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Response to me b zola (Reply #44)

Thu Aug 9, 2012, 12:30 AM

46. You don't seem to understand the issue you are advocating.

If you want to have contact with a child you have given birth to, and put up for adoption, do not have a closed adoption.

If you were forced into a closed adoption under duress, petition the courts. The records will be unsealed. I've said it three times already, so I'll try bigger characters because you don't seem to have read it: THIS IS PRECISELY WHY THE RECORDS ARE SEALED, NOT DESTROYED. RECORDS CAN BE UN-SEALED BY THE COURT.

Who are you to assert that my child's birth cert should be reverted, and MY name taken off? That's what you are advocating. You don't know the first fucking thing about our adoption, the parameters under which it was arranged, etc. You have no place advocating any such thing. YOU made this MY BUSINESS when you promote altering my son's birth certificate.

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