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nolabear

(41,932 posts)
14. Just a few more minutes, Honey. I'm not famous yet.
Sat May 12, 2012, 01:54 PM
May 2012

I understand that people have differeing opinions on extended breastfeeding but in my experience, and I do have some, much of the extension is for the anxieties of the parent rather than the child. I have studied attachment for many years, and part of it is to learn to symbolize affection and safety, to create an internal structure that knows it's there without it having to be constantly reinforced. This mom might be well intentioned in comforting him (there is NO nutritional need at this point) but the magazine is being sexual and provocative by using her in those clothes and that posture and she's cooperating with that, to the possible detriment of her son.

And that "Are You Mom Enough" headline is just horrible. Just what we need right now, a division among women who need to stick together. The whole thing sucks.

"People are really uptight over normal, healthy shit." ZombieHorde May 2012 #1
How about, "Magazines will do anything to survive". NYC_SKP May 2012 #2
yep, and some women will do anything for attention. BlancheSplanchnik May 2012 #3
'I should be outside playing with my friends. Instead I'm breastfeeding at this photo shoot' n/t RZM May 2012 #4
That's close to my first reaction as well - I really don't care how long petronius May 2012 #5
"Breastesses: They Do A Body Good" beknighted May 2012 #6
"This is the way daddy does it." pacalo May 2012 #7
mmm-mmm-mmm!!! MiddleFingerMom May 2012 #8
Mommy, how long do I have to keep sucking your tit? alphafemale May 2012 #9
We, the panel, would accept this as a winning answer thank youverymuchwehavetogonow. nt NYC_SKP May 2012 #19
Cafe au Lait, anyone? Major Nikon May 2012 #10
Oreo: Breastmilk's Favorite Cookie beknighted May 2012 #11
"How long is 15 minutes, mama?" HappyMe May 2012 #12
50/50 on this photoshoot. right? thanks, Mom. Tuesday Afternoon May 2012 #13
Just a few more minutes, Honey. I'm not famous yet. nolabear May 2012 #14
Sean Hannity and Rupert Murdoch take a meeting. rug May 2012 #15
Moo! Ptah May 2012 #16
Well really it's about fucking time someone replied to the mouthful of "Ok Mom I'm kinda a Big Kid" NYC_SKP May 2012 #17
HOW TF IS THIS NOT ON TEJH FRON BAGE! NYC_SKP May 2012 #18
"this is so 2010" or, " can I sell my 5 minutes to Joey?" NYC_SKP May 2012 #20
WTF is their point? Bertha Venation May 2012 #21
I heard the actual mother being interviewed and she didn't seem like the brightest light in the box. applegrove May 2012 #22
Prolly went like, "Hey, wanna be on the cover and make a few bucks?" NYC_SKP May 2012 #23
Oh no. She was absolutely sincere in her beliefs it was good for her child. applegrove May 2012 #24
"Siamese Twin separation attempt Fails" Baitball Blogger May 2012 #25
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