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Denninmi

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5. That's been the theme my therapist has been pushing for a couple of weeks.
Mon Jan 28, 2013, 02:30 PM
Jan 2013

That I am making myself miserable, and I can choose to go the other way.

I agree with you about depression and other MI not being a choice, it's as bad as saying you have a choice whether or not to have cancer. I certainly never chose this. But I guess at this point, I can make the best of it or let it consume me. Not a hard choice in my mind.

What I think she is saying is that I can wallow in it, or I can do the things that make me feel good about myself. Which is something I really need to do, and she is encouraging me to do.

And so far, it really does work for me.

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