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96. VILE woman. That one then, and this one now.

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"She's gonna be the girl who cried 'rape,' and we'll never be allowed into any frat party again." [View all] kpete Nov 2014 OP

Awful shenmue Nov 2014 #1

Phi Kappa Psi suspended all operations today big_dog Nov 2014 #86

That is great news!!! elway7 Nov 2014 #88

I was once a Phi Psi ... staggerleem Nov 2014 #133

"'You have to remember where your loyalty lies.'" BlueJazz Nov 2014 #2

That question really stuck out to me... ReRe Nov 2014 #120

YES! And maybe those after you would not have had horrible things happen to them. BlueJazz Nov 2014 #122

It is unbelievable that these children... lisby Nov 2014 #145

"Never be allowed into any frat party again?" Brigid Nov 2014 #3

In fact that sounds like a feature mythology Nov 2014 #37

I saw that and said "Oh, boo-hoo. Cry me a river." calimary Nov 2014 #95

Some of the comments at RS are deplorable. Total denial of the facts of rape. JanMichael Nov 2014 #116

You make a good point in your second paragraph. truedelphi Nov 2014 #148

There was a promising period through the early sixties to early seventies, when being a G.D.I. maddiemom Nov 2014 #136

Who is their right mind would want to attend a frat party? McCamy Taylor Nov 2014 #139

That made me cry Stargazer09 Nov 2014 #4

He's what's called a sociopath and he will probably become a banker or a politician. Dont call me Shirley Nov 2014 #13

Unfortunately zentrum Nov 2014 #19

So the sins of the Fathers continues on. Human consciousness must rise above all forms of attack. Dont call me Shirley Nov 2014 #31

You're Also Not Sure We Would Have ProfessorGAC Nov 2014 #59

I'm sorry, but that's not true. AverageJoe90 Nov 2014 #74

He was a giant zentrum Nov 2014 #85

Not buying it, sorry. AverageJoe90 Nov 2014 #94

Okey-doke n/t zentrum Nov 2014 #98

OK, Sally Hemmings as Jefferson's slave mistress is historical fact. Even creepier, maddiemom Nov 2014 #137

It's out there, as well as, his extravagant lifestyle and he was constantly in arrears mackerel Nov 2014 #141

"It's out there" OK, but could you refer me to the actual references? maddiemom Nov 2014 #143

"Sometimes, I want off this planet." Same here. nomorenomore08 Nov 2014 #106

With "friends" like this... Marie Marie Nov 2014 #5

Yeah seriously. Initech Nov 2014 #16

Yes. LWolf Nov 2014 #33

That was my first thought. BeanMusical Nov 2014 #108

This is why the Greek frats need to be shut down. Odin2005 Nov 2014 #6

I agree Dorian Gray Nov 2014 #28

My daughter is attending Mount Holyoke College azmom Nov 2014 #82

It's beautiful up there. Dorian Gray Nov 2014 #103

I find it sad that women are resorting to self-segregation to protect themselves. Odin2005 Nov 2014 #112

My fraternity would never tolerate this sickening behavior. RedCappedBandit Nov 2014 #29

Nor would mine n/t VWolf Nov 2014 #56

At least they wouldn't carry an implied endorsement by the University ... eppur_se_muova Nov 2014 #66

The university needs to be more accountable RedCappedBandit Nov 2014 #75

It's probably less likely to occur at a dorm than a frat house SoCalDem Nov 2014 #71

The uni needs to be held more accountable RedCappedBandit Nov 2014 #73

The media in Calif. constantly reports on students who have won large truedelphi Nov 2014 #146

Don't put money on that. Pacifist Patriot Nov 2014 #79

When I was in college I was raped by an athlete. xmas74 Nov 2014 #117

Nor would the fraternity I work for. NuclearDem Dec 2014 #155

That won't solve anything - and it punishes the vast majority of kids LeftinOH Nov 2014 #34

The sports houses RedCappedBandit Nov 2014 #77

That's both an overreaction and won't solve the problem mythology Nov 2014 #39

If I were a woman I'd never date or marry any man who is in or had been in a frat. L0oniX Nov 2014 #43

My wife did VWolf Nov 2014 #57

Would you be able to tell? nt. RedCappedBandit Nov 2014 #78

On many campuses ... staggerleem Nov 2014 #134

I will stand up and say I disagree!` LynneSin Nov 2014 #84

I think your last paragraph is a good comprise solution! Odin2005 Nov 2014 #100

As I read the article . . . markpkessinger Nov 2014 #114

I have to agree LynneSin Nov 2014 #119

My college had no fraternities or sororities . . . markpkessinger Nov 2014 #121

Oops? maced666 Dec 2014 #154

ARRRGGGHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! uppityperson Nov 2014 #7

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Back so soon? hrmjustin May 2015 #163

I saw that one. In_The_Wind May 2015 #164

Hopefully otto will get it next time. hrmjustin May 2015 #165

It seems like they love to drop in around the MIRT change over. In_The_Wind May 2015 #166

The attitude of her "friends" are why it continues... Spazito Nov 2014 #8

yet people talk shit about black people in ferguson protesting. n/t. okieinpain Nov 2014 #9

UGH! sakabatou Nov 2014 #10

That university should be shut down Beaverhausen Nov 2014 #11

Does anybody else think it's weird that there's more criticism here for the three friends LeftyMom Nov 2014 #12

No, condemnation of the 7 putrid rapists is a given... Spazito Nov 2014 #15

In this culture I'm not at all convinced it's a given. LeftyMom Nov 2014 #17

The culture won't change if the continued cover-ups are accepted... Spazito Nov 2014 #20

That argument only works if anything gets done after the reports, LeftyMom Nov 2014 #21

You're advocating a rape victim not report the rape? Spazito Nov 2014 #22

I don't think that's what she said derby378 Nov 2014 #50

If only the poster had posted what you did... Spazito Nov 2014 #55

Not even remotely, chervilant Nov 2014 #102

The sequence of discussion went as follows... Spazito Nov 2014 #105

And I quote: chervilant Nov 2014 #107

That was how the post came across... Spazito Nov 2014 #111

I agree with what you're saying here. F4lconF16 Nov 2014 #24

Spazito, that is how I view it also. truedelphi Nov 2014 #147

I completely agree with you... Spazito Nov 2014 #149

Because in general I expect more of a random friend mythology Nov 2014 #40

yep Locrian Nov 2014 #44

Thanks for posting, kpete. You stand up for us when very few will. Dont call me Shirley Nov 2014 #14

I hope the federal investigation... NaturalHigh Nov 2014 #18

Jackie needs new friends. n/t FourScore Nov 2014 #23

Today I have told all the college aged kids I know: stay away from UVA Tsiyu Nov 2014 #25

VILE woman. That one then, and this one now. calimary Nov 2014 #96

Agreed Tsiyu Nov 2014 #124

EGG maced666 Dec 2014 #158

Because some of her "friends" Tsiyu Dec 2014 #159

Greek life is disgusting... Oktober Nov 2014 #26

I only went to one frat party Warpy Nov 2014 #27

I remember frat parties - they kept giving me beer to get me drunk hollysmom Nov 2014 #126

I drank a lot of beer as a kid Warpy Nov 2014 #129

It is? You must have intimate knowledge of this to make LeftinOH Nov 2014 #35

Are you suggesting that one would have to belong to a subset of a larger group.. Oktober Nov 2014 #38

Except the kkk is an organization based on hate mythology Nov 2014 #41

I'm sure they would suggest that they are based on pride and preservation.. Oktober Nov 2014 #42

The KKK is pretty clear about what they stand for (and against); LeftinOH Nov 2014 #47

Lighten up... Oktober Nov 2014 #49

Wow - you were just told to lighten up. Sheldon Cooper Nov 2014 #53

Except those organizations do NOT promote those things. At all. LeftinOH Nov 2014 #58

Not every greek fraternity promotes sexual assualt. RedCappedBandit Nov 2014 #80

Wow... chervilant Nov 2014 #89

K... Oktober Nov 2014 #90

That's rape culture, not the Greek system. NuclearDem Dec 2014 #157

College fraternities and sororities aren't the fucking KKK. NuclearDem Dec 2014 #156

Incredibly disturbing read. RedCappedBandit Nov 2014 #30

Read any of the many Cosby threads and you'll see people condemning his accusers for not Sheldon Cooper Nov 2014 #32

Awful. progressoid Nov 2014 #36

People have to learn that institutions of all sorts will cover up hedgehog Nov 2014 #45

k and r. I would say, I think I am going to be ill--but, sadly, what is reported there is nothing niyad Nov 2014 #46

It's not just UVA, FSU did the same. lark Nov 2014 #48

Reading this Rolling Stone article makes me really angry. Jenoch Nov 2014 #51

I know this happens, I just don't understand those folks who treat rape victims like this. stevenleser Nov 2014 #52

Oh, FFS! VA_Jill Nov 2014 #54

University President Teresa Sullivan requests Phi Kappa Psi Investigation mahatmakanejeeves Nov 2014 #60

sexual misconduct? what a pleasant little term for gang rape. niyad Nov 2014 #62

Shameful. salin Nov 2014 #67

The dirty little secret is that sexual misconduct happens at EVERY college SoCalDem Nov 2014 #70

One of the first steps we can take chervilant Nov 2014 #101

whatever you call it, it is (and always has been) pretty common on campuses SoCalDem Nov 2014 #118

My post herein above chervilant Nov 2014 #123

Her Judas friends are disgusting cowards LittleBlue Nov 2014 #61

Ironic but True: Ken Cuccinelli worked to combat sexual assault at UVa mahatmakanejeeves Nov 2014 #63

So sad that even she still blames herself... Whiskeytide Nov 2014 #64

Remorse and regret are not the same as blame ... nt eppur_se_muova Nov 2014 #68

You're dead wrong in this... Whiskeytide Nov 2014 #87

Then her "friends" are miserable, selfish shitsacks. Arkana Nov 2014 #65

This. ^^^^^^ calimary Nov 2014 #97

No more invites to frat parties = A fate worse than death. Not talking about rape = Loyalty. Tierra_y_Libertad Nov 2014 #69

What a damn shame. Is campus life *that* fuckin' important...... AverageJoe90 Nov 2014 #72

UVa asks police to investigate gang-rape allegations outlined in Rolling Stone article mahatmakanejeeves Nov 2014 #76

This is not the first time around for that fraternity. mahatmakanejeeves Nov 2014 #81

Why isn't it 'They were the boys who committed rape and that's why we had to ban frat houses' LynneSin Nov 2014 #83

That's a fair compromise Tsiyu Nov 2014 #125

Some eye opening stats in there shaayecanaan Nov 2014 #91

I'm sure I'm wasting my breath, but the point is that the serial sex offenders seem normal. Starry Messenger Nov 2014 #92

I completely agree shaayecanaan Nov 2014 #93

Yes d_r Nov 2014 #99

If the rapists all looked like wild eyes villains yardwork Nov 2014 #109

kick. nt cwydro Nov 2014 #104

Read this article earlier today . . .. markpkessinger Nov 2014 #110

This was near the start of Jackie's first year. freedom fighter jh Nov 2014 #144

Disgusting pigs! BeanMusical Nov 2014 #113

Dude GummyBearz Nov 2014 #115

pretty typical tho. redruddyred Nov 2014 #127

How hard can it be to get a criminal conviction with 7 rapists? Ash_F Nov 2014 #128

Nice best friends she had... :( Helen Borg Nov 2014 #130

School 'loyalty?' blackspade Nov 2014 #131

Cavalier Daily, Friday. Many links. mahatmakanejeeves Nov 2014 #132

Thanks for posting this... Spazito Nov 2014 #135

I've told all three of my kids that in my opinion it is best to stay away from mackerel Nov 2014 #138

Better yet, attend a college that does not allow frats or sororities. I did. McCamy Taylor Nov 2014 #140

That would be ideal. mackerel Nov 2014 #142

Class of '78... chervilant Nov 2014 #151

Kind of chills the bone iandhr Nov 2014 #150

HUGE K & R !!! - Thank You !!! WillyT Nov 2014 #152

A lot of people were fooled. Look really foolish now. maced666 Dec 2014 #153

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