If one thinks she may have Asperger's, what should she do?

[janlyn]

3. adult autism

Deb it would actually be based on your insurance. Mine doesn't require that I go through my primary doctor.I can see a specialist on my own. Check with your insurance co.
As to who to see, you don't need a counselor. You need to seek out a psychiatrist. Preferably one who specializes in autism related field. If you are in a big city your odds are good of finding one.most however specialize in diagnoses in children. Adults are harder to diagnose as we have developed coping mechanisms that hide our symptoms so to speak. It it not impossible however to get help. As an autistic I know first hand how overwhelming getting help can be, as is anything new in our world. Know that you are not alone and don't be afraid to seek help!