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In reply to the discussion: When Good Guys Do Good Things. [View all]

radicalliberal

(907 posts)
19. My intention was not to cause a disruption in this topic.
Sat Jan 18, 2014, 07:22 PM
Jan 2014

I have no problem with the basic purpose of this group. I do see a need for it. After all, I'm a man.

I was sympathetic to women before I even heard of the feminist movement. (Hey, as a boy in the 7th grade in the spring of 1964, I supported Margaret Chase Smith in the Republican presidential primaries -- although I was hooted at by my fellow classmates, most of whom supported Goldwater. I simply thought to myself, "Why shouldn't a woman serve as President?&quot But I am aware of the lunatic fringe of feminism. They should be opposed.

I hope I was not misconstrued. I was not making a statement against the majority of men. After all, I'm a -- yeah, I know, I've already said that! LOL I know there are men who could never be forced against their will to rape a woman, that such men would die first.

I've not read any of the replies to my "rape culture" posts above. I just don't see any point. Everyone's mind is already made up, including my own. The successful promotion of understanding is rare, indeed, in Internet forums. It's often just a bunch of yelling, which can be entertaining at times or depressing on other occasions. At least that's my opinion.

I wasn't trying to insult anyone or encourage another gender war or seek the preeminence -- as I'm just an eccentric outsider in this forum, anyway, as I am in most of the forums where I post. I was only expressing my own heartfelt conviction -- which, in the scheme of things, is worth little or nothing.

I probably will post again eventually, but now I'm not in the best frame of mind. At the same time I end up worrying about possibly hurting someone else's feelings (usually after losing my temper), I'm probably thin-skinned myself. Probably? I'm just fooling myself. LOL I'm quite depressed for several reasons, and I need to devote my full attention to a major health problem -- namely, a chronic sleep disorder I've not had the self-discipline to deal with until now. As one of my personal trainers told me, good sleep is essential in bodybuilding. Besides, I'm afraid there's even more at stake. If I slept well and was making faster progress in my bodybuilding program, perhaps I'd have a better frame of mind for posting in most forums.

Best wishes to everyone. Including you, Proud.

When Good Guys Do Good Things. [View all] Inkfreak Jan 2014 OP
I'll also add Inkfreak Jan 2014 #1
She could have died from hypothermia. HappyMe Jan 2014 #9
She could've wound up like that poor girl in Minnesota, who lost multiple fingers and toes IIRC. nomorenomore08 Feb 2014 #26
IMO: There are many men who would have done the same thing. In_The_Wind Jan 2014 #2
Me too. I really do. Inkfreak Jan 2014 #3
That's the thing. There IS a rape culture. Bonobo Jan 2014 #7
This message was self-deleted by its author radicalliberal Jan 2014 #15
This message was self-deleted by its author radicalliberal Jan 2014 #16
I'm sorry that my opinion offends you. Bonobo Jan 2014 #17
Rape culture is not synonymous with American culture. More like a "mini-culture" within the larger nomorenomore08 Feb 2014 #27
I wonder if there's a victim of gang violence who would say that gang violence isn't a problem? lumberjack_jeff Jan 2014 #18
Virtually everyone agrees that rape is wrong. Problem is, some have an overly narrow and/or vague nomorenomore08 Feb 2014 #28
Good on them! I'm glad she's ok and that those guys were there! PeaceNikki Jan 2014 #4
Good for these guys.. Upton Jan 2014 #5
I've done such things. Many times. Always will. nt Bonobo Jan 2014 #6
And I believe you would. Inkfreak Jan 2014 #8
That's very nice of you to say. Bonobo Jan 2014 #11
"The evil men do lives after them, the good interred with their bones" westerebus Jan 2014 #10
Been there done that. nt rrneck Jan 2014 #12
The overwhelmingly vast majority of men would, criminals are outliers Exultant Democracy Jan 2014 #13
Well and succinctly said. n/t lumberjack_jeff Jan 2014 #14
I agree. I don't support the blanket demonization of men any more than you guys do. nomorenomore08 Feb 2014 #29
My intention was not to cause a disruption in this topic. radicalliberal Jan 2014 #19
We do good deeds for their own sake-- otherwise, it's merely self-promotion. LanternWaste Jan 2014 #20
And yet, you feel the need to inform other people of this fact. Warren DeMontague Jan 2014 #21
This message was self-deleted by its author radicalliberal Jan 2014 #23
Well shit, don't leave on my account! Warren DeMontague Jan 2014 #24
FWIW, I get what you're trying to do. And it's completely legitimate and understandable. nomorenomore08 Feb 2014 #30
I don't see how the motivation detracts from the merit of the deed Major Nikon Jan 2014 #22
They would agree, since they never identified themselves. Inkfreak Jan 2014 #25
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