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In the discussion thread: Adoption Affects on Birthmothers [View all]

Thu Aug 9, 2012, 12:20 AM

me b zola (17,422 posts)

45. Thank you for sharing your experience

I love my parents, and miss them everyday. But the connection that I've had with my birth/first mother has been there since I was a little girl.

Much love to you

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63 replies	Author	Time	Post
Adoption Affects on Birthmothers [View all]	me b zola	Aug 2012	OP
Effects	Tunkamerica	Aug 2012	#1
Affects is the verb. Effects is the noun. OP is correct.	1monster	Aug 2012	#10
And the sentence only makes sense if a	marybourg	Aug 2012	#34
There is ONE reason that my son was available for adoption.	MarianJack	Aug 2012	#2
Thanks for your post	customerserviceguy	Aug 2012	#3
No Thanks needed.	MarianJack	Aug 2012	#4
MarianJack	Diclotican	Aug 2012	#7
When we took custody of our son,...	MarianJack	Aug 2012	#18
MarianJack	Diclotican	Aug 2012	#28
I'm an infant adoptee myself	customerserviceguy	Aug 2012	#39
I think that in his heart of hearts,...	MarianJack	Aug 2012	#43
You don't know that she didn't WANT	BlueToTheBone	Aug 2012	#5
Speaking as a person who wasactually there...	MarianJack	Aug 2012	#6
Well, I'm glad you wanted the child.	BlueToTheBone	Aug 2012	#8
He isn't "the child"...	MarianJack	Aug 2012	#13
Exactly.	AtheistCrusader	Aug 2012	#33
No, you do not know......	citizen blues	Aug 2012	#52
Well pardon my dumb ass for believing...	MarianJack	Aug 2012	#53
Just have some compassion...	citizen blues	Aug 2012	#54
Scorn isn't an issue here.	MarianJack	Aug 2012	#55
EXACTLY	PhoenixR	Nov 2012	#60
Absolutely.	LuckyTheDog	Aug 2012	#12
Our son came into our lives when he was 2 1/2 months old.	MarianJack	Aug 2012	#14
This post was not intended to insult or hurt adoptive parents	me b zola	Aug 2012	#20
At least three of the mothers in that video have acquired contact with their children.	AtheistCrusader	Aug 2012	#21
The insensitivity of your post made me catch my breath	me b zola	Aug 2012	#25
And the insensitivity of yours annoyed me pretty good.	AtheistCrusader	Aug 2012	#30
What the fuck is this	AtheistCrusader	Aug 2012	#32
This post was hidden by jury decision.	PhoenixR	Nov 2012	#59
Ours was an open adoption.	MarianJack	Aug 2012	#42
Statistically speaking	AtheistCrusader	Aug 2012	#22
If he ever chooses to meet his birth mother,...	MarianJack	Aug 2012	#41
Statistics are about odds, whom is more likely...	me b zola	Aug 2012	#56
Odds, and also understanding historical track records.	AtheistCrusader	Aug 2012	#57
Understand the implications.	no_hypocrisy	Aug 2012	#9
The problem isn't the sealing of the birth records.	AtheistCrusader	Aug 2012	#23
You are promoting identity theft	me b zola	Aug 2012	#26
Promoting? You just essentially accused me of PARTICIPATING in it.	AtheistCrusader	Aug 2012	#31
You seem to be a willing participant	me b zola	Aug 2012	#36
You seem to think it's a problem at all.	AtheistCrusader	Aug 2012	#37
This post was hidden by jury decision.	me b zola	Aug 2012	#44
You don't seem to understand the issue you are advocating.	AtheistCrusader	Aug 2012	#46
My first/birth mother didn't have a choice	me b zola	Aug 2012	#48
And you would be laughed at.	AtheistCrusader	Aug 2012	#49
You are serioulsy ill	me b zola	Aug 2012	#50
That arrangement is not your concern, nor is it a 'civil right'.	AtheistCrusader	Aug 2012	#51
So would I	PhoenixR	Nov 2012	#61
I don't know what your problem is	AtheistCrusader	Nov 2012	#63
Also, I've already taken care to obtain the medical history of the	AtheistCrusader	Aug 2012	#47
This post was hidden by jury decision.	PhoenixR	Nov 2012	#62
I hope the intention here is not to demonize adoptive parents	LuckyTheDog	Aug 2012	#11
When our son isn't around,...	MarianJack	Aug 2012	#15
The intent of the women in the video or mine?	me b zola	Aug 2012	#19
Sounds like a strawman.	AtheistCrusader	Aug 2012	#24
That is the lie that these brave activists are exposing	me b zola	Aug 2012	#27
No it isn't.	AtheistCrusader	Aug 2012	#29
This post was hidden by jury decision.	PhoenixR	Nov 2012	#58
You haven't sourced the alleged 'lie'.	AtheistCrusader	Aug 2012	#38
huh. i wish to publicly thank my birth mother for handing me over to the most	xchrom	Aug 2012	#16
As an adoptive dad, all I can say to you, xchrom, is...	MarianJack	Aug 2012	#17
To me, the issue isn't to be against the adoptive parents...I don't ever think that.	Neoma	Aug 2012	#35
A couple of years ago Maine unsealed the records for adults who were adopted as children.	Gormy Cuss	Aug 2012	#40
Thank you for sharing your experience	me b zola	Aug 2012	#45

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