An essential element of the relentless success of abusers is our willingness to blame the abused, especially by suggesting that they "accept" the abused role. It is past time to change that. Abusers and bullies are solely responsible for their heinous behavior, and we should be clear about our collective intent to shine the light of truth on them.
Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has.