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Hissyspit

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Fri Feb 7, 2014, 10:45 PM Feb 2014

Allen Responds to Farrow's Abuse Claims in Letter [View all]

Source: Associated Press

LOS ANGELES (AP) — Woody Allen is again denying he molested adoptive daughter Dylan Farrow and is calling ex-partner Mia Farrow vindictive, spiteful and malevolent in an open-letter published online Friday by The New York Times.

The 78-year-old filmmaker says Dylan Farrow's open letter published last week includes "creative flourishes that seem to have magically appeared during our 21-year estrangement."

At the time of the breakup of their 12-year relationship more than two decades ago, Mia Farrow accused Allen of molesting Dylan. Allen has consistently denied the abuse allegation.

Allen claims in the letter 7-year-old Dylan was coached by Mia Farrow.

Dylan Farrow claimed in her open letter that Allen abused her in 1992 at the family's Connecticut home.

Allen said his letter will be the final word on the matter.

Read more: http://bigstory.ap.org/article/allen-responds-farrows-abuse-claims-letter



http://www.nytimes.com/2014/02/09/opinion/sunday/woody-allen-speaks-out.html

Woody Allen Speaks Out

By WOODY ALLEN
February 7, 2014

Last Sunday, Nicholas Kristof wrote a column about Dylan Farrow, the adopted daughter of Woody Allen and Mia Farrow. Mr. Allen has written the following response to the column and Dylan’s account.

TWENTY-ONE years ago, when I first heard Mia Farrow had accused me of child molestation, I found the idea so ludicrous I didn’t give it a second thought. We were involved in a terribly acrimonious breakup, with great enmity between us and a custody battle slowly gathering energy. The self-serving transparency of her malevolence seemed so obvious I didn’t even hire a lawyer to defend myself. It was my show business attorney who told me she was bringing the accusation to the police and I would need a criminal lawyer.

I naïvely thought the accusation would be dismissed out of hand because of course, I hadn’t molested Dylan and any rational person would see the ploy for what it was. Common sense would prevail. After all, I was a 56-year-old man who had never before (or after) been accused of child molestation. I had been going out with Mia for 12 years and never in that time did she ever suggest to me anything resembling misconduct. Now, suddenly, when I had driven up to her house in Connecticut one afternoon to visit the kids for a few hours, when I would be on my raging adversary’s home turf, with half a dozen people present, when I was in the blissful early stages of a happy new relationship with the woman I’d go on to marry — that I would pick this moment in time to embark on a career as a child molester should seem to the most skeptical mind highly unlikely. The sheer illogic of such a crazy scenario seemed to me dispositive.

Notwithstanding, Mia insisted that I had abused Dylan and took her immediately to a doctor to be examined. Dylan told the doctor she had not been molested. Mia then took Dylan out for ice cream, and when she came back with her the child had changed her story. The police began their investigation; a possible indictment hung in the balance. I very willingly took a lie-detector test and of course passed because I had nothing to hide. I asked Mia to take one and she wouldn’t. Last week a woman named Stacey Nelkin, whom I had dated many years ago, came forward to the press to tell them that when Mia and I first had our custody battle 21 years ago, Mia had wanted her to testify that she had been underage when I was dating her, despite the fact this was untrue. Stacey refused. I include this anecdote so we all know what kind of character we are dealing with here. One can imagine in learning this why she wouldn’t take a lie-detector test.

Meanwhile the Connecticut police turned for help to a special investigative unit they relied on in such cases, the Child Sexual Abuse Clinic of the Yale-New Haven Hospital. This group of impartial, experienced men and women whom the district attorney looked to for guidance as to whether to prosecute, spent months doing a meticulous investigation, interviewing everyone concerned, and checking every piece of evidence. Finally they wrote their conclusion which I quote here: “It is our expert opinion that Dylan was not sexually abused by Mr. Allen. Further, we believe that Dylan’s statements on videotape and her statements to us during our evaluation do not refer to actual events that occurred to her on August 4th, 1992... In developing our opinion we considered three hypotheses to explain Dylan’s statements. First, that Dylan’s statements were true and that Mr. Allen had sexually abused her; second, that Dylan’s statements were not true but were made up by an emotionally vulnerable child who was caught up in a disturbed family and who was responding to the stresses in the family; and third, that Dylan was coached or influenced by her mother, Ms. Farrow. While we can conclude that Dylan was not sexually abused, we can not be definite about whether the second formulation by itself or the third formulation by itself is true. We believe that it is more likely that a combination of these two formulations best explains Dylan’s allegations of sexual abuse.”

Could it be any clearer? Mr. Allen did not abuse Dylan; most likely a vulnerable, stressed-out 7-year-old was coached by Mia Farrow. This conclusion disappointed a number of people. The district attorney was champing at the bit to prosecute a celebrity case, and Justice Elliott Wilk, the custody judge, wrote a very irresponsible opinion saying when it came to the molestation, “we will probably never know what occurred.”

But we did know because it had been determined and there was no equivocation about the fact that no abuse had taken place. Justice Wilk was quite rough on me and never approved of my relationship with Soon-Yi, Mia’s adopted daughter, who was then in her early 20s. He thought of me as an older man exploiting a much younger woman, which outraged Mia as improper despite the fact she had dated a much older Frank Sinatra when she was 19. In fairness to Justice Wilk, the public felt the same dismay over Soon-Yi and myself, but despite what it looked like our feelings were authentic and we’ve been happily married for 16 years with two great kids, both adopted. (Incidentally, coming on the heels of the media circus and false accusations, Soon-Yi and I were extra carefully scrutinized by both the adoption agency and adoption courts, and everyone blessed our adoptions.)

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judge says allens behavior grossly inappropriate and mia did not do all the stuff allen says she did seabeyond Feb 2014 #1
People Mag: Dylan Farrow Speaks Out About Her Woody Allen Allegations – and the Backlash PoliticAverse Feb 2014 #2
And another woody Allen Pedophile thread goes in the trash.... Walk away Feb 2014 #3
here is so more from the judge... dylan accused, not mia, btw. seabeyond Feb 2014 #4
And then, Mia named another one of her children after the judge (middle name of the child Wilks). JDPriestly Feb 2014 #11
Your argument is a real reach...I must say you leave me practically speechless...reaching for CTyankee Feb 2014 #44
I agree. It is evidence of nothing. But it is still very, very bizarre. JDPriestly Feb 2014 #49
I agree with you on everything but your very last sentence. polly7 Feb 2014 #47
Yes. I can understand. I just can't take sides. JDPriestly Feb 2014 #50
And that's probably the best position, being that the 'facts' are contradicted from polly7 Feb 2014 #52
The judge knows better than Soon-Yi and Moses what went on in the house? Bonobo Feb 2014 #13
I'm not sure how those who defend Mia and Dylan can reconcile this: Cooley Hurd Feb 2014 #5
Totally agree! n/t bobGandolf Feb 2014 #22
It happens all the time Evergreen Emerald Feb 2014 #39
His letter will be the final word on the matter? That sounds unbelievably arrogant, doesn't it? Fridays Child Feb 2014 #6
His quote in the letter to the Times is: PoliticAverse Feb 2014 #7
Right. Fridays Child Feb 2014 #9
Yes, bad writing on AP part. Hissyspit Feb 2014 #10
Mia Farrow has always seemed flakey to me. pacalo Feb 2014 #8
She has always seemed unhinged to me. Bonobo Feb 2014 #12
+1 n/t PasadenaTrudy Feb 2014 #29
If my husband got away with ruining my daughter 's life... Evergreen Emerald Feb 2014 #40
and you know the daughter was raped, whereas the state of CT determined she wasn't---because...?? wordpix Feb 2014 #82
That is not what the state determined Evergreen Emerald Feb 2014 #84
Sinatra, Polanski, her brother... reddread Feb 2014 #14
Sorry, but Scairp Feb 2014 #16
Did I leave out Previn? reddread Feb 2014 #24
She is NOT a flake Scairp Feb 2014 #15
From a 1992 "60 Minutes" interview... pacalo Feb 2014 #17
Guess what? Scairp Feb 2014 #18
I hear extreme bias in you. (Read On) RBInMaine Feb 2014 #20
You're Exactly RIGHT!!! WeekendWarrior Feb 2014 #34
WOW! Now if that doesn't show what she is willing and capable of, I don't know what does. Bonobo Feb 2014 #23
I remember seeing that 1992 "60 Minutes" Interview red dog 1 Feb 2014 #60
I'm curious what you are referring to davidpdx Feb 2014 #19
I love your "coulda," "mighta," "woulda" and then it "became." TA DA! QED! CTyankee Feb 2014 #45
Actually, it seems to encompass the main theme here: *No one knows*. pacalo Feb 2014 #48
What I see playing out here is, in the words of a poster who got their post hidden, a "psycho bitch CTyankee Feb 2014 #54
And why do you bring that up as a response to me? pacalo Feb 2014 #57
wow, now it's red meat baiting and torches and pitchforks... CTyankee Feb 2014 #58
There's nothing more to discuss. pacalo Feb 2014 #59
"Woody Allen, in his late 50s, had secretly entered into a sexual relationship with ... red dog 1 Feb 2014 #63
OK, how else do you want to put it? He had a sexual relationship with his lover's adopted teenaged CTyankee Feb 2014 #66
Thanks for posting that. It's the most sensible commentary I've seen. pacalo Feb 2014 #73
Hollywood just loves them some Woody Allen!...Right... CTyankee Feb 2014 #75
Afraid to read it, now that you've got your torches-&-pitchforks groove going on? pacalo Feb 2014 #77
Oh,not mine at all! Hollywood has plenty of its own, don't worry, pacalo! CTyankee Feb 2014 #79
I think there are other "brethren" at work here who are "just lovin' it!1!" -- pacalo Feb 2014 #81
Woody is a powerful guy in the Hollywood community. CTyankee Feb 2014 #85
he is a sick and twisted fucker noiretextatique Feb 2014 #103
Why won't Mia Farrow take a lie detector test? Democat Feb 2014 #21
Passing a lie detector test means nothing. Thats why they're not allowed in a trial. 7962 Feb 2014 #28
Actually, that's not completely correct WeekendWarrior Feb 2014 #35
Also, he refused to take a test administered by the police. He passed one given by someone 7962 Feb 2014 #43
Which is a self defeating argument for anyone who thinks Allen is guilty Major Nikon Feb 2014 #87
For those who think they are reliable, they're only reliable when given by a 3rd party 7962 Feb 2014 #88
the state's atty also got rebuked by a disciplinary panel for saying he had probable cause Major Nikon Feb 2014 #89
from what I read, Woody refused an objective lie detector test and hired his own CTyankee Feb 2014 #55
Mia Farrow did refuse to take a lie detector test.....I wonder why? red dog 1 Feb 2014 #64
And now Allen has 2 more little girls, 14 and 15 years old, to play around with fasttense Feb 2014 #25
You can't have it both ways WeekendWarrior Feb 2014 #38
Dylan Farrow's response to Allen's NY Times op-ed... PoliticAverse Feb 2014 #26
Post removed Post removed Feb 2014 #27
Misogyny Scairp Feb 2014 #33
Scairp, disagreeing with you... Nitram Feb 2014 #36
Two females against the word of one male Scairp Feb 2014 #41
Two females against one male are automatically telling the truth? Nitram Feb 2014 #106
anyone who claims "psycho bitch from hell" and "a man's worst nightmare" geek tragedy Feb 2014 #62
If he was falsely accused of sexually abusing a minor for spite... Nitram Mar 2014 #108
no, there's no jutification for calling her a "psycho b!tch" geek tragedy Mar 2014 #109
Molesters almost always VA_Jill Feb 2014 #30
This thinking is paranoid and sick. closeupready Feb 2014 #32
The fact that molesters lie... Nitram Feb 2014 #37
I don't know who to believe, but "lie detectors" prove nothing. Pale Blue Dot Feb 2014 #51
It is only one piece of evidence among many. Nitram Feb 2014 #107
Huh? progressoid Feb 2014 #53
"There are a lot of other ways to molest a young girl..." pacalo Feb 2014 #80
That letter really covers the facts. I believe him,he says the letter is the last we hear from him. Sunlei Feb 2014 #31
Look Robbins Feb 2014 #42
I'm just loving all this "evidence" against Mia...NOT... CTyankee Feb 2014 #46
You know, I keep seeing the Polanski reference and yet never an actual quote from Mia CTyankee Feb 2014 #56
if this were Mel Gibson instead of Allen I doubt DU would have this many geek tragedy Feb 2014 #61
I think it is because Woody was once a rather romantic figure because he WAS so CTyankee Feb 2014 #67
this is completely unsurprising to me. community standards are such that misogyny geek tragedy Feb 2014 #68
so much of this rage flies under the flag of free speech. I do not understand this sea change. CTyankee Feb 2014 #69
i have to disagree that feminism was ever a founding block of progressivism. geek tragedy Feb 2014 #70
You know, that's a pretty crappy line to take toward "liberal men." Comrade Grumpy Feb 2014 #71
"where people stand depends on where they sit" geek tragedy Feb 2014 #72
Pffft, there's no shortage of self described feminists that take those positions Major Nikon Feb 2014 #86
Just like there are black Republicans, there's the odd woman who claims to geek tragedy Feb 2014 #90
You have no idea what you are talking about Major Nikon Feb 2014 #91
Feminists do disagree on porn. geek tragedy Feb 2014 #92
Your argument is still no better than 'I don't agree with them, so they must not be feminists' Major Nikon Feb 2014 #94
Again, those women are not feminists, but MRA attention-seekers whose schtick is to geek tragedy Feb 2014 #95
You are just repeating yourself Major Nikon Feb 2014 #96
No, they advocate against gender equality and in favor of men's conveniences geek tragedy Feb 2014 #97
... Major Nikon Feb 2014 #98
hey, if you think Clarence Thomas and Ben Carson and Herman Cain are authentic geek tragedy Feb 2014 #99
... Major Nikon Feb 2014 #100
heh, go on listening to only those women who tell you what you want to hear nt geek tragedy Feb 2014 #101
Pot/Kettle Major Nikon Feb 2014 #102
It was to me. There was a wing of it at least that subscribed to the idea of feminism... CTyankee Feb 2014 #74
there tends to be a focus on formalistic measures of feminist advocacy geek tragedy Feb 2014 #83
i think this is exactly it, but we have seen that one can be liberal JI7 Feb 2014 #76
That is a VERY interesting and true observation. Squinch Feb 2014 #78
marrying his step-daugther convinced me noiretextatique Feb 2014 #105
K&R...Thanks, Hissyspit, for posting red dog 1 Feb 2014 #65
Aaaack........I'm almost scared of this thread - raven mad Feb 2014 #93
frank sinatra wan not her stepfather noiretextatique Feb 2014 #104
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