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Sun Apr 29, 2012, 11:05 AM

31. Defend all you want, but a person who values and respects women

would have *never* made such a post. So, yes, based on his query, I'm sticking with creepy. He's welcome to defend himself. I would love for him to explain how HOT-BABE, Model-Hot, WAY to young, she was HOT is an acceptable way to describe a woman in a way that does not objectify her and boil her value down to looks alone.

Plus she is one of the nicest people you will ever meet. <-- and then he throws this in with the use of plus indicating that the hotness is all that's necessary. Plus, she's nice as if that was an added benefit.

So, I guess I'm shallow. I respond to people based on the actual words and characterizations they use in their posts. If actually knowing a person was a prerequisite for responding to them, my guess is that this whole Internet message board thing wouldn't get too far.

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92 replies	Author	Time	Post
Have you ever wanted to Date someone [View all]	Giantsfootball10	Apr 2012	OP
Feel good now, feel bad later (if she'll have you)	NightWatcher	Apr 2012	#1
If you want to date her, go for it!	CaliforniaPeggy	Apr 2012	#2
If you don't ask, you	cloudbase	Apr 2012	#3
Go for it -	cliffordu	Apr 2012	#4
Stay away from my Mom, dude. Seriously.	Ikonoklast	Apr 2012	#5
She is too young for you.	kwassa	Apr 2012	#6
So what if the relationship eventually ends?	DutchLiberal	Apr 2012	#9
Well, there could be a broken heart involved.	blueamy66	Apr 2012	#62
If you have to ask,	Moondog	Apr 2012	#7
You're only saying that because society says that's what you're "supposed" to say.	DutchLiberal	Apr 2012	#10
Old men are ugly too. Once their faces start looking like their nutsac?	alphafemale	Apr 2012	#16
True that.	DutchLiberal	Apr 2012	#17
screw that	alphafemale	Apr 2012	#21
I would love to rec your post!!!!!	lunatica	Apr 2012	#44
that's a new one for me	blueamy66	Apr 2012	#63
I find your comment really stupid	lunatica	Apr 2012	#43
Women don't want to hear it, so we just pretend biology doesn't exist. Got it!	DutchLiberal	Apr 2012	#54
So do we though	treestar	Apr 2012	#90
that's just your opinion	nickinSTL	Apr 2012	#47
See, you're talking about something totally different than me.	DutchLiberal	Apr 2012	#55
Gee, women really can't win, can we?	WildEyedLiberal	Apr 2012	#58
Thanks, I forgot to point that out.	DutchLiberal	Apr 2012	#59
on re-reading that, you're right	nickinSTL	Apr 2012	#64
surely you jest	Tuesday Afternoon	Apr 2012	#24
There is no such thing as a too big age difference.	DutchLiberal	Apr 2012	#8
Half your age plus seven.	bluedigger	Apr 2012	#11
According to whom?	DutchLiberal	Apr 2012	#18
I believe it's traditional Chinese wisdom.	bluedigger	Apr 2012	#23
Why should I have to explain or defend my interest in the topic to you?	DutchLiberal	Apr 2012	#28
You keep saying "she's HOT."	Lydia Leftcoast	Apr 2012	#12
You're of the age	HeiressofBickworth	Apr 2012	#13
Men DO think with their little heads.	DutchLiberal	Apr 2012	#19
The same go for the women dating younger men.	HappyMe	Apr 2012	#27
Anecdotally speaking	OriginalGeek	Apr 2012	#67
I agree wholeheartedly with everything you said.	DutchLiberal	Apr 2012	#70
The BS about biology	treestar	Apr 2012	#91
there's no rhyme or reason to attraction	lovemydog	Apr 2012	#14
Looks, age, etc. - no matter what, don't ask out someone where they work.	harmonicon	Apr 2012	#15
Ask her out for coffee.	HappyMe	Apr 2012	#20
As Groucho said...	Scuba	Apr 2012	#22
You sound creepy	nobodyspecial	Apr 2012	#25
You don't even know the guy, for God's sake!	DutchLiberal	Apr 2012	#29
Defend all you want, but a person who values and respects women	nobodyspecial	Apr 2012	#31
That was my first reaction as well.	noamnety	Apr 2012	#33
On the other hand...	pipi_k	Apr 2012	#34
I'm not above noticing a man's looks or physique	nobodyspecial	Apr 2012	#35
Oooh, so you are one of those holier-than-thou people who have to let others know they're unworthy?	DutchLiberal	Apr 2012	#38
Yes, that's exactly what I said.	nobodyspecial	Apr 2012	#41
So praising a woman for her good looks is	DutchLiberal	Apr 2012	#36
Hmm... You certainly have been awfully involved and defensive in this post	nobodyspecial	Apr 2012	#40
You're making a caricature out of something that isn't there.	DutchLiberal	Apr 2012	#50
OK as long as you don't get mad if a woman wants to know how much money you make.	treestar	Apr 2012	#92
A few points:	Chan790	Apr 2012	#26
Why is it impolite how ask somebody out where they work?	DutchLiberal	Apr 2012	#30
Okay, I'll explain it.	Chan790	Apr 2012	#32
You lost me in the first line when you stepped out of reality.	DutchLiberal	Apr 2012	#37
Don't be so defensive. I agree with Chan.	harmonicon	Apr 2012	#49
No, coercion is holding a gun to her head and saying: "you wanna go out with me?"	DutchLiberal	Apr 2012	#51
You're definitely missing the point by leaps and bounds.	harmonicon	Apr 2012	#53
Nobody is forcing anybody to do anything.	DutchLiberal	Apr 2012	#57
A point-by-point refutation of you.	Chan790	Apr 2012	#60
A refutation of your refutation.	DutchLiberal	Apr 2012	#68
We're going to have to agree to disagree then.	Chan790	Apr 2012	#75
Some things don't need any explanation.	DutchLiberal	Apr 2012	#76
Where I'm from...	Chan790	Apr 2012	#80
No, I've explained at great lenghts how your textbook theories don't apply in the real world.	DutchLiberal	Apr 2012	#82
...	Chan790	Apr 2012	#83
This post was hidden by jury decision.	DutchLiberal	Apr 2012	#84
What part of this do you not get?	Chan790	Apr 2012	#88
Chan790 my friend, I admire you.	flvegan	Apr 2012	#85
"I dated...underwear models."	hay rick	Apr 2012	#52
What can I say? I'm epically awesome. n/t	Chan790	Apr 2012	#61
If anyone starts that thread,	redqueen	Apr 2012	#71
Is dating an underwear model a good thing?	hay rick	Apr 2012	#74
lol!	OriginalGeek	Apr 2012	#77
I have been considering the same thing...	dogknob	Apr 2012	#39
Yeah but when I do I usually get my face slapped....	whistler162	Apr 2012	#42
You should go for it, unless law forbids.	JVS	Apr 2012	#45
Personal experiences	siligut	Apr 2012	#46
When I was in my teens and twenties, both I and my friends had older men approach us	Lydia Leftcoast	Apr 2012	#48
I once dated a woman for about 6 months.	baldguy	Apr 2012	#56
If you can't get beyond the word "hot" as a descriptor I would advise you to move on.	ScreamingMeemie	Apr 2012	#65
If you can actually get her to go on a date with you - GO FOR IT!!!	cbdo2007	Apr 2012	#66
Is she legal?	4th law of robotics	Apr 2012	#69
My man is 14 years younger than I am.	redqueen	Apr 2012	#72
My husband is 13 years younger.	FedUpWithIt All	Apr 2012	#79
You answered your own question.	Iggo	Apr 2012	#73
Married a man 20 years older than me.	Neoma	Apr 2012	#78
Meanwhile Giantfootball has punted himself elsewhere	felix_numinous	Apr 2012	#81
his post sounded awfully familiar that was in lounge a couple months ago. hot, really hot girls	seabeyond	Apr 2012	#87
I've found people physically attractive...	Fearless	Apr 2012	#86
I've never let that discourage me...	Rochester	Apr 2012	#89

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