14. Know that I am the worst at giving advice on matters of the heart when
there are complications. But I want to at least try. I really owe you big.
First, ask your doctor if ResQ Fish oil will work for you. It is the Cadillac of fish oils for matters that involve cholesterol and heart issues.
Second, can your ex-wife's medical problems be controlled with medication? If yes, how committed is she to being as healthy as she can be to help you out with your issues? This should be all about improving your life. At this stage, you shouldn't take on someone who has more problems than you have. Unless that person is capable of lifting you spiritually in a way you can't find any other way.
Third, I am a little wary of the first woman coming to you with information, and your ex-wife following up the next day. I don't know what that means, except that your ex-wife is confiding private information with someone she later refers to as a slut. There is something there that doesn't seem to add up.
Fourth, I agree that it's best to start fresh with someone new, if you can. But you have to be committed to trying. It means joining organizations you might not like to belong to, and taking risks, like, maybe taking someone on a cruise. Find someone that makes you laugh and someone who is considerate about how you feel.
But, if you want to get the ex-wife back into your life, I would make that ex-wife fight for you tooth and nail. She should be courting you, and not the other way around.