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In reply to the discussion: Jen had a miscarriage [View all]

TorchTheWitch

(11,065 posts)
75. Damn, I'm so very sorry
Sun Sep 2, 2012, 04:36 PM
Sep 2012

I remember you had posted about the bleeding at the first and were crossing your fingers, and I'd so hoped it would all work out. I'm so very sorry to hear that this time didn't end well. Both you and Jen must be so devistated. Good news though that there doesn't seem to be anything to prevent a normal pregnancy in the near future.

Big hugs to both you and Jen.


Jen had a miscarriage [View all] Tobin S. Aug 2012 OP
This message was self-deleted by its author Tuesday Afternoon Aug 2012 #1
I'm so sorry. blueamy66 Aug 2012 #2
Oh, I'm so sorry to hear this! I wish I could make things easier for you now, but I know this is hedgehog Aug 2012 #3
I'm so sorry, Tobin pinboy3niner Aug 2012 #4
like I told Jen, you dont have to wait a couple months NightWatcher Aug 2012 #5
They recommend waiting to give the moms time to get back to full health, so as to GreenPartyVoter Aug 2012 #60
oh! Kali Aug 2012 #6
Sorry to hear that Tobin. bluesbassman Aug 2012 #7
That's sad. bigwillq Aug 2012 #8
Oh no - so sorry. haele Aug 2012 #9
I am sorry to hear this Tobin. redwitch Aug 2012 #10
I'm so sorry for you and Jen warrior1 Aug 2012 #11
Oh, I am so sorry to hear this news LaurenG Aug 2012 #12
I'm so sorry! I send comforting vibes marzipanni Aug 2012 #13
Aw geez...I'm sorry to hear this. cyberswede Aug 2012 #14
I'm so sorry. Baitball Blogger Aug 2012 #15
Oh, God, you don't deserve this. I am so, so sorry. Denninmi Aug 2012 #16
I was told one in three pregnancies end that way The empressof all Aug 2012 #17
I hesitated to post this...but I will. trof Aug 2012 #18
Oh Hon, I'm sorry. Listen to your doctor. And hug one another for me. nolabear Aug 2012 #19
Of all the hard things about this one of the hardest is letting go of thinking about her (or him). rug Aug 2012 #20
We went through that more than a couple of times... WCGreen Aug 2012 #21
Tobin and Jen know that you are in our thoughts. alphafemale Aug 2012 #22
I am so sorry to hear this, my dear Tobin... CaliforniaPeggy Aug 2012 #23
I am sorry. emilyg Aug 2012 #24
Sorry, Tobin and Jen. RebelOne Aug 2012 #25
I am so sorry.. snappyturtle Aug 2012 #26
I'm so sorry to hear this, Tobin Flaxbee Aug 2012 #27
I am so sorry, Tobin. coffeenap Aug 2012 #28
don't let anybody tell either of you how to feel. MrsBrady Aug 2012 #29
I am really sorry for your pain. n/t easttexaslefty Aug 2012 #30
I am so sorry, Tobin. Warm wishes to frogmarch Aug 2012 #31
I am so very sorry. MiddleFingerMom Aug 2012 #32
I'm so sorry to hear about this derby378 Aug 2012 #33
I feel a bit like an intruder. Lone_Star_Dem Aug 2012 #34
Others have said upthread all that I feel.... pink-o Aug 2012 #35
my heart goes out to you two. i am so sad. jen will be in my thoughts.... nt seabeyond Aug 2012 #36
I'm so incredibly sorry. Chellee Aug 2012 #37
I'm so sorry. You're a great husband. My dr said 1 in 3 pregnancies spontaneously abort in 1st Honeycombe8 Aug 2012 #38
Words are inadequate at times like this sarge43 Aug 2012 #39
Tobin, I am so sorry for you and Jen. greatauntoftriplets Aug 2012 #40
Tobin ~ My heart goes out to you and Jen Dystopian Aug 2012 #41
So sorry Tobin and Jen. likesmountains 52 Aug 2012 #42
I'm very sorry to hear this. JohnnyLib2 Aug 2012 #43
That's terrible but it sounds like she has support. pa28 Aug 2012 #44
so sorry to hear this, Tobin. rurallib Aug 2012 #45
I'm so sorry, Tobin and Jen. femmocrat Aug 2012 #46
Prayers, be there for weach other in this time,,, benld74 Aug 2012 #47
My heart goes out to you and your wife Robyn66 Aug 2012 #48
love you guys fizzgig Aug 2012 #49
Oh, no. murielm99 Aug 2012 #50
Want to add my condolences. Fridays Child Aug 2012 #51
Sending love and prayers to you and Jen woodsprite Aug 2012 #52
All I can say is hugs to both of you - and it's okay to cry. HopeHoops Aug 2012 #53
So sorry, Tobin... Phentex Aug 2012 #54
Aw damn. Was worried about you both when I saw your other post last week. riderinthestorm Aug 2012 #55
O, god, Tobin, I am so sorry. Bertha Venation Aug 2012 #56
Sorry to hear that Xyzse Aug 2012 #57
My condolences. dawg Aug 2012 #58
I am so very, very sorry! *hugs* I suffered 2 early miscarriages like that myself, and it was just GreenPartyVoter Aug 2012 #59
I am so sorry for Jen and you MissHoneychurch Aug 2012 #61
We have been there. RetroGamer1971 Sep 2012 #62
I'm so sorry. SalmonChantedEvening Sep 2012 #63
I'm so sorry TuxedoKat Sep 2012 #64
Such sad news . . . Callalily Sep 2012 #65
You don't know me Worried senior Sep 2012 #66
Oh that's so hard, I'm so sorry ismnotwasm Sep 2012 #67
I'm so sorry NewJeffCT Sep 2012 #68
I am so sorry for both you and Jen susanr516 Sep 2012 #69
I'm sorry for you and Jen, Tobin OmahaBlueDog Sep 2012 #70
So sorry, Tobin appal_jack Sep 2012 #71
So very sorry for you and Jen. cordelia Sep 2012 #72
I'm crying with Jen and you lunatica Sep 2012 #73
I am sorry for your loss Nikia Sep 2012 #74
Damn, I'm so very sorry TorchTheWitch Sep 2012 #75
You'll get through it, best wishes and kindest thoughts to you n/t intaglio Sep 2012 #76
OMG, I'm so sorry, Tobin! Odin2005 Sep 2012 #77
I am so sorry, Tobin. My mom had two miscarriages out of four pregnancies. UrbScotty Sep 2012 #78
I am so very sorry to hear this. davsand Sep 2012 #79
Dear Tobin, I'm so sorry. LiberalAndProud Sep 2012 #80
I'm so sorry; be kind to her. mykpart Sep 2012 #81
I'm very sorry, T. nt MrScorpio Sep 2012 #82
That's terrible. I apparently had 2 potential younger siblings that didn't get born Tunkamerica Sep 2012 #83
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