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Warren DeMontague

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14. I've found that, integral to my competence is a realistic assesment of my own incompetence level.
Wed Feb 13, 2013, 05:06 PM
Feb 2013

As in, I need to be honest with myself as to what I shouldn't bother to try to take on, as well as if a job is starting to look like it's going to be over my head. Cars, for one, have never really been my area of ability. I can change a wiper blade or a burned out headlight, that's about it. I'm only sort of kidding.

Part of the thing with cars is, the level of necessity of the thing itself; like, how fucked up is life going to be if you make the thing worse by N orders of magnitude? The car is pretty integral to the smooth daily function of the family life. So, for me, it's generally best not to "experiment" too much.

I have made headway with appliance repair because the appliances, while important, can usually be lived without for a few days-- and likewise, the logistics of getting someone in to look at them is always a big pain in the ass: Wait several days or a week for an "appointment" that consists of a window, like, "sometime between 10AM and 4PM" (Who came up with that deal? How many folks can just sit around all day waiting for this guy?) and then invariably "we need to order a part" which ends up being another week or two with another all-day "appointment window".

So, I'm like, screw that. I've discovered that many common problems with, say, dishwashers can be researched on the internet, and parts can be found there, too. When it gets into electrical stuff, that's where I tend to hesitate, but most of the mechanical stuff is fairly straightforward to navigate around.

I think DIY home improvements are awesome! RevStPatrick Feb 2013 #1
LOL, you almost made me spew my drink all over. Denninmi Feb 2013 #2
DIY is awesome but my DIY rules of thumb: discntnt_irny_srcsm Feb 2013 #3
I'm getting increasingly handy as I get older. Warren DeMontague Feb 2013 #4
If the women don't find you handsome, they should at least find you handy. Major Nikon Feb 2013 #6
Handy AND Handsome, dammit! Not to mention, I have huge hands. Warren DeMontague Feb 2013 #9
Exactly. n/t lumberjack_jeff Feb 2013 #16
I'm not much of a big project person Major Nikon Feb 2013 #5
There is always some project. Denninmi Feb 2013 #7
Shoveling ProudToBeBlueInRhody Feb 2013 #8
I fucking hate it... opiate69 Feb 2013 #10
I'm easily frustrated too! gvstn Feb 2013 #11
To a tee, your just described my interactions Broken_Hero Feb 2013 #13
I've found that, integral to my competence is a realistic assesment of my own incompetence level. Warren DeMontague Feb 2013 #14
Depends on the job. westerebus Feb 2013 #12
I'm a guy who calls himself "lumberjack" lumberjack_jeff Feb 2013 #15
Every time I tried, my ex would kill the idea NRA_SUCKS Feb 2013 #17
What is the worst thing that can happen? lumberjack_jeff Feb 2013 #18
I usually ask myself that. Denninmi Feb 2013 #20
Well yeah... if the "worst" involves ambulances or fire trucks, I might think twice. lumberjack_jeff Feb 2013 #21
effin eh! This..right here. Fix The Stupid Feb 2013 #23
I really like most home projects Mosby Feb 2013 #19
Ask away....I practically re-built my house, by myself :) Fix The Stupid Feb 2013 #22
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