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me b zola

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50. You are serioulsy ill
Thu Aug 9, 2012, 10:11 PM
Aug 2012

I don't want anything to do with your son's origional birth certificate other than as a civil right he has the right to it.

Adoption Affects on Birthmothers [View all] me b zola Aug 2012 OP
Effects Tunkamerica Aug 2012 #1
Affects is the verb. Effects is the noun. OP is correct. 1monster Aug 2012 #10
And the sentence only makes sense if a marybourg Aug 2012 #34
There is ONE reason that my son was available for adoption. MarianJack Aug 2012 #2
Thanks for your post customerserviceguy Aug 2012 #3
No Thanks needed. MarianJack Aug 2012 #4
MarianJack Diclotican Aug 2012 #7
When we took custody of our son,... MarianJack Aug 2012 #18
MarianJack Diclotican Aug 2012 #28
I'm an infant adoptee myself customerserviceguy Aug 2012 #39
I think that in his heart of hearts,... MarianJack Aug 2012 #43
You don't know that she didn't WANT BlueToTheBone Aug 2012 #5
Speaking as a person who wasactually there... MarianJack Aug 2012 #6
Well, I'm glad you wanted the child. BlueToTheBone Aug 2012 #8
He isn't "the child"... MarianJack Aug 2012 #13
Exactly. AtheistCrusader Aug 2012 #33
No, you do not know...... citizen blues Aug 2012 #52
Well pardon my dumb ass for believing... MarianJack Aug 2012 #53
Just have some compassion... citizen blues Aug 2012 #54
Scorn isn't an issue here. MarianJack Aug 2012 #55
EXACTLY PhoenixR Nov 2012 #60
Absolutely. LuckyTheDog Aug 2012 #12
Our son came into our lives when he was 2 1/2 months old. MarianJack Aug 2012 #14
This post was not intended to insult or hurt adoptive parents me b zola Aug 2012 #20
At least three of the mothers in that video have acquired contact with their children. AtheistCrusader Aug 2012 #21
The insensitivity of your post made me catch my breath me b zola Aug 2012 #25
And the insensitivity of yours annoyed me pretty good. AtheistCrusader Aug 2012 #30
What the fuck is this AtheistCrusader Aug 2012 #32
Post removed Post removed Nov 2012 #59
Ours was an open adoption. MarianJack Aug 2012 #42
Statistically speaking AtheistCrusader Aug 2012 #22
If he ever chooses to meet his birth mother,... MarianJack Aug 2012 #41
Statistics are about odds, whom is more likely... me b zola Aug 2012 #56
Odds, and also understanding historical track records. AtheistCrusader Aug 2012 #57
Understand the implications. no_hypocrisy Aug 2012 #9
The problem isn't the sealing of the birth records. AtheistCrusader Aug 2012 #23
You are promoting identity theft me b zola Aug 2012 #26
Promoting? You just essentially accused me of PARTICIPATING in it. AtheistCrusader Aug 2012 #31
You seem to be a willing participant me b zola Aug 2012 #36
You seem to think it's a problem at all. AtheistCrusader Aug 2012 #37
Post removed Post removed Aug 2012 #44
You don't seem to understand the issue you are advocating. AtheistCrusader Aug 2012 #46
My first/birth mother didn't have a choice me b zola Aug 2012 #48
And you would be laughed at. AtheistCrusader Aug 2012 #49
You are serioulsy ill me b zola Aug 2012 #50
That arrangement is not your concern, nor is it a 'civil right'. AtheistCrusader Aug 2012 #51
So would I PhoenixR Nov 2012 #61
I don't know what your problem is AtheistCrusader Nov 2012 #63
Also, I've already taken care to obtain the medical history of the AtheistCrusader Aug 2012 #47
Post removed Post removed Nov 2012 #62
I hope the intention here is not to demonize adoptive parents LuckyTheDog Aug 2012 #11
When our son isn't around,... MarianJack Aug 2012 #15
The intent of the women in the video or mine? me b zola Aug 2012 #19
Sounds like a strawman. AtheistCrusader Aug 2012 #24
That is the lie that these brave activists are exposing me b zola Aug 2012 #27
No it isn't. AtheistCrusader Aug 2012 #29
Post removed Post removed Nov 2012 #58
You haven't sourced the alleged 'lie'. AtheistCrusader Aug 2012 #38
huh. i wish to publicly thank my birth mother for handing me over to the most xchrom Aug 2012 #16
As an adoptive dad, all I can say to you, xchrom, is... MarianJack Aug 2012 #17
To me, the issue isn't to be against the adoptive parents...I don't ever think that. Neoma Aug 2012 #35
A couple of years ago Maine unsealed the records for adults who were adopted as children. Gormy Cuss Aug 2012 #40
Thank you for sharing your experience me b zola Aug 2012 #45
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