherGen Jun 2013 #19
Ha!! "Now go have a pint with your mate!" Number23 Jun 2013 #20
I said that to an Aussie once JustAnotherGen Jun 2013 #21
What the heck has been going on? onpatrol98 Jun 2013 #10
"Anyone who speaks of conquering a mate has a sad, shallow concept of love." Number23 Jun 2013 #13
+1 JustAnotherGen Jun 2013 #16
Beautiful pics! rppper Jun 2013 #12
Amore! Amore! Amore! JustAnotherGen Jun 2013 #14
JAG, just noticed that Mr. Samuel Hain, the creator of that illustrious OP, has been shown the door Number23 Jun 2013 #22
Oh snap! JustAnotherGen Jun 2013 #23
"We Are The 15 Percent" Number23 Jun 2013 #24
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