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lumberjack_jeff

(33,224 posts)
5. This could be worded better.
Thu Jan 3, 2013, 12:17 PM
Jan 2013

Something along the lines of "try to see past the superficial".

The inevitable jury is going to do it for you. Guaranteed.

Post removed Post removed Jan 2013 #1
Dude, I suggest you self delete, now ProudToBeBlueInRhody Jan 2013 #2
Yeah, you are SO going to get an alert on this one. Denninmi Jan 2013 #4
it worked for the '83 White Sox. Warren DeMontague Jan 2013 #10
This could be worded better. lumberjack_jeff Jan 2013 #5
The first thing you need to do is drop that attitude ProudToBeBlueInRhody Jan 2013 #3
Volunteer, and forget the gym as a place for meeting women. lumberjack_jeff Jan 2013 #6
You're probably too honest. AnotherMcIntosh Jan 2013 #7
wish you the best. seabeyond Jan 2013 #8
Well, a serious relationship would be nice. Denninmi Jan 2013 #9
I think socialization in general once you get into your 40s gets more challenging. Warren DeMontague Jan 2013 #11
use the internet plus you may be trying to play in the wrong leaugue. loli phabay Jan 2013 #12
Most women will not approach you and ask you for a date. Dash87 Jan 2013 #13
Join groups. Meet ups. Springslips Jan 2013 #14
Don't think about "Leagues" at all. klook Jan 2013 #15
What are your interests? loose wheel Jan 2013 #16
Christ, man, I'd think the cooking *alone* would make you some friends. Warren DeMontague Jan 2013 #17
Hey guys, thanks again. Denninmi Jan 2013 #18
I'm sure you realize it's probably better to start with someone who's more available- Warren DeMontague Jan 2013 #19
please don't be that guy who stares *keeps noticing* particular girls in the gym bettyellen Jan 2013 #20
The gym sucks as a place to meet people. lumberjack_jeff Jan 2013 #21
Ha ha, yes. Maybe if you're a gym rat it'll work. But it's like the beach, women are often a bit bettyellen Jan 2013 #22
I've noticed that the *noticing* is not confined to any particular gender, myself. Warren DeMontague Feb 2013 #24
GUYS, you are absolutely the best. Denninmi Feb 2013 #25
Just wanted to add that I posted the warning about the gym bettyellen Feb 2013 #23
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