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Tanuki

(14,914 posts)
26. And I have to say that you don't have to be gay to take exception to this.
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 12:05 PM
Nov 2012

I am a heterosexual female, and it was my initial response above that caused the OP's prolonged conniption, in the course of which I have been characterized by him as ridiculous, incapable of sticking to the subject, encumbered by alleged but unspecified "personal issues," a purveyor of bullshit and accusatory blather, a red-eyed ass, and someone indifferent to the plight of pregnant rape victims. When I read the topic title and opening line, I found it odd indeed that the OP would marginalize the author of a study that he admired. I find that kind of condescension and suppressed sneering a worthy subject of examination, regardless of whether my particular group is on the receiving end of it. We all support each other in the struggle against this sort of thing, and I certainly appreciate all who have weighed in. Since I don't want to invite any further verbal abuse from the OP I don't think I will be sharing any thoughts on this thread about the book, my personal experiences with sexual trauma, or the experiences of an acquaintance of mine who is raising the beautiful and talented daughter who was conceived as the result of a brutal rape. Being insulted, bullied and belittled is a trigger for many of us and and that is obviously the OP's stock in trade. I will say that I find it interesting that someone who goes sniveling off to Meta to cry crocodile tears over children conceived in rape would choose "bastard" as part of his screen name, as this term is highly offensive and stigmatizing to them for obvious reasons.

This message was self-deleted by its author [View all] TreasonousBastard Nov 2012 OP
Why should being gay prevent anyone from discussing any topic at all, Tanuki Nov 2012 #1
THAT'S what you got out of my post? The throway comment is... TreasonousBastard Nov 2012 #2
Mildly curious Tanuki Nov 2012 #6
I can't begin to speculate, but they must be... TreasonousBastard Nov 2012 #8
Your OP states: "A gay author speaking of rape...." yardwork Nov 2012 #15
Please see my post below. His being gay is very relevant. cbayer Nov 2012 #4
CBayer, I certainly agree with you. Tanuki Nov 2012 #9
Yeah, this is more of the same old same old. yardwork Nov 2012 #16
This Xamillion obamanut2012 Nov 2012 #22
It was a great interview and he is amazing. cbayer Nov 2012 #3
So you claim that 'relevant' is synonomous with 'ironic'? Bluenorthwest Nov 2012 #10
I made no such claim, BNW. You may want to listen to the interview. cbayer Nov 2012 #11
I can see how that's relevant but I can't find anything ironic in it. yardwork Nov 2012 #14
I'm not here to defend the OP or their choice of words. cbayer Nov 2012 #17
I missed it on the radio libodem Nov 2012 #5
I've put the book on my wishlist for later reading LadyHawkAZ Nov 2012 #7
I came from meta libodem Nov 2012 #12
It's just about how the conversation can turn on a dime... TreasonousBastard Nov 2012 #19
I don't understand how the author's being gay is ironic. yardwork Nov 2012 #13
OK-- nothing. Not one fucking thing. Now... TreasonousBastard Nov 2012 #18
I think that you are trying to start trouble and you're doing it in a group where I'm a host. yardwork Nov 2012 #20
I posted this in this group because thought "feminists" would have great interest in the topic... TreasonousBastard Nov 2012 #21
Many Feminists are also gay folks of both genders obamanut2012 Nov 2012 #24
And I have to say that you don't have to be gay to take exception to this. Tanuki Nov 2012 #26
I am also asking you to state how this is ironic obamanut2012 Nov 2012 #23
In what way is it ironic? Bluenorthwest Nov 2012 #25
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