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In the discussion thread: A message to anyone who doesn't support gay marriage. [View all]

Response to JoePhilly (Reply #69)

Wed May 9, 2012, 11:17 AM

NorthCarolina (6,791 posts)

81. Well, if you are a supporter, then obviously this

OP is not directed at you. However, to think that there are no posters on DU against gay marriage is naieve.

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202 replies	Author	Time	Post
A message to anyone who doesn't support gay marriage. [View all]	Kurska	May 2012	OP
You should post this on the WRAL site. I doubt many here are not supporting gay marriage. nt	gateley	May 2012	#1
I think you would be surprised.	Kurska	May 2012	#3
You're right -- I'd be very surprised, and undoubtedly very saddened. nt	gateley	May 2012	#5
yep. I'd be very surprised, dear.	cali	May 2012	#25
This comes up on DU every election cycle. After initial shock, I ceased being surprised in 2004. nt	DRoseDARs	May 2012	#39
oh, there were plenty on the other day...	awoke_in_2003	May 2012	#30
On the other hand, he may have garnered some pro-gay marriage voters who aren't	gateley	May 2012	#61
Then you would be wrong	dbackjon	May 2012	#101
Why not send a letter to a newspaper in North Carolina?	HereSince1628	May 2012	#2
You're preaching to the choir here.	AlbertCat	May 2012	#106
Maybe, although I think not on DU.	HereSince1628	May 2012	#109
If they had posted it in Religion forum...	froster	May 2012	#169
why post this here	quinnox	May 2012	#4
We should all be furious	Kurska	May 2012	#6
whatever, so you decided to post an angry rant against duers	quinnox	May 2012	#8
Any Duer that doesn't support gay marriage is my enemy.	Kurska	May 2012	#9
I love how you think your generation is full of enlightenment	quinnox	May 2012	#11
My generation is overwhelmingly infavor of it, but I have even more respect for older folks on the	Kurska	May 2012	#13
"My generation is overwhelmingly infavor of it"	ProudToBeBlueInRhody	May 2012	#23
Please reference this	Kurska	May 2012	#29
Young people in the sixties were overwhelmingly against war, then they grew up and voted GOP.	Dawgs	May 2012	#76
But the bigger picture is more important	WinniSkipper	May 2012	#131
Right... don't argue with Baby Boomers.	froster	May 2012	#172
Not arrogant at all	WinniSkipper	May 2012	#185
That's all well and good	pintobean	May 2012	#200
Statistically speaking, we're more in favor of it than other age groups	Hippo_Tron	May 2012	#191
As I said, the good news is the ones against it don't vote	ProudToBeBlueInRhody	May 2012	#192
While more younger people are for it.....	musical_soul	May 2012	#53
My parents were born in the late 1900s	Rozlee	May 2012	#78
I agree. We should be more angry.	OriginalGeek	May 2012	#14
Absolutely.	Kurska	May 2012	#16
+1. nt	awoke_in_2003	May 2012	#31
Hell yeah! Right there with ya, friend. nt	froster	May 2012	#173
it wasn't directed at DU'ers it was a righteous rant directed at bigots	maddezmom	May 2012	#89
Really?	dbackjon	May 2012	#102
I am extremely furious.	musical_soul	May 2012	#52
+1	HotRodTuna	May 2012	#117
Or maybe the younger generation is sick of appeasers and know-it-alls. nt	froster	May 2012	#175
They better get used to dealing with them	HotRodTuna	May 2012	#184
Youth does tend to bring that	LanternWaste	May 2012	#198
Not sure we should care much about the feelings of the people the OP's referring to. (nt)	Posteritatis	May 2012	#12
this kind of OP isn't exactly going to win them over	quinnox	May 2012	#17
I'm sick of coddling the feelings of bigots.	Kurska	May 2012	#20
I agree. And we have no national leaders to lead the charge of the public shaming of bigots.	Luminous Animal	May 2012	#22
Thank you for that moment of clarity.	Duncan Grant	May 2012	#68
At this point most of them aren't going to be won over anyway	Posteritatis	May 2012	#27
So, it's safe to assume	NorthCarolina	May 2012	#28
kinda picked up on that vibe myself	frylock	May 2012	#45
this seems to have really struck a chord	frylock	May 2012	#44
And what would this "honey" strategy of yours look like?	Duncan Grant	May 2012	#65
Fuck them all. They can't be won over with honey. But, they will eventually die out.	morningfog	May 2012	#71
Bullshit	dbackjon	May 2012	#103
I'm so sick of that pansy-ass line it makes me wanna puke every time I see a DUer spew it. nt	froster	May 2012	#176
How many times have you seen it in your 90 minutes of membership?	cyberswede	May 2012	#177
Aren't you observant? And wouldn't you like to know? ;-) nt	froster	May 2012	#179
Name one.	lumberjack_jeff	May 2012	#95
keep reading downthread and you'll fine one n/t	maddezmom	May 2012	#110
Why not post it here?	noamnety	May 2012	#57
+!!! nt	froster	May 2012	#178
There are lots of rightwing bigots lurking here.	Arugula Latte	May 2012	#67
Not just here.	Renew Deal	May 2012	#80
Thanks for outing yourself	RetroLounge	May 2012	#70
.	fascisthunter	May 2012	#86
People have a right to be angry	Renew Deal	May 2012	#79
Board nannies rule.	WilliamPitt	May 2012	#84
off-putting to who?	fascisthunter	May 2012	#85
Anonymous preaching to an anonymous choir is a low risk activity. n/t	lumberjack_jeff	May 2012	#94
Exactly. But responding with anything but total agreement is not.	HotRodTuna	May 2012	#119
Hey, HotShot! If you have a problem with LGBTQ rights, say it. n/t	TriMera	May 2012	#124
LOL	maddezmom	May 2012	#125
Yeah why would someone post this on our Brony fansite??	progressoid	May 2012	#105
That image is hilarious.	Ruby the Liberal	May 2012	#159
My hero! nt	froster	May 2012	#180
Your concern is noted. n/t	racaulk	May 2012	#129
Yeah OP, how dare you?	froster	May 2012	#171
Hopefully sooner than later.	Great Caesars Ghost	May 2012	#7
Are you saying everyone who doesn't support gay marriage is...old? Not sure what you mean, though I	uppityperson	May 2012	#10
I'm just referencing the demographics of the situation.	Kurska	May 2012	#15
Thanks for clarifying for me. That would be wonderful and I do think things are changing overall.	uppityperson	May 2012	#62
"like I said upthread it is hard to break with peers on issues like this."	WinniSkipper	May 2012	#139
Obsolete's probably a better term.	Posteritatis	May 2012	#18
I don't think what the OP is saying is completely off base.	Butterbean	May 2012	#21
OP is saying that more older people are against it than younger people.	Bladian	May 2012	#50
The things they do look awful c-c-c-cold..	Fumesucker	May 2012	#19
But bigots are a smaller percentage of younger generations	abelenkpe	May 2012	#111
I suspect that the OP will be as disillusioned with his own generation at my age as I am with my own	Fumesucker	May 2012	#193
good, but a much better phrase is marriage equality.	cali	May 2012	#24
Yes, but the older generations definitely spew more hate and bigotry, my dear.	Cali_Democrat	May 2012	#33
probably, sweetie, but that doesn't mean that young people are	cali	May 2012	#38
Of course I remember that, honey, but please see recent polls on marriage equality:	Cali_Democrat	May 2012	#40
uh, prejudice against GLBT folks isn't the only prejudice honeypie.	cali	May 2012	#48
I know prejudice against GLBT folks isn't the only prejudice	Cali_Democrat	May 2012	#49
honey, sweetheart, honeypie...are you two married?	HotRodTuna	May 2012	#153
Hit too close to home?	MNBrewer	May 2012	#54
Who on DU does not support gay marirage?	JoePhilly	May 2012	#26
"focus your anger at those who deserve it"	NorthCarolina	May 2012	#32
Yes, and again ... who on DU does not support gay marriage?	JoePhilly	May 2012	#69
This is part of an ongoing trend on DU. It's sad.	Dawgs	May 2012	#77
Well, if you are a supporter, then obviously this	NorthCarolina	May 2012	#81
There may be, but I have not seen anyone post that they are against gay marriage.	JoePhilly	May 2012	#114
Here you go!	NorthCarolina	May 2012	#174
Nicely done, NorthCarolina. That's called, "Ouch!" nt	froster	May 2012	#181
Actually it's called "that poster is no longer with us because they are a bigot"...but then neither	ScreamingMeemie	May 2012	#182
Not Directly	dbackjon	May 2012	#104
I guess I'd respond this way ...	JoePhilly	May 2012	#130
they are here	CreekDog	May 2012	#186
There's a realpolitik contingent here that would rather defer their support until "later."	Posteritatis	May 2012	#43
And of course	Bohunk68	May 2012	#112
Of course I want a unicorn. I mean, duh.	Posteritatis	May 2012	#170
Young people are our hope for the future.	nclib	May 2012	#34
Minor nitpick	eridani	May 2012	#35
Right on.	sarcasmo	May 2012	#36
You won't get many (any?) to respond directly to your message as DU automatically bans	kelly1mm	May 2012	#37
Why "disguised as faith"?	eallen	May 2012	#41
You can tell the difference by their actions	jeff47	May 2012	#97
Every faith interprets its scripture as it wants	eallen	May 2012	#197
There really isn't any room for interpretation here.	jeff47	May 2012	#199
There's always interpretation. Faith picks and chooses scripture.	eallen	May 2012	#202
Thanks, Kurska. You and most of the kids totally rock.	Zorra	May 2012	#42
LOL	redqueen	May 2012	#46
relatively old f*** here	Skittles	May 2012	#47
Me too!	Lifelong Protester	May 2012	#92
I'm still hoping and praying for a miracle.	musical_soul	May 2012	#51
Im from N.C., and I am appalled this is up for a vote.	mwdem	May 2012	#55
As went Gov. Wallace... so too will go anti-gay bigots. +1	Fearless	May 2012	#56
Spend your time where it matters.	Logical	May 2012	#58
Someone on here posted earlier that minority voters tend to oppose same-sex marriage.	Jamaal510	May 2012	#59
Why on EARTH would you believe that "statistic?" It's FALSE. You should KNOW that, as a black man.	DevonRex	May 2012	#73
That sounds like something feasible for the RW media to do--divide and conquer.	Jamaal510	May 2012	#74
That's right.	DevonRex	May 2012	#75
I just learned that the N.C. amendment is even worse than I thought.	pnwmom	May 2012	#60
Unfortunately, many NC voters were in the same boat.	jeff47	May 2012	#98
Obama doesn't support gay marriage...	MellowDem	May 2012	#63
I truly believe that	fruitsmoothie45	May 2012	#93
Oh yeah? I heard that he does.	pnwmom	May 2012	#189
Haha, touche!	MellowDem	May 2012	#196
That is a grave that will take many hands to dig	varelse	May 2012	#64
Yep. Most of you anti-gay folks are older and will DIE OUT.	Arugula Latte	May 2012	#66
Here ya go	Fla_Democrat	May 2012	#72
!	KG	May 2012	#82
That was a heartwarming diatribe	HotRodTuna	May 2012	#83
yeah, well, that wasn't why it was posted, so....	fascisthunter	May 2012	#88
yeah, lets worry about all the poor bigots reading DU	maddezmom	May 2012	#90
Well, it was posted on DU to DU readers	HotRodTuna	May 2012	#115
I'm not concerned about stealth trolls or bigots that read DU and are offended	maddezmom	May 2012	#116
Sometimes we get tired of hearing we have to handle this fight a certain way	justiceischeap	May 2012	#118
^^This^^ n/t	TriMera	May 2012	#123
Hey, guess what, fellow DU member?	Morning Dew	May 2012	#122
Guess what, my post was in regard to the hateful tone	HotRodTuna	May 2012	#155
so do you support marriage equality?	maddezmom	May 2012	#158
Sorry, I thought you asked "Do you think every single member of DU supports gay marriage?"	Morning Dew	May 2012	#162
If they want to abide by TOS, they will keep it to themselves.	Ruby the Liberal	May 2012	#168
Hit a nerve? ...nt	TeeYiYi	May 2012	#91
Amen.	AtheistCrusader	May 2012	#87
Gay Marriage will never happen	shagsak	May 2012	#96
We tried "separate but equal" once. It didn't go so well.	jeff47	May 2012	#100
You are partially right	shagsak	May 2012	#128
What you are proposing is not compromise.	Ruby the Liberal	May 2012	#134
Marriage is not a religious word	jeff47	May 2012	#151
You do understand that there is more at stake here from a legal perspective, no?	Ruby the Liberal	May 2012	#120
Absolutely	shagsak	May 2012	#133
Gay marriage will never happen... with attitudes like yours	justiceischeap	May 2012	#121
attitudes like mine?	shagsak	May 2012	#132
So we should just let them continue on in their bigotry?	Ruby the Liberal	May 2012	#135
You don't get to define marriage, period.	TriMera	May 2012	#136
There you go again.	Ruby the Liberal	May 2012	#141
I know, maybe someday I'll learn.	TriMera	May 2012	#144
You may very well have a progressive stance based on YOUR religious leanings	justiceischeap	May 2012	#150
Marriage precedes Christianity (by a very long time) and separate but equal never works.	LeftyMom	May 2012	#127
I'm reading just the opposite	Ruby the Liberal	May 2012	#137
No	shagsak	May 2012	#138
Pro equality? No you aren't.	Ruby the Liberal	May 2012	#140
Marriage is not a religious institution. That's why it's culturally universal in one form or another	LeftyMom	May 2012	#142
Well, great then!	shagsak	May 2012	#143
Religious Liberals from New Jersey who support marriage equality:	JackBeck	May 2012	#145
What's up is a separation of church and state.	TriMera	May 2012	#147
I know there are - I are one.	Ruby the Liberal	May 2012	#148
Stop blaming bigotry on your invisible friend.	LeftyMom	May 2012	#149
Not a Bigot, Not a Homophobe	shagsak	May 2012	#152
Recognizing other people's rights isn't persecuting you. Nobody's going to make you marry a dude.	LeftyMom	May 2012	#154
Maybe you shouldn't mock his "invisible friend"	HotRodTuna	May 2012	#156
Homophobia is very offensive to decent people.	LeftyMom	May 2012	#190
Gee, thats a relief.	Ruby the Liberal	May 2012	#160
Please explain how permitting people to marry persecutes you. (nt)	Posteritatis	May 2012	#188
Marriage is NOT solely religious. Married atheist couples are still married.	Zhade	May 2012	#201
A co-worker of mine just lost his "companion" of 28 years	blueamy66	May 2012	#99
When my partner	Bohunk68	May 2012	#113
I wish that I could change things.....	blueamy66	May 2012	#194
People tend to be selective when applying the term "bigot".	The Link	May 2012	#107
Well, check the news today. He just owned up.	HotRodTuna	May 2012	#157
"owned up"?	Ruby the Liberal	May 2012	#161
Yes, he's been very cagey about his stance	HotRodTuna	May 2012	#164
I have seen enough.	Ruby the Liberal	May 2012	#166
Ok...not sure what that's supposed to mean	HotRodTuna	May 2012	#183
owned up? kind of an odd phrase for supporting marriage	maddezmom	May 2012	#163
Considering that most people assumed he was for it	HotRodTuna	May 2012	#165
so do you support marriage equality? n/t	maddezmom	May 2012	#167
And younger generations will only remember them with shame. Nt	abelenkpe	May 2012	#108
I am so thankful your generation is more tolerant	Rex	May 2012	#126
Thank you - you give me hope for the future	lovemydog	May 2012	#146
those people are backward thinking	Rosa Luxemburg	May 2012	#187
I don't think that age totally defines this issue -	lynne	May 2012	#195

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