Reply #11

In the discussion thread: My son just called me [View all]

Tue Jun 12, 2012, 04:51 PM

cynatnite (27,122 posts)

11. You have an awesome kid!

Yeah, it's scary. I would also urge you and your family to visit with a doctor as well. A physician can answer your questions and help allay your fears...at least to some degree.

Of course, he will have to undergo testing to see if he is donor compatible. That is usually a huge hurdle.

Regardless of how it turns out, make sure he knows you support him and are proud of him. It is truly a generous gift from the heart. People who are willing to do this are heroes. You have every right to be proud of the man that is your son.

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56 replies	Author	Time	Post
My son just called me [View all]	Control-Z	Jun 2012	OP
wow	handmade34	Jun 2012	#1
wow wow	orpupilofnature57	Jun 2012	#3
triple wow! But I know someone who donated a kidney & was fine	Liberal_in_LA	Jun 2012	#29
It really is a "wow"	Control-Z	Jun 2012	#4
not overreacting at all	Voice for Peace	Jun 2012	#28
As a parent I can see how scary that can be	sharp_stick	Jun 2012	#2
Thanks you.	Control-Z	Jun 2012	#6
What a great kid and what an honest, giving response.	gateley	Jun 2012	#5
He really just blew my mind	Control-Z	Jun 2012	#12
He needs to give it serious consideration	notadmblnd	Jun 2012	#7
Indeed an extremely generous impulse.	enough	Jun 2012	#8
I don't think this was an impulse.	Control-Z	Jun 2012	#26
Really BIG wow! Amazing son!	riderinthestorm	Jun 2012	#9
be careful	tru	Jun 2012	#33
My sister just received a kidney/liver transplant in February 2012	riderinthestorm	Jun 2012	#38
My mom had a kidney transplant July 29,1996,	revolution breeze	Jun 2012	#56
Speaking as someone who has a family member who might need a kidney some day,	pnwmom	Jun 2012	#10
How old is too old?	cynatnite	Jun 2012	#16
I'm more concerned with the youth of the donor.	pnwmom	Jun 2012	#31
If I'm reading the OP correctly, her son volunteered...	cynatnite	Jun 2012	#40
His mother is still thinking all this through, and if she wasn't interested in people's	pnwmom	Jun 2012	#42
You have an awesome kid!	cynatnite	Jun 2012	#11
Long as he isn't planning to donate it to Cheney I say major props to him	tularetom	Jun 2012	#13
Congratulations to you	lindac007	Jun 2012	#14
He should talk to his health insurance provider, as this can change his future eligibility.	Brickbat	Jun 2012	#15
Well you have a wonderful son and you should be proud. But please make sure he thinks it	southernyankeebelle	Jun 2012	#17
And will he have physical limitations imposed	B2G	Jun 2012	#19
I've been living with one kidney for years.	kudzu22	Jun 2012	#20
Do you have limitations for around physical activities	B2G	Jun 2012	#21
No contact sports	kudzu22	Jun 2012	#43
I didn't even think of that. Your right. I do admire him for even thinking about it.	southernyankeebelle	Jun 2012	#22
Like a good parent you put it out there. Hope he makes the best decision. Prayers are coming your	southernyankeebelle	Jun 2012	#54
Warning!!!	kudzu22	Jun 2012	#18
My nephew gave a kidney to the son of a friend of the family	lunatica	Jun 2012	#23
They could set up a kidney transplant chain	TrogL	Jun 2012	#24
Good kids rarely happen by accident...	awoke_in_2003	Jun 2012	#25
Ironic that this story about a donor being denied insurance is on the same page as this one right no	mtnester	Jun 2012	#27
Kind of great, isn't it,	Control-Z	Jun 2012	#46
Your tagline is flawless. It says it all.	longship	Jun 2012	#30
I'll save this thread to refer to	Control-Z	Jun 2012	#47
But we now all know the extent that you've succeeded	longship	Jun 2012	#53
Thank you for your honesty.	Smilo	Jun 2012	#32
As a mom of a daughter who will one day need a liver	Ms. Toad	Jun 2012	#34
That is a wonderful kid.	Cleita	Jun 2012	#35
Wow indeed!	TuxedoKat	Jun 2012	#36
You must be very proud of your son!	AndyA	Jun 2012	#37
what an amazing person--I can't even imagine how proud you are of him!	renate	Jun 2012	#39
One question that should be examined: what is the family/social interaction that	enough	Jun 2012	#41
I'm going to say something that might come across as uncaring. But it has to be said.	Baitball Blogger	Jun 2012	#44
I have two friends who have donated kidneys, one who	LuckyLib	Jun 2012	#45
Amazing!	Control-Z	Jun 2012	#49
I'm down as an organ donator	Cherchez la Femme	Jun 2012	#48
Life expectancy of kidney donors appears to be similar or perhaps longer than non-donors	Ms. Toad	Jun 2012	#55
As someone with kidney disease, Thank your son for me	NightWatcher	Jun 2012	#50
Your son is a wonderful human being but . . .	StatGirl	Jun 2012	#51
Your son didn't get to be a great man by himself	leftynyc	Jun 2012	#52

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