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Response to Tumbulu (Reply #68)

Wed Dec 5, 2012, 07:06 PM

83. You errected the first "strawdad".

 

And sorry to bust your bubble, but my "strawmom" is based on an old neighbour, who in fact did sleep through her second and third labours, and would have slept through the births themself, except as the sister said, she thought Sandy might like to be there for the actual event. BTW child two was an asthmatic hell child, and twice a day I'd pop next door to "sit" on the poor little bastard and give him his nebuliser.

AND the reason dads automatically get nomially equal parental rights, is becaues they go hand and hand with the parental RESPONSIBILITIES he can't legally avoid, and which don't go away even when paternal rights are in fact curtailed.


By the first of your posts I responded to, mums automatically get a lifetime of rights (including the right to UNILATERALLY abandon her responsibility) simply by popping the little sprog into the world. However, by your rules, dad has to be there, and repeatedly proove himself every day of the child's life, simply to hang onto his rights, but his responsibilities remain absolute even when all rights are terminated or even illegally blocked. The ONLY ways for HIS responsibilities to go away, is for someone else (mum's new partner) to take them on whilst he voluntarily gives up his paternal rights. OR for a judge to find that he's such an irredeemable character, that it's in the best interest of the child to have no father at all.

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