21. Don't think you have to live in the same house either
You don't need to get a divorce to move away from him. If the idea appeals to you then there's a goal you can start to pursue right now.
Living in the same house might keep you in the rut of cooking for him (if you do now) and washing his clothes, etc. You know what I mean. In any case you should start to feel 'divorced' emotionally now that you've moved into your own room. Meaning you don't care what he thinks or does and knowing he can't hurt you anymore because you're done with him.
~ What if it's a hoax and we create a better world for nothing? - Joel Pett ~