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liberalmuse

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77. The horror of it is, she ISN'T a monster.
Sat Oct 13, 2012, 01:24 PM
Oct 2012

Because "monsters" are driven by primal instinct - nature. She's a thinking, feeling human being, and sometimes human beings are capable of much worse than monsters. Nurturing and raising another human being can be extremely difficult. This is case in point why parents need a network of support within the community, especially single parents, so they don't feel alone. And most importantly, so they can have someone or someplace to go to when they're feeling frustrated and angry instead of taking it out on a child. It's good that she's sorry - maybe if the child so chooses, she can meet with her mother and her mother can tell her that to her face. I just hope the child is able to recover both mentally, physically and emotionally. It's easy to judge - even though most of us would never do such a thing. It's harder to look for the reasons horrific child abuse like this happens, and take steps to reach out and try and prevent it.

children raising children. Javaman Oct 2012 #1
To some extent... davidthegnome Oct 2012 #19
My mom was 19 with twins leftynyc Oct 2012 #22
The only concern should be for the child. Punishment is obviously needed but busterbrown Oct 2012 #62
I not only wouldn't let her leftynyc Oct 2012 #63
some people shouldn't make decisions about what is right for the child! busterbrown Oct 2012 #65
which would make you feel better (or at least that part that gets pleasure from revenge) duhneece Oct 2012 #78
23 not 13 old enough to handle emotions but has history of being abused herself lunasun Oct 2012 #32
The problem is that we have no way to prevent such violently unfit parents from tblue37 Oct 2012 #43
Couldn't she have gotten COUNSELING or mental health treatment? alp227 Oct 2012 #47
Two words... theHandpuppet Oct 2012 #54
It's not a crime to be an unfit mother 4th law of robotics Oct 2012 #38
Incarceration until menopause Warpy Oct 2012 #2
not to mention super gluing the poor child's hands to the wall… catbyte Oct 2012 #3
Intentional. Sadistic. Disabled and her strongest memory will be being hated. freshwest Oct 2012 #8
Well, if the kid ever turned to crime, that would be an advantage Warpy Oct 2012 #17
+1 freshwest Oct 2012 #7
It's the biting that's the giveaway IMO. wickerwoman Oct 2012 #69
How could somebody beat their own child? R. Daneel Olivaw Oct 2012 #4
If we go by the statistics then the answer is that its apparently pretty easy. nt cstanleytech Oct 2012 #9
There is a Republican running for office that advocates the death penalty for disobedient children. Kablooie Oct 2012 #14
Unbelievable! Matilda Oct 2012 #5
She would NEVER evilhime Oct 2012 #6
From the very little we know about this, I agree that she should never be allowed alone... harmonicon Oct 2012 #13
It makes the self-righteous Do-Gooders feel better. RC Oct 2012 #18
On the contrary davidthegnome Oct 2012 #20
she would also agree with that statement. LanternWaste Oct 2012 #44
Many who have been abused davidthegnome Oct 2012 #61
Loss of custody and forced sterilization would do all the good there is to be done FiveGoodMen Oct 2012 #46
Yes, this obamanut2012 Oct 2012 #56
Now she's sorry???? Beacool Oct 2012 #10
I would disagree with her self assessment. That is exactly what she is. olddad56 Oct 2012 #11
OMG. She should never be allowed to be around children again. n/t gkhouston Oct 2012 #12
Having the biology to make a baby doesn't equate to having the psychology to raise a baby Suji to Seoul Oct 2012 #15
Exactly davidpdx Oct 2012 #29
Baby = $100K minimum. Condoms = $3.99 Suji to Seoul Oct 2012 #58
A $300 vasectomy 15 years ago did the trick davidpdx Oct 2012 #67
I prefer the condom. I like having the ability to have a kid if I want one. Suji to Seoul Oct 2012 #74
Post removed Post removed Oct 2012 #16
yes imgbitepolitic Oct 2012 #21
She is entitled to her opinion, however Sherman A1 Oct 2012 #23
Giving birth does not make someone a good person Marrah_G Oct 2012 #24
Here is what she did. Sure seems pretty monstrous to me. booksenkatz Oct 2012 #25
Sounds more like attempted murder. freshwest Oct 2012 #50
No words... hlthe2b Oct 2012 #26
superglue her ass to a prison bunk SemperEadem Oct 2012 #27
She's right up there with the woman who took her kids to the tanning bed and looked orange davidpdx Oct 2012 #28
The Tanning Bed Mom didn't abuse her daughter in any way whatsoever obamanut2012 Oct 2012 #57
Ok, I must have not remembered the story then davidpdx Oct 2012 #68
And she popped out another kid after the attack. jsr Oct 2012 #30
What kind of man would get in the bed with her after that? Or was she raped? Or being paid? FFS. freshwest Oct 2012 #51
45 years. Is that to forcibly sterilize her? Festivito Oct 2012 #31
" She is responsible. So are we." 4th law of robotics Oct 2012 #37
Well, I can't imagine the sentences are too long to comprehend. Festivito Oct 2012 #40
I was curious how "we" are responsible for them. 4th law of robotics Oct 2012 #41
I'm sorry, them, not her? And, why the quotes around we. Festivito Oct 2012 #48
Don't be a jerk leftynyc Oct 2012 #64
You jump into the middle, don't write proper english, try to scare me with the word jerk, Festivito Oct 2012 #73
So are we, is an awfully wide brush. Throckmorton Oct 2012 #52
Hopefully wide enough to support your work and many more like you. Festivito Oct 2012 #53
I agree, she's not a monster... ejbr Oct 2012 #33
Yes, you are a monster, you POS! Odin2005 Oct 2012 #34
I'm tempted to agree with her - the comparison seems a bit unfair to real monsters petronius Oct 2012 #35
No I suppose not. Monsters are fictitious 4th law of robotics Oct 2012 #36
Some people just should not have children. jwirr Oct 2012 #39
Sorry lady FloridaJudy Oct 2012 #42
The sins of the father.. LanternWaste Oct 2012 #45
45 years? Blue_Tires Oct 2012 #49
Murderers and rapists and child molesters don't get 45 years obamanut2012 Oct 2012 #55
Elizabeth Escalona, Texas mom who glued toddler's hands to wall, sentenced to 99 years in prison jsr Oct 2012 #59
good. alphafemale Oct 2012 #70
"beat the toddler so badly that she suffered significant brain trauma and bleeding inside her skull" mikeytherat Oct 2012 #60
no, technically, you are a psychopath fascisthunter Oct 2012 #66
Incercerate her and throw away the key rachel1 Oct 2012 #71
She was sentenced to 99 years today rainbow4321 Oct 2012 #72
Mom who superglued girl's hands to wall sentenced to 99 years tawadi Oct 2012 #75
45 years with a chance a parole seems fair. aikoaiko Oct 2012 #76
The horror of it is, she ISN'T a monster. liberalmuse Oct 2012 #77
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